₦airaland Forum

Blackhawk01:
This won't work. I'm speaking from experience.
This could wreck anyone though.

your experience or someone else's? I hope its not the formal....else...

that's an infection, since pills ain't working, buy goko cleanser for her or ask her whether she had use cucumber on her self before.

tecnolad:
She sleeps light, and the few times we slept together, she didn't take much water. She told me it's not about how much water she takes.

Hey! I know you're in an unexpected situation, but I urge you to apply caution even as you seek advice from friends and nairaland. I hope you realize she trusted you with one of her darkest challenges, you should be careful not to tarnish the image of someone You MAY OR MAY NOT BE WITH after this your "Your Solution" searching.

as for the issue proper...

Look... I'm religious, as are Nigerians in general. I'm probably more religious than you. BUT MY RELIGIOUSNESS WILL NEVER BE ALLOWED TO CLOUD MY RATIONALE.

What I'm saying is that the biggest mistake you could make is to think THAT anything abnormal that happens is SPIRITUAL.

you have internet access surely, in an hour or two, you could get all the information on adult bed wetting with medically healthy people. most times there is no cure and it is nothing spiritual. just one of the those things that happens without a solution. some adults may outgrow it later, could be 30, 40, or 50 years, but it happens to white and black folks all over the world and it is NOT SPIRITUAL.

At 23, I believe your girlfriend has tried every tactic humanly possible to get rid of it, I understand her situation.

for the fact that you said it happens say: 5 times in 365 days tells you she has control most of the times. save for those fateful 5 days where she just can't help it.

So, Tecnolad! I'd like to remind you, it's only happening roughly 5-10 nights out of 365 days, according to you.
what's 10 dull mornings worth to your relationship with this person?

its your call to make. personally, its not a desirable trait but it is not a deal breaker for me at all!

you'll definitely find another lady without this challenge. but who knows what you'll be running into?

I don't know what love is. But I no it is not telling someone " I love you", only to bolt at the very sight of a challenging situation.

YOU'RE THE ONE IN LOVE! YOU DECIDE WHAT YOUR LOVE CAN CONQUER.

Go to a hospital and see a doctor. There are medications for that.

KRISTON:
that's an infection, since pills ain't working, buy goko cleanser for her or ask her whether she had use cucumber on her self before.

She's a virgin

leonard002:
Go to a hospital and see a doctor. There are medications for that.

Thanks bro. I'll be going with her to hospitals. I pray we find a solution

jelel6:
Hey! I know you're in an unexpected situation, but I urge you to apply caution even as you seek advice from friends and nairaland. I hope you realize she trusted you with one of her darkest challenges, you should be careful not to tarnish the image of someone You MAY OR MAY NOT BE WITH after this your "Your Solution" searching.

as for the issue proper...

Look... I'm religious, as are Nigerians in general. I'm probably more religious than you. BUT MY RELIGIOUSNESS WILL NEVER BE ALLOWED TO CLOUD MY RATIONALE.

What I'm saying is that the biggest mistake you could make is to think THAT anything abnormal that happens is SPIRITUAL.

you have internet access surely, in an hour or two, you could get all the information on adult bed wetting with medically healthy people. most times there is no cure and it is nothing spiritual. just one of the those things that happens without a solution. some adults may outgrow it later, could be 30, 40, or 50 years, but it happens to white and black folks all over the world and it is NOT SPIRITUAL.

At 23, I believe your girlfriend has tried every tactic humanly possible to get rid of it, I understand her situation.

for the fact that you said it happens say: 5 times in 365 days tells you she has control most of the times. save for those fateful 5 days where she just can't help it.

So, Tecnolad! I'd like to remind you, it's only happening roughly 5-10 nights out of 365 days, according to you.
what's 10 dull mornings worth to your relationship with this person?

its your call to make. personally, its not a desirable trait but it is not a deal breaker for me at all!

you'll definitely find another lady without this challenge. but who knows what you'll be running into?

I don't know what love is. But I no it is not telling someone " I love you", only to bolt at the very sight of a challenging situation.

YOU'RE THE ONE IN LOVE! YOU DECIDE WHAT YOUR LOVE CAN CONQUER.

I don't know how to thank you for this. God bless you!

tecnolad:
I never thought I'd ever have to write something similar to this, but we can't choose what life serves us at times, right?

I met this girl while I serving in Enugu and we started out as friends until the chemistry grew stronger and our friendship snowballed into a relationship. Our relationship got romantic, but we never had sex.

I am a Yoruba guy, 25 years old and this girl, my current girlfriend, is 23 - oh! She's not a Yoruba girl.

In Enugu, we shared happy moments and we planned ahead about how we'd build our respective careers and then a family. That she always planned for the future, never relied on me monetarily (I always had to beg to buy her anything) made me love her even more.

I knew I'd engage in World War III with my parents to accept her because she's not Yoruba, but I continued anyway.

We asked really personal questions about ourselves and i told her my darkest secrets. She said she told me hers and I believed (she never lied to me, at least to my knowledge).

The time soon came when we had to go to our different homes, and she feared that our relationship would end up like every other corp member's relationship she's read about.

We cried our eyes out as we said goodbye, and we went our separate ways; we talk everyday ever since then. I have gone to see her at home and I met her family members; she's met my mum too.

However, last week, we played "tell me even more about yourself," and I'm yet to recover from what she told me.

In her words: "I occasionally wet my bed. Everytime it happened, I would wake up right it the middle of me bed-wetting. This has been happening since forever"

This affected me a lot that my blood pressure rose and I was placed on a bed rest and drugs for a few days.

I am confused what to do currently; do I believe things will get better, and then continue? Please help, Nairalanders!

There's an antidepressant called imipramine ( only prescribed by health consultants). Its also cures bed wetting. My younger bro had a long history of bed wetting too but in the last 7years he has been cured of it.

tecnolad:
I don't know how to thank you for this. God bless you!

you just did!!! you're welcome.

mannatech:
There's an antidepressant called imipramine ( only prescribed by health consultants). Its also cures bed wetting. My younger bro had a long history of bed wetting too but in the last 7years he has been cured of it.

Thanks for this, bro. I'll ask a doctor to know if there are no side effects for ladies

Thank God she opened up to you some gals don't if you love her try finding a solution to it simple. Instead of broadcasting or using it against her.

Uyiii:
hallo, try to get a sex doll, it doesn't bed wet and of course not tribalistic.
but if your parents still insist you must bring home a yoruba woman, you can as well pay for a customised yoruba sex doll, just whip 3marks for both sides of the face

Joke apart anyways, her bedwetting isn't enough to upset your blood pressure. it's cool you've known now, the question should be what next?
we've got numerous causes of bedwetting in adults ranging from;
urinary tract infection, stress, fear, or insecurity, neurological disorders, prostate gland enlargement, sleep apnea, or abnormal pauses in breathing during sleep, and with your assertion, this occurs occasionally.
just try to help with her lifestyle, she can as well rummage google to know the kinda lifestyle she's suppose to maintain, she should see a doctor also.

If the problem still persist after she's strictly adhere to this anti-bedwetting lifestyle, then I'll just have to reference you to ikotun-egbe, there's one church there like that, synagogue or so, make she go greet tb Joshua.

This got me laughing

break the Bleep up and let her be anoda mans problem.

your children will thank u in the future

tecnolad:
I never thought I'd ever have to write something similar to this, but we can't choose what life serves us at times, right?

I met this girl while I serving in Enugu and we started out as friends until the chemistry grew stronger and our friendship snowballed into a relationship. Our relationship got romantic, but we never had sex.

I am a Yoruba guy, 25 years old and this girl, my current girlfriend, is 23 - oh! She's not a Yoruba girl.

In Enugu, we shared happy moments and we planned ahead about how we'd build our respective careers and then a family. That she always planned for the future, never relied on me monetarily (I always had to beg to buy her anything) made me love her even more.

I knew I'd engage in World War III with my parents to accept her because she's not Yoruba, but I continued anyway.

We asked really personal questions about ourselves and i told her my darkest secrets. She said she told me hers and I believed (she never lied to me, at least to my knowledge).

The time soon came when we had to go to our different homes, and she feared that our relationship would end up like every other corp member's relationship she's read about.

We cried our eyes out as we said goodbye, and we went our separate ways; we talk everyday ever since then. I have gone to see her at home and I met her family members; she's met my mum too.

However, last week, we played "tell me even more about yourself," and I'm yet to recover from what she told me.

In her words: "I occasionally wet my bed. Everytime it happened, I would wake up right it the middle of me bed-wetting. This has been happening since forever"

This affected me a lot that my blood pressure rose and I was placed on a bed rest and drugs for a few days.

I am confused what to do currently; do I believe things will get better, and then continue? Please help, Nairalanders!

ma dear.keep calm n handle dis situation in a matured.wat if u realised something more serios after marriage?wod u have divorced her?No is d answer..little advice for u.if one doctor trys to fix,it doesn't min he got it right..y not try another specilaist ,not jus a medical practitioner.der is notin spiritual bat dis.for now,she can avoid takin plenty of water before goin to bed.pls visit a specialist....der will fix her problem up..still show her love n care especially in ds challenging period.
one love...bro....

Let her set her phone on time reminder nah...Like visiting the toilet every 3 hours at night. It may help her too

GideonIdaboh:
Bed-wetting by an adult is a no no for me. How embarrassing. No amount of love can make me turn a blind eye to that. If I were in OP's shoes. I'll try and help her get solution first before loving her. If my effort turns futile, the rest will be history

am disadppointed at you so its her fault that she is betwetting abi? you're one of does selfish girls who only love on a condition why should his love for her change just because she told him her flaws infact the op should comment her for letting him know it takes a brave girl to tell you that grave secret..

GideonIdaboh:
If the doctor says she's OK, then I'm afraid it has become spiritual.

It's not spiritual jor, Nigerians una too dey over do.

She should try kegelling it helps! , the best solution so far.

Trying times,that's not the end of it all,its not easy bedwetting in adults??do u know the kind of torture the go through on their own??
They fear sleeping at a friends place and the likes.... Its not easy honestly but u a gud guy,maybe God wants to use u to cure her,no mind these heartless people screaming u should dump her ass,its not her fault its that way??but life throws different stuffs at us and we endure our fate till God shows us the way....shalom God help u guys bro,dumping her cos of this its not the best option bro

I repeat; she should try KEGELLING exercise for a week atleast. Am 8/10 sure it would work nd do more googling on it too *thank me later