RuthDaniels:
Lol!

You have done nothing! you are still hiding and yes there are other ladies going through what you are experiencing right now, so your hidden identity will help neither of you.

Anyways I hope you sort out your feelings.

omochelsea004:
hmmmmmm... breakup is not easy at all, & u may not knw how it feels until it happens to u

dollyjoy:
Nothing messes up the brain like the way breakups do..... Especially, when family and friends are aware of the affair.... It's a crazy feeling.

500NLaccounts:

[s] I thought I was strong
I thought I was tough
I thought I didn’t care
I thought I was in charge of my emotions
Unfortunately it hurts quite a bit
Feels like little pins stabbing my chest
I could feel the revulsion and jealousy flow through me
I hated that feeling that way
And the funny thing is that nothing was even really going on
I refused to give him an answer
But we were close all the same
Too close to be called just friends
But not close enough to be called lovers
I couldn’t just deal with him
I couldn’t meet up nor keep up
He was way older and out of my league
Maybe a bit too exposed for me
I couldn’t stop him from doing things I hated
I wouldn’t even try to
He’s a grown ass man and I shouldn’t dictate to him what he could and couldn’t do
He’s such a sweet soul
So kind and caring
And he never hurt me
But I couldn’t just overlook the past deeds
Nor the present ones
Not to even think of the future ones
I couldn’t allow myself to be overcome by insecurities or suspicions
So it’s better I just let it all go and end it
But how could I end something that never even started lol?
And most importantly, how do I break it to him?
He’d take it without flinching of course
After all he’s got dozens at his beck and call
Guess I was the special one
But it’s really hurting me deep inside
But I have to do this for my sanity and peace of mind
Sigh [/s]

dollyjoy:
Nothing messes up the brain like the way breakups do..... Especially, when family and friends are aware of the affair.... It's a crazy feeling.

500NLaccounts:
I’m not hiding, I got banned and he’s not a nairalnder
I just needed to let out what I felt

Lol! if you say so

Let it all out! And heal with time.

donstan18:


C'omon brO,!! No time.

Love na Scam!!

Blackfyre:


That's a lie, a brain injury is worse, so is Alzheimer's, and possibly even a terrible migraine.

BiafranBushBoy:
I dread break ups.

It leaves you confused, dejected, mentally unstable and above all, unproductive.

I hate break ups!!

I hate it!!

Sorry about your case dear...

dollyjoy:
You "think"

For me Breaking up with someone you deeply care about is the worst feeling so far.

Blackfyre:


Well lets hope you don't experience any of the afoementiined stuffs.

500NLaccounts:
I’m a sis
And I still believe true love exists

Peachess:
Break ups are very painful no matter the nature of the break up especially when you truly loved the person. Just delete all memories of him, you'll get hurt if you still contact him. Trust me, I've been there. It's so easy to advise people on break up but carrying it out is the problem.

Wiziman:
Goddyviva or wetin, who do you this thing? Remove pride and reason with him he will consider..

500NLaccounts:
I’m telling you
Before when I see people cry or get upset over a breakup, I thought they were being weak and dramatic but now I’m in their shoes, I can see it’s not easy at all.

500NLaccounts:

I thought I was strong
I thought I was tough
I thought I didn’t care
I thought I was in charge of my emotions
Unfortunately it hurts quite a bit
Feels like little pins stabbing my chest

makydebbie:
After all my agidi sef, the whole breakup issue made me fall very sick. I can relate hun, break up and letting go is so fvcking hard. You'll get over him, take care.




Chai, I can totally relate. Get busy hun, you won't remember how time flies when you do. You'll be fine.

500NLaccounts:
Oh thank you so much for the kind words Debbie.

500NLaccounts:
Exactly!
Thanks babe
I’d try
Haven’t called him today although I was so tempted to
I’ll be fine

debspauly:
Nawa ooo just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I don't feel a thing.. well I guess some people are just emotionally weak.!!

makydebbie:
She may be emotionally weak in your opinion, but for you to think that way, you must be unbelievablely stupid. Now, that's my opinion.