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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Pigsandidiots: 4:45pm On Feb 16, 2018
Amarabae:
Only morons criticize single mums,
Love your son jare,
Train him well.
Don't mind the bitter souls out there
No soul is bitter. She's is just a frustrated soul. Who send her. When she dey do am, did she write epistle to the world. What will her sermon do now, will it make the guys marry her. Abeeegi.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by monex(m): 4:46pm On Feb 16, 2018
PrettyCrystal:
‎A young lady identified as Nkechinyerem Chima‎, has urged fellow single mothers like her to be proud and not allow themselves to be shamed by others. The proud mother of one who revealed that she's not up to 28-years-old - shared pictures of her 9-year-old son as she hit out at those criticizing people who have kids outside wedlock.

The beautiful lady who says she's a boss lady took to Facebook to share her story. Read below;

A lot of people say that the can't marry a single mother!!! Yes!!!

Its your choice..... I am a proud single mother of a nine years old dude. I've no shame ..CU's I didn't murder him. Yes I know that in our culture many detest having kids outside wedlock.

But honestly I do not care.... If its not the will of God it won't come to pass....

I am never a second handed Lady....A proud boss lady...A proud God fearing mother...

My son is not a dummy. He's my joy. He's always maintaining 1st position. A lay reader. A chorister

Am not even 28yrs old sef....I HV got my degree....sef..I will stop at nothing to tell the world that abortion is evil....

Fellow single mothers.....Be proud and work Harder....He who laugh last ...laughs best...


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/02/proud-single-mother-shares-pictures-of-her-9-year-old-son.html

I like that she kept her esteem, was strong enough not to yield to the pressure to abort and still continued her education. Society pressures young pregnant and unmarried ladies to abort.

I also like that she said it is "their" choice to not want to marry a single mother. That's a rational mentality there not victim mentality.

You are the MVP Nkechi !!!

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Petdagr8t(m): 4:46pm On Feb 16, 2018
I salute your courage dear, let's say no to abortion...who knows the boy might grow to be the Steve Jobs of Nigeria. And to our girls if you know you can't withstand the pains and shame that will last for nine months then better don't spread your legs to that so called boyfriend who might not even care even if you die in the process of abortion.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Dafreeguy(m): 4:47pm On Feb 16, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Lol . She doesn't care but cares enough to write this epistles and shower herself with some praises... Someone must have pinched her where it or they presumed will hurt lipsrsealed . Say no more.


I love your spirit woman, when life gives you lemons you make lemonade cheesy , To dwell on positive aspects of life is the route to a sane mind in a chaos world. I love that.

Not a fan of Single parenthood though.

What if life gives u poison?
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by adetes: 4:49pm On Feb 16, 2018
Henhen

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Amarabae(f): 4:50pm On Feb 16, 2018
Pigsandidiots:
No soul is bitter. She's is just a frustrated soul. Who send her. When she dey do am, did she write epistle to the world. What will her sermon do now, will it make the guys marry her. Abeeegi.
Is she begging for marriage?
Do you know how many guys she has turned down?
Why are some African men using marriage as a manipulative tool,
Who told you that every woman want to get married?
She has a cute son,
If she needs an active sex lifestyle,she knows the buttons to press.
Keep your marriage and stop trying to intimidate or shame her at least she didn't abort the boy

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 4:51pm On Feb 16, 2018
TheKingIsHere:


Where did they celebrate single dads?

Must you come out and post rubbish to gain attention?

grin grin grin

Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by freedomchild: 4:53pm On Feb 16, 2018
I love her courage. Women are the worst victim of any societal scourge

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by mamatwiny(f): 4:53pm On Feb 16, 2018
It is a big deal in igbo land but not a big deal in yoruba and hausa where polygamy and 1st, 2nd ,3rd husbands reign supreme.

She shld try progress in her career , then call the shots.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Bullhari007(m): 4:56pm On Feb 16, 2018
just wait let him grows up and his mates start calling him bastard, he will use your head to play football on the street if you fail to tell him....

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 4:57pm On Feb 16, 2018
blackbeau1:
Single mothers are the most courageous people I know of. I mean , it takes courage not to take the easy way out by committing abortion and braving the society's stigmatisation of single mothers. So kudos to the beautiful lady up there and all Single mothers out there .

Crap. They're all cheap women who were not responsible enough to close their legs, or to demand a protection from their man or use one themselves.

That would have been more courageous, rather than going around with the relic of their recklessness and looking for another innocent man to marry them and carry the responsibility of a child they didn't father

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by pennywys(m): 4:57pm On Feb 16, 2018
28 years, in the 18th century people of her age were still virgin
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Pigsandidiots: 4:58pm On Feb 16, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Lol. Yet another heartbroken teenager smiley. Honey I'm not going to exchange words with you, your words are just too incoherent for me to ponder on let alone type appropriate replies to . Enjoy my last reply to you. smiley
Go and sleep. You think like a typical lady.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Jakumo(m): 4:58pm On Feb 16, 2018
Given that 85% of females over the age of 14 that live in the teeming ghettos of America, all happen to be single mothers raising future gang-bangers and crack-dealers, I am trying my best to understand how it came to be that this single mother in Nigeria is so proud of her status as the head of a broken home, and so convinced that being a single mother is a badge of honor, that she felt compelled to advertise the fact that the person who got her pregnant has fled, for the whole world to hear.

On a related note, I just picked a huge tick off my guard dog, and flushed it down the commode, meaning that the world press will shortly be alerted to this earth-shaking development.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by IYANGBALI: 4:59pm On Feb 16, 2018
What an achievement

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Jakumo(m): 5:00pm On Feb 16, 2018
IYANGBALI:
What an achievement

No chit. Nobel prize loading ha ha.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Pigsandidiots: 5:04pm On Feb 16, 2018
Amarabae:

Is she begging for marriage?
Do you know how many guys she has turned down?
Why are some African men using marriage as a manipulative tool,
Who told you that every woman want to get married?
She has a cute son,
If she needs an active sex lifestyle,she knows the buttons to press.
Keep your marriage and stop trying to intimidate or shame her at least she didn't abort the boy
Add adjective, how many mumu guys she turned down, probably low self esteem guys. Guy like me don't suck breast another man baby Don suck. This is why i always use it as song to my nieces, use your brain. No amount of sermon can heal a wounded heart. It is better not to happen than to they console yourself later on. If she's not looking for husband, why advertising herself. No one gives a folk about that.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Jakumo(m): 5:07pm On Feb 16, 2018
Pigsandidiots:
Add adjective, how many mumu guys she turned down, probably low self esteem guys. Guy like me don't suck breast another man baby Don suck. This is why i always use it as song to my nieces, use your brain. No amount of sermon can heal a wounded heart. It is better not to happen than to they console yourself later on. If she's not looking for husband, why advertising herself. No one gives a folk about that.

The first of two passages to which I added boldface, are words that I will ALWAYS live by.

Hell will freeze over before somebody else's baby mama EVER looks good to me. Even if I was a drunkard, such an abomination would never come to pass for me for as long as I live, in Jeeeeesus name, Amen.

God forbid bad ting.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Pigsandidiots: 5:07pm On Feb 16, 2018
Nnaabros:


Crap. They're all cheap women who were not responsible enough to close their legs, or to demand a protection from their man or use one themselves. That would have been more courageous, rather than going around with the relic of their recklessness and looking for another innocent man to marry them and carry the responsibility of a child they didn't father
You perfectly described them.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 5:09pm On Feb 16, 2018
xynerise:


That is the problem with some of you girls...you enjoy being arrogant even when someone asked a simple question. Relax, I am not one of those fuckboys sending you PM...

angry

☣ ☠


Gbam!!! Dope reply!



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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by oshaosha2014(m): 5:13pm On Feb 16, 2018
If someone's view is different from what you believe in or support I guess they have to be some kind of demon. You are not the only one in this world.

Amarabae:
Only morons criticize single mums,
Love your son jare,
Train him well.
Don't mind the bitter souls out there

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by ivanalimi: 5:14pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
She's cute. Cute son too. smiley


I don't get why the society frowns at single moms but praise single dads. I can't even fathom the hypocrisy, and outright sexism. Every single mom deserves to be celebrated. Women are Earth.
if ur daughter gets knocked up at the age of 17, u will jump for joy and congratulate her abi? or u will secretly take her to one doctor in the nearest town to abort it.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by oshaosha2014(m): 5:16pm On Feb 16, 2018
You make the best out of it by committing suicide.
Dafreeguy:

What if life gives u poison?
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by sexdoll: 5:17pm On Feb 16, 2018
Self gingering is allowed.

But the truth be say you don fuçkup be say you don fuçkup.

And deep within you, you know say there'll always be that feeling of regret and had I known.

But no wahala becos whether you be single mom or not, at the end of the day, Allman must die.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by jashar(f): 5:18pm On Feb 16, 2018
imhotep:

Women are Earth ? ? ? ?

ankhesenamun. hehehe....

don't mind me, i'm only responding to your name. grin
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by ivanalimi: 5:22pm On Feb 16, 2018
Amarabae:

Is she begging for marriage?
Do you know how many guys she has turned down?
Why are some African men using marriage as a manipulative tool,
Who told you that every woman want to get married?
She has a cute son,
If she needs an active sex lifestyle,she knows the buttons to press.
Keep your marriage and stop trying to intimidate or shame her at least she didn't abort the boy
if she has turned down many guys why is she codedly advertising her wares then?
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 5:23pm On Feb 16, 2018
Jakumo:
Given that 85% of females over the age of 14 that live in the teeming ghettos of America, all happen to be single mothers raising future gang-bangers and crack-dealers, I am trying my best to understand how it came to be that this single mother in Nigeria is so proud of her status as the head of a broken home, and convinced that being a single mother is a badge of honor, that she felt compelled to advertise the fact that the person who got her pregnant has fled, for the whole world to hear.

On a related note, I just picked a huge tick off my guard dog, and flushed it down the commode, meaning that the world press will shortly be alerted to this earth-shaking development.
Am struggling to understand too bro.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Tunks2017(m): 5:26pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
She's cute. Cute son too. smiley


I don't get why the society frowns at single moms but praise single dads. I can't even fathom the hypocrisy, and outright sexism. Every single mom deserves to be celebrated. Women are Earth.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by erimmy(m): 5:32pm On Feb 16, 2018
RuthDaniels:
She told the irresponsible being like you who got her pregnant, rejected the baby and even left her with his welfare.


Do you people ever think before making a comment? Who are you to judge?
Are you a single mum?
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by brightalo17: 5:34pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
She's cute. Cute son too. smiley


I don't get why the society frowns at single moms but praise single dads. I can't even fathom the hypocrisy, and outright sexism. Every single mom deserves to be celebrated. Women are Earth.
yet you kept taking piles and aborting the ones piles can't kill instead of becoming a single mother. SmH .
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by erimmy(m): 5:38pm On Feb 16, 2018
RuthDaniels:
She told the irresponsible being like you who got her pregnant, rejected the baby and even left her with his welfare.


Do you people ever think before making a comment? Who are you to judge?
Are you a single mum? I mean I know how it feels.
My mum was one and she always transfer the beef she had with dad on us. I know other single mums too who are very difficult to associate with.Always getting angry at the slightest provocation.






Please, don't transfer any aggression on the guy,i know it's not easy taking care of a child alone without the support of a father.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 5:44pm On Feb 16, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Lol . She doesn't care but cares enough to write this epistles and shower herself with some praises... Someone must have pinched her where it or they presumed will hurt lipsrsealed . Say no more.


I love your spirit woman, when life gives you lemons you make lemonade cheesy , To dwell on positive aspects of life is the route to a sane mind in a chaos world. I love that.

Not a fan of Single parenthood though.
Single parenthood is hard work and nearly no one in that situation chose to be there so whether you're a fan is irrelevant

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