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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Marcelo290(m): 4:38pm On Jan 10, 2018
cruzita:
So many reason,but no matter what a woman does, a real man would never hit d woman he loves and married wit his money
Forget that shii about a real man bla bla bla. some women can be annoyingly irritating.

Take this scenario. A man returns from work worried, tired and frustrated as a result of pressures from the office. He comes home sad and wasted, the woman on the other hand who is nagging and inconsiderate doesn't bother to know what's wrong. She enters the living room where the husband is resting and thinking away his sorrows, she starts her usual nagging and booing the poor man. He leaves the room for her and enters the bed room, she follows him and continues her ignoble behaviors, the man now enraged still kept still. She goes and drags his shirt, challenging him to do his worse. She had previously set the kids against their dad. As a result of the accumulated anger, considering the law in physics that states that when an object reaches it's elastic limits is bound to break, he could no longer take it and begins to unleash his anger on the woman, who then is to be blamed?

I'm not justifying the act but it takes a great level of self control to hold oneself considering the rate of nagging women around. Most persons commenting here don't know what people face in marriage, some women are the devil's incarnate, forget the fake smiles.

Some men on the other hand are just assholes that love mistreating women no matter how good she is.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Jan 10, 2018
ReinaFarine:

I hope you're joking sha
angry


∆ No. I don't do jokes that much.
Any problem with it? ∆
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jan 10, 2018
Violence is never the answer.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Lalas247(f): 4:47pm On Jan 10, 2018
OceanmorganTrix:



nagging grin grin grin
Lol grin it’s love
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Twoclans(f): 4:47pm On Jan 10, 2018
When a man hits a woman he gradually creates a monster living right under his roof.

The wives we see today killing their husbands with knifes and hot oil is a very small fraction to those who systematically poison their husbands and shed crocodile tears at their burial.

My advice to men, please don't hit a woman. lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Lalas247(f): 4:47pm On Jan 10, 2018
nezzar:

I already know who my wife will be cool , she isn't the nagging type
Oya whisper it to me cheesy do I know her
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Blackhawk03(f): 4:48pm On Jan 10, 2018
OceanmorganTrix:



so, na only pikin d legit to beat abi

Yeah, that's your child and there should be a limit to the spankings which eventually ends at a certain age sef.

Doesn't it sound absurd to your hearing? Beating up a grown up? You get sister like this? undecided
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by nezzar: 4:49pm On Jan 10, 2018
Lalas247:

Oya whisper it to me cheesy do I know her
lol....you don't

An aspiring pharmacistwink

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by ReinaFarine: 4:51pm On Jan 10, 2018
Marcelo290:
Forget that shii about a real man bla bla bla. some women can be annoyingly irritating.
h

She has been verbally and probably psychologically abusing him since, he should have filed for a divorce before it progressed to this.

You sha know, it doesn't matter if a man causes you 5 miscarriages from kicks to the stomach at various times, insults your mother by calling her a witch, insults you by calling you a washed up womb even if he married you a virgin... The day he calls his mother to say you slapped him once, you're a disrespectful, abusive, ill-mannered wife, and even your parents will side him to say ah! You shouldn't ever beat your husband... But beating a wife because of grievances is understandable although inexcusable?
Give me a break. If you can't tolerate her manner and attitude and you're ever tempted to hit her, file for a divorce and both of you should go for therapy.
If my man should ever, I repeat ever hit me, he will stay so long in jail he'll forget he was ever human.

If a man should hit my baby sister... For anything less than, I pushed her away because she was hurting me or the kids physically, I will pull out his spine and use it to hand him around his neck over burning coal and that's how we will wait for the cops together... We're both going down for domestic abuse and assault...

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Lalas247(f): 4:51pm On Jan 10, 2018
nezzar:

lol....you don't

An aspiring pharmacistwink
Anyway me n her dey similar field so its ok ..ladies who study science are lovely creatures grin
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by ReinaFarine: 4:52pm On Jan 10, 2018
OrestesDante:


angry



∆ No. I don't do jokes that much.

Any problem with it? ∆

What pray tell is the crime that deserves this height of disrespect from her partner?
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by WilsonMayowa(m): 4:53pm On Jan 10, 2018
Lalas247:

Anyway me n her dey similar field so its ok ..ladies who study science are lovely creatures grin
Men who studies science too are same

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Lalas247(f): 4:54pm On Jan 10, 2018
WilsonMayowa:

Men who studies science too are same

Tell me more cheesy
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by HeWrites(m): 4:54pm On Jan 10, 2018
Blackhawk03:

Beat me and say buhbye to your deek! angry angry
Eeewo shocked

Tufiakwa undecided
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by nezzar: 4:54pm On Jan 10, 2018
Lalas247:

Anyway me n her dey similar field so its ok ..ladies who study science are lovely creatures grin
OMG, Heavily endowed too, I just need someone that can understand the nature of my job

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Lalas247(f): 4:56pm On Jan 10, 2018
nezzar:

OMG, Heavily endowed too, I just need someone that can understand the nature of my job
True that .. because it’s a lot of work wt u do ...
Yes you will dear trust me once u finish the last bit of studies ... women will flock u .. remember I Told u this grin
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jan 10, 2018
Under no circumstances are you justified to hit another person

Sometimes it’s background that brings all these violent traits I’m still a avid supporter of walking away for a while and returning when things are cooled of not dosing the fire
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by nezzar: 4:59pm On Jan 10, 2018
Lalas247:

True that .. because it’s a lot of work wt u do ...
Yes you will dear trust me once u finish the last bit of studies ... women will flock u .. remember I Told u this grin
Women with money, Those are the people I am looking forward to meet cool
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Daniel2289(m): 5:00pm On Jan 10, 2018
Twoclans:
When a man hits a woman he gradually creates a monster living right under his roof.

The wives we see today killing their husbands with knifes and hot oil is a very small fraction to those who systematically poison their husbands and shed crocodile tears at their burial.

My advice to men, please don't hit a woman. lipsrsealed
Nice advice. One like for you.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Martin0(m): 5:06pm On Jan 10, 2018
Adonbiliv men still beat-up their wife/wives!

That bad!

See as for me I ve their cure coz I believe women have that yeye nagging spirit! It seems they are born to do so!!!


Well ve said ma own ooo make nobody come here call me asslicker ooogringrin
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by mhisbliss(f): 5:09pm On Jan 10, 2018
because they're weak

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by WilsonMayowa(m): 5:14pm On Jan 10, 2018
Lalas247:


Tell me more cheesy
I am one of them

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:20pm On Jan 10, 2018
Any woman experiencing domestic violence should leave that marriage before they become corpses the man won't change.
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:24pm On Jan 10, 2018
mhisbliss:
because they're weak
True talk.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jan 10, 2018
A gentle man will never raise his hands on his wife.
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:28pm On Jan 10, 2018
Marcelo290:
Forget that shii about a real man bla bla bla. some women can be annoyingly irritating.

Take this scenario. A man returns from work worried, tired and frustrated as a result of pressures from the office. He comes home sad and wasted, the woman on the other hand who is nagging and inconsiderate doesn't bother to know what's wrong. She enters the living room where the husband is resting and thinking away his sorrows, she starts her usual nagging and booing the poor man. He leaves the room for her and enters the bed room, she follows him and continues her ignoble behaviors, the man now enraged still kept still. She goes and drags his shirt, challenging him to do his worse. She had previously set the kids against their dad. As a result of the accumulated anger, considering the law in physics that states that when an object reaches it's elastic limits is bound to break, he could no longer take it and begins to unleash his anger on the woman, who then is to be blamed?

I'm not justifying the act but it takes a great level of self control to hold oneself considering the rate of nagging women around. Most persons commenting here don't know what people face in marriage, some women are the devil's incarnate, forget the fake smiles.

Some men on the other hand are just assholes that love mistreating women no matter how good she is.
Story for the gods.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:31pm On Jan 10, 2018
nezzar:
Beating her is the only solution, beating no dey kill person

#No nonsense
Marry the type that can beat you you won't say this nonsense.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:35pm On Jan 10, 2018
OrestesDante:
angry



∆ Some of them actually need corrective beating. There are sometimes you can't just walk away from her insults and verbal abuse.

Not just beating. A corrective one though!! ;-) ∆
You need corrective slapping.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Tallezt(m): 5:44pm On Jan 10, 2018
I am a woman beater oo. They can't get enough Of it. They do things to keep the beating coming. She is not your equal. She is an underling. Don't beat her and watch her walk over you like doormat except you a nice guy which she would dump soon

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by sirBLUNT: 5:46pm On Jan 10, 2018
Cc: lalasticlala mynd44 what do you guys think? don't you think such men should be castrated!

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by HeWrites(m): 5:55pm On Jan 10, 2018
If my wife offended me.. I will nor beat her..

The second day once we don settle and we are in good mood.. I will just take baby oku

Then we go meet in za oza room.

The kind of bleep wey I go give her... She won't be conscious enof to explain it grin

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jan 10, 2018
Even at that we should learn how to control our mouth tongue

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