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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jan 22, 2018
proxillin:


Unfortunately, police have come for her...She is on her way to station now



Shame on you. You don't love this girl enough. I will never ever let this happen to my chick. Never !



A man is known to take inititative, Prepare himself for problems, create solutions even in deep problems. You just sat back, relaxed in a reactive position while you let this happen. Are you saying, you couldn't have done something? That chick go sleep for cell because of your passiveness


Ladies, always date/marry men, not boys, people who are tough and can handle tough situations

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by proxillin(m): 4:05pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:




Shame on you. You don't love this girl enough. I will never ever let this happen to my chick. Never !



A man is known to take inititative, Prepare himself for problems, create solutions even in deep problems. You just sat back, relaxed in a reactive position while you let this happen. Are you saying, you couldn't have done something? That chick go sleep for cell because of your passiveness


Ladies, always date/marry men, not boys, people who are tough and can handle tough situations

Calm down...Despite being far apart..I discussed with her..she said she couldnt leave her office now. She is the only one on duty. I felt helpless..I am on my way to that station now...I am in CMS/Marina she is in Ikeja..Lagos
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jan 22, 2018
proxillin:


Calm down...Despite being far apart..I discussed with her..she said she couldnt leave her office now. She is the only one on duty. I felt helpless..I am on my way to that station now...I am in CMS/Marina she is in Ikeja..Lagos



Jesus, those smelling police cells at Ikeja, OMG.


See don't play nice with them, the guy should be called to question, would a lady pick a bottle and hit him on the head without him doing anything. Tell them whole ha, he has been trying to rape your babe for some time. God knows i live a clean life to avoid anything police. Their wahala is too much, i hate those demons

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 22, 2018
You stored your gf name with heyday? Odiegwu. If she can provide evidence, explain her way out of it
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by proxillin(m): 4:20pm On Jan 22, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You stored your gf name with heyday? Odiegwu. If she can provide evidence, explain her way out of it

Heydey is a coded Yoruba name we both understand...
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jan 22, 2018
proxillin:


Heydey is a coded Yoruba name we both understand...
OK o.why didn't u accommodate your gf?
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by proxillin(m): 4:40pm On Jan 22, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
OK o.why didn't u accommodate your gf?
I can't...I need to do the right thing with her parents before doing such.
Its not allowed in my Village.

Beside they have staying together for 2 years until that hegoat started sleeping with her friend

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jan 22, 2018
proxillin:

I can't...I need to do the right thing with her parents before doing such.
Its not allowed in my Village.

Beside they have staying together for 2 years until that hegoat started sleeping with her friend
Your village strict be that. The Lord is your muscle
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jan 22, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Your village strict be that. The Lord is your muscle

Haba, it's not right for a young man to house a woman without doing the right things nae

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:


Haba, it's not right for a young man to house a woman without doing the right things nae
Well, people are breaking the rules.
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jan 22, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, people are breaking the rules.



It's bad luck to me as a man o. One of the precious things my late dad left me with. I no fit do am lie lie..

People who do it don't receive the " blessings and blessedness of marriage "
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by tosyne2much(m): 5:06pm On Jan 22, 2018
izaray:
Where have you been Happy new yr
I have been so fine dear... You have not been seeing me around shey ? cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by izaray(f): 5:09pm On Jan 22, 2018
tosyne2much:
I have been so fine dear... You have not been seeing me around shey ? cheesy
Yes dearcheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by hotwax: 5:34pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:




It's bad luck to me as a man o. One of the precious things my late dad left me with. I no fit do am lie lie..

People who do it don't receive the " blessings and blessedness of marriage "

That's why ooo
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by tosyne2much(m): 5:39pm On Jan 22, 2018
izaray:
Yes dearcheesy
Don't mind me jawe.. I've been so busy jawe that was why you haven't see my 10 things lately cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by eeewise(m): 5:54pm On Jan 22, 2018
pls contact her family .you guys are not married. go to any civil society organization
contact Dorothy njemanze on Facebook she might have clues on what to do

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by eeewise(m): 6:06pm On Jan 22, 2018
let's get this case to front page
so they will be awareness
I will start by sending to Dorothy njemanze and other activist on Facebook so this gets enough attention
The more people are aware the less the police or anyone can implicate her
so let's start commenting

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by xrisdgreat(m): 6:17pm On Jan 22, 2018
Nawao,God wl vindicate her..she mess up she shld hv gone n make a report d day dat happend or rather tel u dat same day mayb u wld hv suggested dat to her!
ds police pple ehn dem go wan detain her & to sleep 4 cell is jx not a good ting i wl wanna wish any1..
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by eeewise(m): 6:27pm On Jan 22, 2018
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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jan 22, 2018
I wouldn't want take a side in these story, until I've met both parties involve, I.e your girlfriend and Dude accused of rape..

But if it's true the guy actually made attempt to rape your girl, then he must not go free.. I'm strongly against rape...
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 6:52pm On Jan 22, 2018
xrisdgreat:
Nawao,God wl vindicate her..she mess up she shld hv gone n make a report d day dat happend or rather tel u dat same day mayb u wld hv suggested dat to her!
ds police pple ehn dem go wan detain her & to sleep 4 cell is jx not a good ting i wl wanna wish any1..


She will sleep in the cell today for sure. Funny enough, those Ikeja cells are as filthy as hell
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by adudu208(m): 6:52pm On Jan 22, 2018
proxillin:


Calm down...Despite being far apart..I discussed with her..she said she couldnt leave her office now. She is the only one on duty. I felt helpless..I am on my way to that station now...I am in CMS/Marina she is in Ikeja..Lagos
She should have reported the case at the nearest police station the very minute it happened.
Allowing the guy to initiate a police action somehow throws up credibility issues.

The police will wonder why your girlfriend didn't report immediately to them or atleast visit a hospital for medical attention if she is indeed a victim of something as serious as attempted rape or attempted murder(depending on who you ask).

However, the police won't believe his tales but might want to exploit the situation for monetary gain.

When you get to the station be civil and try to defend your girl and vouch for her integrity.

If the police are acting funny then you can 'lawyer up' and insist the case be charged to court. Don't let them intimidate her into admitting she is at fault or discouraging her from pursuing an attempted rape case.

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by hotwax: 7:40pm On Jan 22, 2018
I got there with my lawyer friend. They haven't locked her up yet. She told them she will only make any statement infront of he lawyer. So we got there. She wrote her statement with the supervision of my lawyer friend.

They released her without any bail money. But they told us to visit the guy at the hospital. The guy is still alive, with deep depression on his head. I fear my girl ooo. His head just sink enter like gutter.

He has been sleeping still yesterday. He hasn't woken up yet. But he is alive. I saw his girlfriend. She looks sober and worry.

She could not buy the drug doctor prescribed. I gave her money to go get the drug. And I also volunteered to pay his hospital bill.

My lawyer says we should be the one to go on offensive and call for indictment. But the pregnant lady is helpless, she won't be able to get a lawyer. And the same girl is my girl's childhood friend. It's becoming tricky...I have to do everything possible to safe my girls neck no matter what

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jan 22, 2018
hotwax:
I got there with my lawyer friend. They haven't locked her up yet. She told them she will only make any statement infront of he lawyer. So we got there. She wrote her statement with the supervision of my lawyer friend.

They released her without any bail money. But they told us to visit the guy at the hospital. The guy is still alive, with deep depression on his head. I fear my girl ooo. His head just sink enter like gutter.

He has been sleeping still yesterday. He hasn't woken up yet. But he is alive. I saw his girlfriend. She looks sober and worry.

She could not buy the drug doctor prescribed. I gave her money to go get the drug. And I also volunteered to pay his hospital bill.

My lawyer says we should be the one to go on offensive and call for indictment. But the pregnant lady is helpless, she won't be able to get a lawyer. And the same girl is my girl's childhood friend. It's becoming tricky...I have to do everything possible to safe my girls neck no matter what



Nice update.

God help you through this.

Our actions have consequences, when he has children, he'll have a tale for them, how my head got deformed. Until then, may God be by your side

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by izaray(f): 7:52pm On Jan 22, 2018
God will surely see u guys through..As for d victim, I pray he lives to tell the story to his children in future.

Op, are you using two monikers?
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by izaray(f): 7:54pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:




Nice update.

God help you through this.

Our actions have consequences, when he has children, he'll have a tale for them, how my head got deformed. Until then, may God be by your side
Exactly what I just said...But konji is a bastard wink
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jan 22, 2018
izaray:
Exactly what I just said...But konji is a bastard wink


All men get kongified from time to time, sex can be bought like any other commodity, i hear some gals sell for 2k, he could have bought it.
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by hotwax: 7:56pm On Jan 22, 2018
izaray:
God will surely see u guys through..As for d victim, I pray he lives to tell the story to his children in future.

Op, are you using two monikers?

Not on my laptop right now..im using my brothers phone. He signed in. I guess I needed to sign him out

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Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by proxillin(m): 7:59pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:




Nice update.

God help you through this.

Our actions have consequences, when he has children, he'll have a tale for them, how my head got deformed. Until then, may God be by your side

Thanks for the prayers..amen
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by izaray(f): 8:01pm On Jan 22, 2018
hotwax:


Not on my laptop right now..im using my brothers phone. He signed in. I guess I needed to sign him out
Ok dear
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by izaray(f): 8:03pm On Jan 22, 2018
Zykod:



All men get kongified from time to time, sex can be bought like any other commodity, i hear some gals sell for 2k, he could have bought it.
May sex doll fall on you then tongue
Re: My Girlfriend Escaped Rape With Self-defence. Now They Want To Arrest Her by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 22, 2018
izaray:
May sex doll fall on you then tongue


Chineke, Tufiakwa, abeg no curse me oh. When i can get better babe with smooth fleshy skin i can caress, stroke, play with, you dey talk doll...May male sex doll fall on ya in the bathroomtongue

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