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the only question i have you..
what are hes plans for the future

pointblank247:
what if the man has prospect :'

It's a different thing entirely if the man in question has prospect

It's also a different thing if he's not stingy...there are poor men who aren't stingy too...they give from the little they have and they are ever ready to hustle to make life better for themselves and their partner

How can someone just open her eyes clearly and marry a poor man without vision

As much as single ladies wantu get married...I don't think they should just accept whatever man that comes their way

Instead of the guy to look for a job he's thinking of marrying and suffering someone's child

TheUpsetGirl:
Hello

I love my boo very much but the problem is he's poor ,sometimes I even give him money and now he said we should get married after finishing is NYSC last week. not that I hate poor people, but if we get married am I not going to suffer? please help me, even my mom is complaining. we've been dating for six years, the money he has spent on me up till date is not upto 100k

Empires rise and fall
Streams that were once mighty dry away..

I know you don't want to leave a man with vision and marry the one with television.

Nutase:
Fake story.

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hello how is my story fake please?? because of the little girl you saw in my dp?? that's my 17year old sister that just got a scholarship to study in Ukraine.

my story is real not fake like you, if you don't have an opinion pls don't comment

marvin906:
the only question i have you..
what are hes plans for the future

he wants to be a politician, he also like to invest in real estate because he studied estate management. and he's poor how would this dream be achieved?? even my parents are not okay with him

EVILFOREST:
TRUE PICTURE of a POOR NIGERIAN LADY....

That a LADY loves you so much is because she has not seen nor gotten hold of a better man.

The DAY she discovers such, her behavior towards you changes. She will ensure, she frustrates you out of the relationship.
That's why I encourage my MEN not to pity them.
Go for the BEST LADIES, whose financial burden/ national debt can always be settled by they themselves.

Ladies whose futures are secured, at least to a larger extent.
When I was DATING, I left as many as possible because they had nothing to offer, rather they were all around me fighting hard to feast on me.......
Someday, I now asked myself that "if It had been that I was impoverished" would these same number of ladies love me...??

Go for PRODUCTIVE LADIES ooooo.
That's why people enter marriages and start begging from day 1.....
Don't also expect GOD to intervene immediately when poverty strikes oo
Don't ever think NIGERIA will ever get better.
Leave Nyansh and breastt ooooo

HARD TRUTH

TheUpsetGirl:
he wants to be a politician, he also like to invest in real estate because he studied estate management. and he's poor how would this dream be achieved?? even my parents are not okay with him

first of all that politician agenda should be scrapped out for now..
the real estate investing is ok..
the best advice i can give now..
if you know that hes is not financially capable yet am not saying he should be rich
buh your sure you guys wont be living from hand to mouth
go ahead with him buh if not dont try it yet
for now help him build hes dream and dont forget to build yours
if hes determined hes gonna fulfill it whether poor or not
just support him

TheUpsetGirl:
he wants to be a politician, he also like to invest in real estate because he studied estate management. and he's poor how would this dream be achievedi?? even my parents are not okay with him

You have come to one of the places where you could be adviced. I would advice you at this juncture that yourself and your boyfriend should take things slowly and plan on getting a stable job, decent accommodation attend singles summits about marriage organised by your church and not him rushing to get married because he can't hold on in being intimate with you or he is scared he would loose you to someone else. Besides how old is he?