donstan18:




Are you new on this forum?

Check Vicfuntop. That's my old moniker. Just opened this last night

Hey God!
Play along naa... why come dey run?
Collect ring, met with her later and ask what's up?
If you ain't ready... let her know. I don't see it as a big deal o, but trust some women. Must always use it against you.
Here is Africa naa. Some things should be left with the men.

The guy fear.
O ya gbera[color=#770077][/color]

looking like psquare

Viicfuntop:


Check Vicfuntop. That's my old moniker. Just opened this last night

Checked, seen and noted
You did for some confidential reasons?

greiboy:
Really, so the current generations of men should suffer from something there were never part of. That will be justice to feminism right?

it is like saying Europeans should be captured by Africans and used as slaves on African farms, in order for justice to reign.

Shouldn't we be working together for a free society for all ? is that not what social justice is all about?

So if you a sane person like you claim, what do you think of the way the man refused the woman's proposal. Is it fair? Does he have the right to refuse her proposal?

As long as men and women keep giving themselves ultimatums in a union that should be partnership, they'll keep clashing. Selfless and cooperative couples are not being stressed out in same union.

He has the right to reject the proposal.
But I don't support publicly embarrassing her.

greiboy:
To be fair to the man, the lady was the one who made it uncomfortable for him. She took it to the public not the guy.

LOL, to be fair to him.
The twist was too much for him to handle

The guy na Americana no wonder Ifeoma go dey propose to am. Kai ifeoma fall my hand o,see embarrassment for public

biacan:
Lefu forget that guy matter him don cast already

dem say na married man

lefulefu:
dem say na married man

Enya she nah side chick

pocohantas:


As long as men and women keep giving themselves ultimatums in a union that should be partnership, they'll keep clashing. Selfless and cooperative couples are not being stressed out in same union.

He has the right to reject the proposal.
But I don't support publicly embarrassing her.

she out of desperation embarrassed herself publicly. Stop being sentimental

pocohantas:


As long as men and women keep giving themselves ultimatums in a union that should be partnership, they'll keep clashing. Selfless and cooperative couples are not being stressed out in same union.

He has the right to reject the proposal.
But I don't support publicly embarrassing her.

To be fair to the man, the lady was the one who made it uncomfortable for him. She took it to the public not the guy.

biacan:
Enya she nah side chick

confirmed side chick

crazymommy:
As for me I think the guy shouldn't have run away,that is a cowardly act....collect the ring and move her away from the scene then you can now reject her privately....and on the lady part I am irritated right now,she showed a lot of desperation....that is what happens when a lady is very desperate to get married and also the clueless society made it look like marriage is the biggest achievement in life....nonsense....honestly I am ashamed of how she was shamefully ashamed of the embarrassing embarassment...see the way her friend or sister was even embarrassed too...if the guy want to spend his life with her he would have proposed to her on his own....

collect the ring because she is a girl girls do exactly what this guy did almost everyday... nobody makes noise about it... now it's coming from a guy ...you are advising he should have taken the ring?? the way girls do take theirs before rejection Ba?

pocohantas:


As long as men and women keep giving themselves ultimatums in a union that should be partnership, they'll keep clashing. Selfless and cooperative couples are not being stressed out in same union.

He has the right to reject the proposal.
But I don't support publicly embarrassing her.

The girl sef shouldn't have proposed publicly

crazymommy:
As for me I think the guy shouldn't have run away,that is a cowardly act....collect the ring and move her away from the scene then you can now reject her privately....and on the lady part I am irritated right now,she showed a lot of desperation....that is what happens when a lady is very desperate to get married and also the clueless society made it look like marriage is the biggest achievement in life....nonsense....honestly I am ashamed of how she was shamefully ashamed of the embarrassing embarassment...see the way her friend or sister was even embarrassed too...if the guy want to spend his life with her he would have proposed to her on his own....

There is nothing cowardly there. In this age where men and women are said to be equal everybody is free to reject anyhiw he wants. People won't raise this kind of dust if it was the girl that rejected the guy.

Toks2008:


This was why I created this factual thread but lalasticlala no Wan push am to main page...

https://www.nairaland.com/3871796/when-nigeria-gender-equality-bill

you killed it. That number 1 point (romance) is exactly what we on about now. Lol

crazymommy:
As for me I think the guy shouldn't have run away,that is a cowardly act....collect the ring and move her away from the scene then you can now reject her privately....and on the lady part I am irritated right now,she showed a lot of desperation....that is what happens when a lady is very desperate to get married and also the clueless society made it look like marriage is the biggest achievement in life....nonsense....honestly I am ashamed of how she was shamefully ashamed of the embarrassing embarassment...see the way her friend or sister was even embarrassed too...if the guy want to spend his life with her he would have proposed to her on his own....

should he accept her publicly and reject her after that, the act would begin to trend. So publicly declining her is better. Btw feminists spotted.

Those girls saying, he should have accepted the ring and in a close door reject her. Stupid thought.

My question to them, those girls that rejected their guys proposals publicly, why didn't they act that way but rather wanted to disgrace him publicly and when such happens to a guy, all this little girls will be happy saying all sort of nonsense against the guy but now a guy rejected a girls proposal they are suggesting all this.
He doesn't want to marry her or maybe she has slept with his best friend and had to disgrace her publicly.
If girls feels like it's good to disgrace a man publicly it's also very right to disgrace them publicly.
I am so impressed about the guy's way of disgracing her publicly too. Nice one bro

lefulefu:
confirmed side chick

But when the man come marry nah

crazymommy:
As for me I think the guy shouldn't have run away,that is a cowardly act....collect the ring and move her away from the scene then you can now reject her privately....and on the lady part I am irritated right now,she showed a lot of desperation....that is what happens when a lady is very desperate to get married and also the clueless society made it look like marriage is the biggest achievement in life....nonsense....honestly I am ashamed of how she was shamefully ashamed of the embarrassing embarassment...see the way her friend or sister was even embarrassed too...if the guy want to spend his life with her he would have proposed to her on his own....

You're not crazy, you're a sensible mommy for that bolded statement. It baffles me how Africans take marriage as an achievement! They don't even care about their career, passion, making it in life, having a good and fulfilled life.........All they care about is marriage!

Your married friends who lives in a "face me i slap you" house with kids and no passion to live good life, will be rubbing it on your face, while you live in a good flat, you drive a good car and have a good job. To them marriage is all and all in life. This is just so crazy and annoying.
Meanwhile, they keep begging you for money.

wunderkindkayod:
who forgot the lady who poured water on a guy that wanted to propose to her at Accra mall today payback at Ikeja city mall

how e take be payback? ...the guy no pour her water na

Ishilove:

The girl sef shouldn't have proposed publicly

I don't even support public proposals, but if someone I am dating proposes to me publicly...I wouldn't reject it there.

and thou in the end, men will be forced to get married. -[ Dagash Book Of Common Sense. Chapter 7:verse 12 ]

biacan:
But when the man come marry nah

well according to one aproko wey claim to be the friend of the lady wey d guy reject her proposal.she say d guy dey married and dat was the reason he refused the proposal.say he come whisper am to the babe ear and dat come make the babe dey cry.anyway we dey wait for the guy to come defend imsef.

lefulefu:
well according to one aproko wey claim to be the friend of the lady wey d guy reject her proposal.she say d guy dey married and dat was the reason he refused the proposal.say he come whisper am to the babe ear and dat come make the babe dey cry.anyway we dey wait for the guy to come defend imsef.

You see why I nor dey love guys go dip

donstan18:


Checked, seen and noted

You did for some confidential reasons?

It was about time I dropped it then. The moniker was notorious

I almost died of laughter


Why was she crying? I swear it was funny.mmm

She is just over reacting joor...

Amarabae:
Even if he was not interested, he would have pretended and accept the thing to save her from embarrassment.
Then when they reach home, he will then reject it secretly before her .
The girl also should be blamed too, if you wanted to take this big risk, why in an open crowded place?
Why not in a secret place?

why not tell that to a thousand and one girls that do that to men.

even last week one has to pour water on a dude that was proposing to stay with her for his entire life

so vice versa

biacan:
You see why I nor dey love guys go dip

l can understand the dubiousity of some guys but then if u with a guy that's married there is no how u won't know he has a wife.at least those nights he's with u his wife must call...abi?

lefulefu:
l can understand the dubiousity of some guys but then if u with a guy that's married there is no how u won't know he has a wife.at least those nights he's with u his wife must call...abi?

True but married men are the best set of people to date they spend more #FACTS

pp802:


You're not crazy, you're a sensible mommy for that bolded statement. It baffles me how Africans take marriage as an achievement! They don't even care about their career, passion, making it in life, having a good and fulfilled life.........All they care about is marriage!

Your married friends who lives in a "face me i slap you" house with kids and no passion to live good life, will be rubbing it on your face, while you live in a good flat, you drive a good car and have a good job. To them marriage is all and all in life. This is just so crazy and annoying.
Meanwhile, they keep begging you for money.

but then at the end of the day with ur big flat and flashy car u will still yarn for Companionship.see, we are humans and its natural for us to yen for the company of another and this is where marriage plays a part. Though its still better being single than getting married to a terrorist.

Heard the dude is married