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DearPeople:
Dear men,

There is always this voice of reason which constantly speaks through family members, particularly in choosing a partner. Listening to it sometimes does not mean you are weak or that you don't have a will of your own.

I am telling you..so many instances.

Hmmm this man had two shops ? I doubt.

Espada10:
Advise to men...no matter the kind of so called "love" you have for a woman...before you marry ..make sure you get approval from your mother or sisters...some idiots will call you weak for doing so but don't listen to them, it will save you from a lot of headache and drama in the future.

....This is the reason I said tha[b]t it is even risky to invest in your wife [/b]..in the other thread

Is life itself not a risk? Do you know if the next air you are going to breath in is poisoned? Will u then say i won't breath in cos there may be poison in the air?
Every single thing about life is a risk, you take risk every second of your life - all u need do is mitigate risk and proceed otherwise you won't be able to even live; eat, drink, breath, step out of your house, invest etc.
My point here is things like what was shared in this story shouldn't deter you from building/developing your wife - what of if u fall dead after 3kids who are still in primary school? Who will take care of them? - Your sibblings? or your aging parents? Believe me a mother will takr care of your kids just as you would have her do or even better than anyone else including your parents and siblings - i have seen many case examples.

You do not refrain from breathing because the air may kill you, you rather try purify the air and enjoy fresh air.

i have many biches
who claim they love me
buh they jus useless
see what goes up
must come down.
i aint got no worries
af blocked them all on whatsapp
and moving on.

PrettyCrystal:
A man identified as Azubuike Okoye has revealed how his wife almost ruined his life after looting his properties and eloping with school boyfriend abroad. According to the man, the wife also abandoned their son whom was taken care of by their neighbour while he traveled to buy some goods.

Read the report shared by the Humans of Abuja on behalf of the man who has now forgiven his wife.

My decision not to listen to my family has almost ruined my life.

I met her four years ago, I thought she was an Angel sent to me by God,immediately I went ahead to see her family and perform the necessary rites, and after eight months of our traditional wedding we got wedded in the church. After our first child a Boy, I was so happy that I to ask her to quit her Job and I opened a branch of my business for her, deal on Fabrics at Wuse market, I gave her access to everything she wants, but she gave me the shock of my life last year when I traveled to go and buy goods upon my arrival I only found my son with my Neighbor at my House.

He narrated to me how he came back from the market and found my son Sitting outside and crying and he haven’t seen my wife since two weeks , I thought that was all until the next day that I went to the market I opened my shop it was empty and I went to her own, it was empty,I almost killed myself but thank God I didn’t.

I called her it was switched off, I later got to know that she eloped with her school boyfriend to Abroad, my family actually kicked against me getting married to her but I only thought my sisters were just being jealous and insecure because I am the only male child but I never knew they saw what I never saw in her.

Thank God I have moved on, I have forgiven her and I wish her well in her new found love and home, as for me all I have got to do now is to secure my sons future and make sure he doesn’t lack anything nor make same mistake I made.

Some women are the reason why people tag ladies gold diggers,she only got married to me to steal from me. Please my advice to every single man out there don’t be blindfolded by love,while in love try and also listen to your family their reasons might be genuine..

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/man-reveals-wife-looted-goods-eloped-boyfriend-abroad.html

You came back to discover she was gone for two weeks. Meaning you didn't call her for 2 weeks?

Something is not adding up here.

Men do this all the time to women. Now it's payback time haha

TheHistorian:
You married someone you don't know her relatives?

BullCrap!

Guy,didnt u hear that he went to the family and performed marriage rites,cant u read inbetween the lines?

some women are the reason why there is no true love, meanwhile bros no human is above mistake , if it were me, I will redeploy the whole 82 division in his parents village, pull every structure down, invite my Fulani herders to come and take over his village until his village people provide her or my money

[quote author=TheHistorian post=64075247]You married someone you don't know her relatives?

BullCrap![/quote


Meme! A very crappy decision to make. He has himself to blame too. I hope someone learn from this]

TheHistorian:
You married someone you don't know her relatives?

BullCrap!

From which story?
Hope you read all, there's no where that says he doesn't know the family.

you go mess with naija ladies

for your mind your mind you don see love?

dem go finish you !
hungery,longgathroat ,ill mannered
olosho lot!



I avoid them like a plague




#teamforeignwhitewife

PrettyCrystal:
A man identified as Azubuike Okoye has revealed how his wife almost ruined his life after looting his properties and eloping with school boyfriend abroad. According to the man, the wife also abandoned their son whom was taken care of by their neighbour while he traveled to buy some goods.

Read the report shared by the Humans of Abuja on behalf of the man who has now forgiven his wife.

My decision not to listen to my family has almost ruined my life.

I met her four years ago, I thought she was an Angel sent to me by God,immediately I went ahead to see her family and perform the necessary rites, and after eight months of our traditional wedding we got wedded in the church. After our first child a Boy, I was so happy that I to ask her to quit her Job and I opened a branch of my business for her, deal on Fabrics at Wuse market, I gave her access to everything she wants, but she gave me the shock of my life last year when I traveled to go and buy goods upon my arrival I only found my son with my Neighbor at my House.

He narrated to me how he came back from the market and found my son Sitting outside and crying and he haven’t seen my wife since two weeks , I thought that was all until the next day that I went to the market I opened my shop it was empty and I went to her own, it was empty,I almost killed myself but thank God I didn’t.

I called her it was switched off, I later got to know that she eloped with her school boyfriend to Abroad, my family actually kicked against me getting married to her but I only thought my sisters were just being jealous and insecure because I am the only male child but I never knew they saw what I never saw in her.

Thank God I have moved on, I have forgiven her and I wish her well in her new found love and home, as for me all I have got to do now is to secure my sons future and make sure he doesn’t lack anything nor make same mistake I made.

Some women are the reason why people tag ladies gold diggers,she only got married to me to steal from me. Please my advice to every single man out there don’t be blindfolded by love,while in love try and also listen to your family their reasons might be genuine..

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/man-reveals-wife-looted-goods-eloped-boyfriend-abroad.html

So you travelled and didn't keep in touch with your wife everyday to even speak to your son? The whole world is connected by phone now so you would have known something is up the 1st day she didn't pick up tankless of 2 weeks.
Story for the Gods

For the story been truthful or not, this is not the first! I've seen about two cases and at the end; the ladies were deceived to embarked on a journey to the West and it's now untold or unfinished stories.

The two other cases journeyed to Morocco and gorged there. Guy await for your wife's call.

Bros. Just relax your mind. Try to carry on with your wife and never let that destabilize you. I bet you that she will come back begging. God is perfect. Try take care of your son. My view!

TheHistorian:
You married someone you don't know her relatives?

BullCrap!

How would knowing her relatives stop what she did?! Try get some sense nao...

The woman never loved the man. The man was doing the loving alone... Advise to guys, don't be selfish in love because show of love can overwhelm any woman on earth into marrying you while she doesn't really have any feelings for you... Then you will have a marriage to cope with and eventual broken home. Allow the babe to love you too don't get carried away because of her physical or ethereal attributes.

PrettyCrystal:
A man identified as Azubuike Okoye has revealed how his wife almost ruined his life after looting his properties and eloping with school boyfriend abroad. According to the man, the wife also abandoned their son whom was taken care of by their neighbour while he traveled to buy some goods.

Read the report shared by the Humans of Abuja on behalf of the man who has now forgiven his wife.

My decision not to listen to my family has almost ruined my life.

I met her four years ago, I thought she was an Angel sent to me by God,immediately I went ahead to see her family and perform the necessary rites, and after eight months of our traditional wedding we got wedded in the church. After our first child a Boy, I was so happy that I to ask her to quit her Job and I opened a branch of my business for her, deal on Fabrics at Wuse market, I gave her access to everything she wants, but she gave me the shock of my life last year when I traveled to go and buy goods upon my arrival I only found my son with my Neighbor at my House.

He narrated to me how he came back from the market and found my son Sitting outside and crying and he haven’t seen my wife since two weeks , I thought that was all until the next day that I went to the market I opened my shop it was empty and I went to her own, it was empty,I almost killed myself but thank God I didn’t.

I called her it was switched off, I later got to know that she eloped with her school boyfriend to Abroad, my family actually kicked against me getting married to her but I only thought my sisters were just being jealous and insecure because I am the only male child but I never knew they saw what I never saw in her.

Thank God I have moved on, I have forgiven her and I wish her well in her new found love and home, as for me all I have got to do now is to secure my sons future and make sure he doesn’t lack anything nor make same mistake I made.

Some women are the reason why people tag ladies gold diggers,she only got married to me to steal from me. Please my advice to every single man out there don’t be blindfolded by love,while in love try and also listen to your family their reasons might be genuine..

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/man-reveals-wife-looted-goods-eloped-boyfriend-abroad.html

super story

CaptainJeffry:
Chai. This is why I dread women more than war front. Imagine leaving her own son behind just for obodo oyibo.
All these news make marriage so scary, damn.

No love for the family . A true mother will not abandon the child for pleasure.

Nutase:
Demonic. Brother karma dey wait her for corner.

how you take no say no be karma this brother dey face. Wet in happen to his other relationships before he meet this girl. Make he tell us. Karma cor karma nee.

should have thought better before rushing to marry did whorre, at least she didn't sell ur son to pay for flight tickets, she must be from IMO or anambra.

cstr1001:
oho!!!!

I even advised that they invest in their wives after 1 or 2 children. It looks like that is now becoming a foolish advise.

the best thing is to invest in your children by yourself...it is very simple...you can set up an education fund or hospital fund or any type of fund with a bank.. you or evn your wife can save money with the bank, any money you put in, won't be touched unless it is for the following reasons...banks are doing it nowadays...before you trust you wife with anything...make sure it is something you can bear or feel nothing, if anything happens to it..if not, pls don't. ..marriage nowadays, you have to agile and vigilant because things may be happening right under your nose, you are not aware of...pls , it doesnt mean you should start stalking or monitoring your wife activities unnecessary but dont be non-chalant or lackadaisical about it either...pay attention to what comes out of mouth, don't rule out anything suspicious. ..example, if any of your child do not look like you or you have a small suspicion ..pls do a DNA test. .if your wife is in the habit of talking on the phone or excessive chatting on social media but quickly start behaving somehow, once you enter in to the room..something is up.
you can forgive your wife of anything
If your wife is drunkard ..forgive her if you can
If your wife is dirty...forgive her if you can
If your wife cant handle money..forgive her if you can and pay attention to what she always does with it
If your wife is the quarrelsome type...forgive her if you can
If your wife is lazy...forgive her if you can
If your wife has become fat an unattractive .. forgive her if you can


but do not ever forgive cheating ( whether emotional or physical). .. for your own sanity...move on immediately

Another Igbo wife showcasing they are nothing but harlots.

BabbanBura:
Is life itself not a risk? Do you know if the next air you are going to breath in is poisoned? Will u then say i won't breath in cos there may be poison in the air?
Every single thing about life is a risk, you take risk every second of your life - all u need do is mitigate risk and proceed otherwise you won't be able to even live; eat, drink, breath, step out of your house, invest etc.
My point here is things like what was shared in this story shouldn't deter you from building/developing your wife - what of if u fall dead after 3kids who are still in primary school? Who will take care of them? - Your sibblings? or your aging parents? Believe me a mother will takr care of your kids just as you would have her do or even better than anyone else including your parents and siblings - i have seen many case examples.

You do not refrain from breathing because the air may kill you, you rather try purify the air and enjoy fresh air.

the bolded is what I am talking about...you mother or sister should act as the risk mitigator and the purifiers before you embark on any marriage..

pocohantas:
Sad story. Some women are genuinely in love with a very broke guy and would use the available rich guy as a sponsor. He'll sponsor before marriage and sponsor in marriage [unknowingly]. His wife only took her own a step further by eloping with her lover.

What kind of woman abandons her child for a lover?
What kinda man would trust such a woman?
Both her and the school boyfriend are stupid.

He should take heart. She'll reap what she has sown.

she will not reap anything evil.

the husband is just an unwise soul..

how can you be married to a woman and u dont have control over her or ur finances?

if u dont have control over her atleast have control over ur finances/ ur business...

where was he, when the woman was emptying the shop
lets assumed he travelled to the village, atleast he has shop neighbours, they would have called him

i always tell people, whenever a woman/lady tells u that she loves.. she is indirectly telling u that she loves ur money..

so if u want to always keep her with in ur control, make sure that ur money/business is 100% with in ur control.
because the day she controls ur money/business, then she wouldnt need u again and thats the end of her so called I LOVE U.

so be wised MEN

NgcoboP:
This reinforces my views that:
A man is NOT supposed to spend on a woman.
He is supposed to spend on his investment which a woman is NOT part of.
The woman may partake in enjoying some of the fruits of the investment.

Men should stop seeing women as an investment.

Women also invest their time, money n effort on men n their marriages, yet they still get slighted n pushed aside when the man deems it fit. So.... It goes both ways.

timilinda:
Women also invest their time, money n effort on men n their marriages, yet they still get slighted n pushed aside when the man deems it fit. So.... It goes both ways.

They shouldn't.

TheHistorian:
You married someone you don't know her relatives?

BullCrap!

Did you read the post at all? Go back and read.

Bros don't complain, Eve did worst to Adam. It is in the DNA of women.

TheHistorian:
You married someone you don't know her relatives?

BullCrap!

Note :He went to see her people and performed the necessary rites.....



Didn't you read?

AreaFada2:
That woman does not deserve the title "Mother".

But she thinks she can come back in the future and entice the kids with money. Sadly it works. Blood is thicker than water.

A relative's wife abandoned him & their two kids when her hubby was going through a bad patch. She followed another man. Her hubby deeply loved her and he fell into depression.

She also left the second hubby and traveled abroad years later. Around 15 years after abandoning the kids, she began sending them money through her mother (kids' maternal grandmother). The same grandmother who never looked for the kids all those years.

The kids (now young adults) began going close to grandmother because of money. The kids eventually left the paternal family that looked after them once enough money was coming.

Even though the kids always vowed to shun their mother if she ever comes looking for them. But alas, money answereth all things.

hoes everywhere, Wives are few.

majekdom2:
there is only one blokos.... ONE that has the access to the heart of a woman. Most marriages are in trouble these days because the blokos in the marriage isnt the one

ClitoPen:
I hope the school boyfriend is not playing the same game on her!! Chain reaction loading....

It's obvious that the dude will soon abandon her and look for another babe.Time will tell!