hedonistical:
Bitch be gone. You don't know how filthy and disgusting a woman looks in her man's eyes when she had been found cheating. Yuck. Personally, I'll never be able to get an erection for her. Never be able to touch her again. The pig has to get lost, for ever. Even if we have 10 children. I'll look at the children with the same disdain. They're all gone.

your children are from you, don't hate them.

but the woman must go.

AuroraB:
I will not rebuild a relationship with someone who has slurped someone else's spit and all
Heaven forbid it
Hell no

hmm.. men can cheat for afrika, you just have to learn to forgive, but not when he makes it an habit

comos:

your children are from you, don't hate them.
but the woman must go.

leave dat herdsmen.. he woke up under d bed

AuroraB:
I will not rebuild a relationship with someone who has slurped someone else's spit and all
Heaven forbid it
Hell no

Must you make it more disgusting You just killed my appetite. How am I going to survive today's work without a complete breakfast

I don't know how. Once done, it's over!

FriendofGod:


Must you make it more disgusting You just killed my appetite. How am I going to survive today's work without complete breakfast

Pelee dear
How do I make it right as you have quoted me now?

vchykp:


hmm.. men can cheat for afrika, you just have to learn to forgive, but not when he makes it an habit

The heart doesn't grieve that it knows not. You get me?
The issue here is knowing and overlooking it. That, I will not do.

AuroraB:
The heart doesn't grieve that it knows not. You get me?
The issue here is knowing and overlooking it. That, I will not do.

lolx.. d overlook aint possible, not wishing you a cheat as partner but if need arises, dont fail to forgive if he asks for a second chance, thats if you really do love him.

Ehen

GreenArrow1:
It's very difficult o. I started dating a lady in May of last year. Things were moving fine. One little snag, she had a chronic habit of always talking about her exes, even up to the level of their sexual encounters. However, there was one military man (married) she always talked about that was like a father figure to her and also dating her friend. She gisted me of how she frequented the man's office everytime to "disturb him" and even caught him on one occasion banging the said friend.
You know, that feeling you get when you are hearing a story always and your instincts just keep telling you that something isn't adding up abi? Exactly. My spider senses were tingling.
So one day, when she was sitting across the table from me, I asked for her phone and started screening her whatsapp messages. Then boom! I saw a message from her to a guy: "I'm missing you."
The reply I saw was, "You are in a mood for a fvck right?"
To which she replied, "hmmm, you know na."
The rest are quite graphic.
I got to find out that the messages where from the same father figure she'd been always gisting me about.
This na man wey for siddon for my high table if me and this lady were going to get married fa!
Long and short of it, I got mad and she cried heaven and earth telling me it was in the past.
I didn't break up with her o. She and her folks wouldn't let that happen. I've tried working on it but I just can't trust her again. She still assumes she's my girlfriend while honestly I'm just using her to pass time. I just can't bring myself to ever trusting her again no matter what.

The highlighted is exactly where you guys gets it all wrong.

By the time she gets pregnant and no amount of abortion pill and abortion would pull it out and bang!! you're in a marriage with someone you can't even trust with your dog.
Quietly walk now and damn the consequences because you're seriously courting for a failed marriage in the future.
What if I tell you she's still seeing that guy this very moment and you've not been able to find out because she has become smarter?
After God fear women!! Talking about her ex and their sexual encounters was enough for you to leave the relationship but instead you chose to pass time thereby pilling up trouble for yourself.

just forgive ..all men are cheat
but what pains me is DAT,guys don't forgive ladies that cheat,yet dey expect forgiveness when they do
why?

If my gf cheats, I will easily forgive her because I have not married her but if my wife does, I have no idea what I will do

Truckpusher:
The highlighted is exactly where you guys gets it all wrong.

By the time she gets pregnant and no amount of abortion pill and abortion would pull it out and bang!! you're in a marriage with someone you can't even trust with your dog.
Quietly walk now and damn the consequences because you're seriously courting for a failed marriage in the future.
What if I tell you she's still seeing that guy this very moment and you've not been able to find out because she has become smarter?
After God fear women!! Talking about her ex and their sexual encounters was enough for you to leave the relationship but instead you chose to pass time thereby pilling up trouble for yourself.

Walahi! You are saying the truth. I woke up this morning with a mindset of using the Valentine theme to let her know that it wouldn't work out with us anymore. Yuck! I can't imagine marrying her o.

for me no human being is above mistakes...
if you feel he/she deserve a second Chance go ahead buh if they try it again dump their ass..
this just made me remember my friend ex ..
this is a chick that my guy could do anything for their relationship is more than 3 years a chick that if someone told me she could cheat I would slap that person and this guy is her first..
long story short she confess to him she cheated on him I swear my guy wan crase long story short he forgave her na madam do the unthinkable again she play away match and that finally destroyed my guy..trust finally destroyed,love destroyed, she's now begging to come back oga said if she comes back it will be as a fvck mate..
truth be told when I found out my body, soul,spirit weak

adorablevic:
just forgive ..all men are cheat
but what pains me is DAT,guys don't forgive ladies that cheat,yet dey expect forgiveness when they do
why?

Simply put, you mean two things

1. All women forgive cheating men
2. No man forgives cheàting woman

Tajbol4splend:

Simply put, you mean two things
1. All women forgive cheating men 2. No man forgives cheàting woman

correct but why

NL has become a centre for evil promotion.

adorablevic:
correct but why

Sad but true.

Women make love with their hearts

Men make love with their d i c k s

During sex for most women emotions are involved, for guys it's just a physical thing. My 2 cents though

adorablevic:
correct but why

You have gone too far to geñeralise it that men dont forgive and it is only women that do, it depends on how we take it, whether we can bear it or not and not depend on gender, as for me, I may bear it if it is the person I really love but things will never remain the same

Rebuild ke?don't think I have that Grace, you cheat you go period, because seriously even if you stay I will NEVER trust you again, so what's the point of staying in a relationship with no trust...my personal option anyway.

GreenArrow1:


Walahi! You are saying the truth. I woke up this morning with a mindset of using the Valentine theme to let her know that it wouldn't work out with us anymore. Yuck! I can't imagine marrying her o.

Any little act of unfaithfulness shouldn't be overlooked in any relationship you want to take to the next level. Brazenly cheating on you with a man he's been talking about to you shows she has zero respect for you.

I still don't get it why people cry when they are caught cheating ? That tears won't move me at all - They are simply sorry that they got caught and not any sign of remorse. You don't fall into sex by accident -It was a well planned orchestrated act to indulge and of course you know the consequences , so why the tears?

Tajbol4splend:



You have gone too far to geñeralise it that men dont forgive and it is only women that do, it depends on how we take it, whether we can bear it or not and not depend on gender, as for me, I may bear it if it is the person I really love but things will never remain the same

women forgive wholeheartedly, even if a man forgives,he reminds u in one way or d other everyday.which is not supposed to be

AuroraB:
Pelee dear How do I make it right as you have quoted me now?

OK, no problem.

adorablevic:
women forgive wholeheartedly, even if a man forgives,he reminds u in one way or d other everyday.which is not supposed to be

It is like that because msn sees his wife as his most precious and untouchable

Michelle55:
I doubt if I can forgive a cheating partner, the best therapy is to let go. I don't want to imagine what he did with her cos it's gonna drive me crazy, it's best I move on and wish him well. if I was good enough for him, he wouldn't have nurtured the thought not to talk of carrying out the act in the first place.

95℅ of married men cheat. That is not to say they dont love their wives. Most times, its nothing more than mere adventures with no emotions attached

Praktikals:

95℅ of married men cheat. That is not to say they dont love their wives. Most times, its nothing more than mere adventures with no emotions attached

i know that but it still doesn't take away the fact that it's gonna hurt badly should one finds out

It is not in me to forgive a cheat!
In fact, once a cheat always and forever a cheat

adorablevic:
just forgive ..all men are cheat
but what pains me is DAT,guys don't forgive ladies that cheat,yet dey expect forgiveness when they do
why?

My Dear, forgiveness is a sin

adorablevic:
just forgive ..all men are cheat
but what pains me is DAT,guys don't forgive ladies that cheat,yet dey expect forgiveness when they do
why?

It is considered normal for men to date broke girls, but it is generally not normal for girls to date broke guys, why? Men are expected to spend everything from wooing to dating expenses to wedding expenses to marriage/family expenses, while it is okay for the woman to be a freeloading parasite, why? Men have to pay bride price on a girl's head, while girls do not pay 'groom price' on a man's head, why?

Society makes these rules. Men and women are not the same. It's been like that since before your parents were born and it would remain so even after you die.

hedonistical:



Yeah right. Even if he's a multimillionaire? You'll leave his riches for another woman? Na so. Even if you have children with him already? You'll leave him and take your children to where? Lol. The rules aren't quite the same for men and women. You know that. Sometimes I wonder what planet some of you females live in, when you express views like this on social media, views that are at complete variance with the stark reality of the real world in our very own Nigeria.

being a multimillionaire doesn't give him the right to cheat.. and mind you, there are things money can't buy. it's high time you guys stop defending what's wrong. call a spade a spade!!

vchykp:
why arguing with yourself..? are u sure u read d write-up?

And are you sure you understood what I wrote? Must you quote someone and argue with them? Am I not free to make a comment? Can you just please let me be? I don't have time for your tantrums.