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kimbraa:
I get your question but is there such thing as a surgery to remove sexual urges? That said, since marriage is for 'Better' for 'Worse', I'll do no such thing as suggested but make alternatives to get satisfied which doesn't include cheating. Don't ask me which.

kimbraa:
I get your question but is there such thing as a surgery to remove sexual urges? That said, since marriage is for 'Better' for 'Worse', I'll do no such thing as suggested but make alternatives to get satisfied which doesn't include cheating. Don't ask me which.

greiboy:
Hell no !

Simple as abc

I don't think I will do something just to please someone else, no matter how I love the person. I wouldn't advice anyone to do thesame for me.

What if it was death? will I have to kill myself for her, or will she have to kill herself for me.

life goes on, simple as abc

I have seen a lot of cases where people have sacrificed a lot for their partners but later regretted the decision to do so.

donstan18:
We understand

Blackfyre:
So the case with you is that you may likely regret the action in future?

And death is a different case as one nairaland said, till death do us part. Which means death is the only termination of such agreement. So that death part doesn't hold.

As much as I am checking to see how much people will sacrifice, I want to know the reasons, if they go deeper than just the pleasure of sex.

A woman or man that has been incredibly faithful and every good thing out there, will you trump sex on the premise of love?

greiboy:
@ bolded

if that was your reason for creating the thread, then such questions is not even necessary .. I mean the guy can go and bag outside the marriage and still love his wife or use sex dolls to do the trick, likewise the woman:

Look no matter how you look at it, sex is a very important part in romantic relationships, I will not sacrifice my sex life for anyone, just like I will not advice any one to do the same for me.

I will still show love and care for her regardless of the situation.

HeyBee27:
YES!I can do anything for my man.

Blackfyre:
Hypothetically speaking, God forbid this happens to anybody.

My question goes thus, your partner be it wife or husband as the case applies, looses the ability to have sex with you one way or the other permanently, will you proceed to get a surgery so as to remove the sexual urges within you so as to not make your partner feel left out or inadequate. Also to show a form of love to him/her as we are in this together.

I am putting into perspective that circumstances can never change and that this is between a husband and wife which is believed shouldn't have another woman as wife nor should either have a side piece.

Will you and why?

Cc dominique mynd44

HeyBee27:
YES!I can do anything for my man.