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Ladies love attention. Whether they agree to it or not, they love it. When a lady puts up a picture, she almost certainly checks it constantly to see how many likes it has garnered. And when it's doing well, they feel good about themselves.

The same way they love those likes is the same way they like being 'hit' on. A lady who doesn't have a guy or even guys 'hitting' on her would most certainly think maybe something is wrong with them. And for some, being in a relationship doesn't stop them from wanting one or two guys' attention. And in some instances, that attention almost certainly goes beyond just normal exchanges.

And that is where guys come in.

Picture this.

Guy 1

Day 1
Guy: Hello
Girl:Hi
Guy: What's up
Girl: Fine
Guy: OK

Day 2
Guy: Hello
Girl: Hi
Guy: How are you?
Girl: Fine
Guy:

Guy 2: Day 1
Guy: I really love\like the way you argued your points about....or You have very beautiful nails or eyes.
Girl: (Already blushing on the other side) Thank you.
Guy: It's a topic I'm also very interested in. (Even if it's a lie, google is your friend)
Girl: Oh, that's interesting.
Guy: You seemed very passionate about the topic, was it a one off thing or it's what you do?
Girl: (Definitely talks for long)

Skip day two and three and even four.

Day five

Guy: Hello
Girl: Hi
Guy: So I missed your name the other day...
Girl: Oh, I'm Anna
Guy: Lovely name. I'm James. So what have you been up to?
Girl: (Starts talking...)

Point is, except a lady is just a call-girl, repeating the same thing like the first guy will never get you anywhere. If you want a lady to take an interest in you online, be willing to be worth it. It's not just enough that you will want to say ladies use 'K', 'Hmmmm' and the likes while chatting. Some of you also need to step-up.

Be interesting. Be mysterious.

PS: I realise some ladies still make conversations boring. But I've come to realize a lot of guys too are just as boring. Also, no one should bring up the issue of 'If you have money, everything works for you.' It's a cliché. Not all ladies are wired that way.

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[color=#F5A215]is so true [/color]

speaking for yourself, right?

your d.p is that your kid brother with u?

Pubichairs:
your d.p is that your kid brother with u?

LMAO that's her NUNU STROKER

"your Face looks familiar" should be completely scrapped too,we all know it's a lie when they use that line yet, guys Will not stop using it. You talked to her for the first time and u started your move with lies,it's a complete turn off

IAMSASHY:
"your Face looks familiar" should be completely scrapped too,we all know it's a lie when they use that line yet, guys Will not stop using it. You talked to her for the first time and u started your move with lies,it's a complete turn off

i thought you are off the market...?

That is a very nice shoe you are putting on in ur dp.I can tell you are independent and probably doing OK for yourself,that's good.DM me!

The only thing that attract ladies attention on social media are nice pictures and expensive background or probably your intelligent posts or updates. If you like use all the style in this world and get your messages ignored.

l hate beating about the Bush! be blunt and say what is in your mind... stop the drama!!! if u are attracted to a girl and all u want is sèx, say it than waste precious time!

all these are juvenile naa

so what's your own version for the solution?