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Berlyn1:
The Bible is strictly against fornication. ...

Say No to sex till marriage


please no one should quote me!

I go quote you oooo
Wish one be no sex bfore marriage if I b ur bro u go advise me nt to test run her first?

Bro its like we'll open an office and u will begin.to lecture and counsel people o

TheSuperNerd:
Thanks goodness you know what they are....
Only shows how far our moral values have been reduced to almost nothingness in this age. Confused fellas calling you a "mugu" for rejecting a free honey pot.. wow! who does that right? I mean does such a guy not have blood in his veins? Why reject it? You had it on a platter mehn and she was f**king hot! They will never understand because they have lost the art of being disciplined and lost what it means to stand as real men.



And this is not about me being the good guy... nope. It is me just being Who I am. It is me making a choice. People who proclaim themselves as bad guys becos they feel they can bang whatever girl they please are laughable lots. I know the ways of the bad and then the good but I made a choice to never abuse humanity's gift. I made a choice to keep to the way of Honor.
I believe in doing what pleases God. In the end, we all will give an account of how the gift we were given called life was used.

Isn't it best to use it wisely and in reverence of the fact that Life is short and should be spent making meaningful contributions all around us? And not thinking of the next skirt to get under?


As for you... well, if the lesson learnt in your life have made you to want to take advantage of any girl who gives you such sexual greenlight... then well, it is your choice. And I hope you know you will have to live with the consequences that follow be it now or be it in years to come. After all, life is a choice isn't it? And there are good choices and bad choices. Take note.

Hahahahaha... man, you are funny.

But honestly, I'm no counsellor. I'm just a guy who lives and daily tries to abide by the wisdom of Life. I'm a Christian. But I also recognise the good in other religions which is why I do have friends/Great acquaintances who are non-christians. I can learn a whole lot from them as much as I learn from other true Christians too.

But if you insist on an office... then lead the way.... looolll

Nice chatting with you Sir. Ensure you live your life good okay. You sound like a jolly good fellow and jovial too. I like that very much.

hefelove:
Bro its like we'll open an office and u will begin.to lecture and counsel people o

Thanks alot sir Have a wonderful week

TheSuperNerd:
Hahahahaha... man, you are funny.

But honestly, I'm no counsellor. I'm just a guy who lives and daily tries to abide by the wisdom of Life. I'm a Christian. But I also recognise the good in other religions which is why I do have friends/Great acquaintances who are non-christians. I can learn a whole lot from them as much as I learn from other true Christians too.

But if you insist on an office... then lead the way.... looolll

Nice chatting with you Sir. Ensure you live your life good okay. You sound like a jolly good fellow and jovial too. I like that very much.

Thank you too my good man. I'll surely have a most wonderful week. Ensure you do too...

hefelove:
Thanks alot sir Have a wonderful week

Black market everywhere

Berlyn1:
The Bible is strictly against fornication. ...

Say No to sex till marriage


please no one should quote me!

whoa.....u must be a virgin.

TheSuperNerd:
Very true. I get your point. This is why as a man you should ensure that you do not get tagged with such females in the name of romantic relationship. One must take his time to observe and then decide on the kind of lady he wants to be in a relationship with, to avoid "conflict of values" as regards to spiritual principles and our faith when it comes to sex. The same applies to ladies too. You cannot just date any guy. Be observant.

I have seen and met a couple of ladies in relationships who really want to get it going under the sheets with their man even before marriage. I even recall one who just really liked me and wanted me to bed her big time... I was alone with her as I went visiting back in medical college in my first degree but I resisted. She was very beautiful... a lady who was a beauty pageant winner and also smart. I turned her down gently and left almost immediately after. She said something later on days after about her not being a good match for me because of my spiritual principles. She said she knows I deserve better and not a lady like her who may be a drag on my faith and spiritual principles and she admits that I was actually right to have said no to her advances. I did try to make her see her better self with time but then I realised that she was right. It takes a good heart to admit such really.


She even went on Facebook after that encounter to let the world know that good men really still exist out there. She did so without calling my name. Then much later, she wrote a little something about me without revealing a thing of why she wrote it.



So this is what we must take note of. In order to avoid being in a scenario where our doing good is not well received, we should, ourselves, be disciplined to admit that it is not all ladies that we can date. That will save a lot of headache and heartaches.

We share the same principles. In fact, I'm confused each time i read your posts. We have mirrored principles and values. I agree with your comments 100%, and will avoid ladies that don't match my spiritual principles from now onwards. Thanks bro

TheSuperNerd:
Thank you too my good man. I'll surely have a most wonderful week. Ensure you do too...

Why do i have this feeling of resonance with you, we should find ways to rapport outside this medium

TheSuperNerd:
The problem with mankind is their silly way of creating analogies.

How is a car, TV, or any electronic likened to a human being??! Silly questions like, "did you buy a car before testing it or you did the testing before buying?" are just one of the many ways people have destroyed their sense of morality.

A woman is not a product you buy in the market neither is she a car. She is a woman. A Human being with a soul, emotions, ambitions and many more. So why treat her like some inanimate or non-living object you buy?

It is only men who do not value the sacredness and true beauty of sex that will always come up with such stupid analogies. A woman you marry is not like any other property you acquire. The day men stop seeing women like cars or whatever, is the day those men become real men and not "men" because they have a dick or got some levels of testosterone.

Such mentality is just too poor. smh.





P.S: If you so badly wanna know if she is fertile to bear children, then go do a f**king fertility test. And know that it also applies to the men if the lady too is not sure of how potent you are. Male fertility tests exist too.

I agree

Hmmmmm..... you are confused when you see my posts? Like I am in your head and heart or something? You know, I knew there was more to that "as usual Supernerd" I just thought to evade that.

You said "as usual" as if you've known me and have been seeing my comments. Sir Zykod, if I recall correctly, this is the first place on NL where I am being quoted by or I'm quoting your moniker. Right?


Anyway, you are most welcome. And please really ensure you keep to those words Sir. Will do you lots of great good in the longest of runs.

Zykod:
We share the same principles. In fact, I'm confused each time i read your posts. We have mirrored principles and values. I agree with your comments 100%, and will avoid ladies that don't match my spiritual principles from now onwards. Thanks bro

Maybe because you feel I mirror your thoughts on some matters?

Uhmmm... Sir Zykod, I think this medium will be just fine for now at least. I only just got to meet you on this thread. Just give it time okay please. Hope you understand. Thank you

Zykod:
Why do i have this feeling of resonance with you, we should find ways to rapport outside this medium

Another lady that agrees. Thank you.

Safiaaa:
I agree

apenaola:
whoa.....u must be a virgin.

no quoting pls

Berlyn1:
no quoting pls

who go coat una?

I've argued about this many times. And my stand has been, sex before marriage is very important to keeping that marriage. I've seen several marriages breakup or have issues due to sexuality incompatible.

Drops mic.....

My religion doesn't permit me to have sex before marriage !


so yes I can ! .


besides am a guy, of my woman doesn't like sex, I'll train Nd teach her ... if sh likes it so much ... i'm equal to the task .. if sh likes it more than I do,

I'll train Nd teach myself ...!


isn't dah simple?