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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by IamEmem(m): 10:22am On Feb 22, 2018
fvckme:
Chai!
God don save you from One Chance Husband.
FO0lish Men on rampage.

And what about foolish women on rampage.
If it were the other way round we wont hear anything about it
And they guy will be told thus: "u know how this women behave"
The story is one sided, let them tell us what transpired between them
Ladies of nowadays that cannot say simple "I am sorry" even it is clear they are wrong.
Necessary evil.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by bukatyne(f): 10:22am On Feb 22, 2018
talk2ekpa:
Perfect Decisions Sis.

Seriously, Men needs more education on how to relate with women especially their own wife.

During my NYSC, NCCF keep organizing series of programs, retreat and teachings for sisters. So one day, I met NCCF Patron and asked why all this many programs for sister while we, the brothers, almost passing out already, but have not had even a single brothers retreat....?

...Now here is my point, Sisters have been taught enough, it time families, religious bodies and (even the government, if possible) start focusing on men...

...He's pouring water on you because he's angry today, let me tell you what he will do when he marry you and he's angry:
He will not only beat you and punch your face, but he will pour you ACID.

Brothers, please, we can value our women more...

My opinion, no critics please! sad sad sad

Send me your account number.

This is what I keep saying everyday....

Teach the men so that the taught women will see good men to practice the teachings....

Mbanu!

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Nobody: 10:22am On Feb 22, 2018
Run my dear... and don't look back.
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by vivypretty(f): 10:24am On Feb 22, 2018
purem:
The person that's post this shiit on fb is madt, why because he didn't tell us what the lady did he just wants us to start bashing the guy.

Who knows maybe the lady must have slapped his mum undecided
two wrongs don't make a right... if she did something like slapping the guy's mum,the guy pouring water on her in public doesn't make it right.
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by ObinnaVal93(m): 10:25am On Feb 22, 2018
the funny part z wat even brought the argument in the first place...persons wey wan marry..even to d extent of venting anger publicly.. aunty no marry again..u jes saved urself frm lifetime assaults
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Ayoemrys(m): 10:27am On Feb 22, 2018
Eazi1:
hw cn u b embarrasin ur wife in public.....its nt good bt i really dn't support d divorce
wish divorce Sir
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by IamEmem(m): 10:27am On Feb 22, 2018
Good for her she is walking out of the relationship.
A guy that cannot control his anger is not matured for relationship like marriage.
Some women can be annoying sha.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Nobody: 10:28am On Feb 22, 2018
She is lucky God revealed the kind of devil she was about to marry. She is very lucky.


I hate it when a man have anger issues.
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by ObinnaVal93(m): 10:29am On Feb 22, 2018
IamEmem:


And what about foolish women on rampage.
If it were the other way round we wont hear anything about it
And they guy will be told thus: "u know how this women behave"
The story is one sided, let them tell us what transpired between them
Ladies of nowadays that cannot say simple "I am sorry" even it is clear they are wrong.
Necessary evil.

the only valid reason I wud accept z if she insulted him or hz family which z not possible.. cos he won't come begging... if na ur sis u go wan hear d oda side of d story

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by mpowa(m): 10:29am On Feb 22, 2018
purem:
The person that's post this shiit on fb is madt, why because he didn't tell us what the lady did he just wants us to start bashing the guy.

Who knows maybe the lady must have slapped his mum undecided
Stop giving this kind of excuse, no reason is good enough to resort to assault, relationship is not by force, if what she did is more than you can bear, leave her alone, if she slapped his mother, he doesn't need to meet her at Eatery, he would be the one to call the wedding off first. His Action is a tip of an iceberg for a horrible experience in marriage.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by SpaceAngel: 10:30am On Feb 22, 2018
The lady should not go back for any reason. People with this kind of anger issue rarely change. It only gets worse. If he can do this to you in the open what can he do inside the house.?

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by okerekeikpo: 10:31am On Feb 22, 2018
After the guy don chop ur toto finish, abeg make I hear word

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by mudiana(m): 10:31am On Feb 22, 2018
I support the gal. Any man that gives you hell before marriage can't give you heaven when married to you.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Haric(m): 10:33am On Feb 22, 2018
Fit2Rule:
The dude is lucky that it's just the wedding being called off. Try that shyit wit my sister and you'll be behind bars for assault and battery and i'll make sure you get a real constant shower of unpleasant water while in detention.
See this one, c'mon shatap there. yhu nor fit do anything, na only to dey make mouth upandan

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by loomer: 10:34am On Feb 22, 2018
purem:
The person that's post this shiit on fb is madt, why because he didn't tell us what the lady did he just wants us to start bashing the guy.

Who knows maybe the lady must have slapped his mum undecided

If na slap, him no go retaliate with water.

But truth be told, It's best for men to walk out of a woman than physically assault her
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by shallysgirl: 10:34am On Feb 22, 2018
IamEmem:
Good for her she is walking out of the relationship.
A guy that cannot control his anger is not matured for relationship like marriage.
Some women can be annoying sha.
Women are'annoying', just know it and you are halfway there. They are the weaker vessels. Men should learn to be more tolerant. Only a foolish man lays his hand in a woman.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Dammylois(f): 10:36am On Feb 22, 2018
Wetin the pastor wan talk again than to fix a service where she will do her thanksgiving.....that marriage would have been hell....thank God for the revelation and the wisdom she has too cos some ladies will still go ahead because of desperation or what people will say if the wedding is cancelled.....congrats Girl

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by femolacqua(m): 10:37am On Feb 22, 2018
All I can say is, that was a smart move from her. She's got balls.
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by holuphisayor(m): 10:40am On Feb 22, 2018
one sided story
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Sirkelvin: 10:41am On Feb 22, 2018
Angelanest:
An intending bride has reportedly called of her wedding after she was allegedly humiliated and assaulted by her man in public. According to an online report, the lady was left embarrassed after her fiance poured water on her face and clothes in an eatery because he was angry.

Now, report has it that the lady has called off the wedding which is supposed to hold next month and is strongly standing by her decision.

Olajumoke Fayemi shared the story on Facebook. Read below;

She called off her wedding just few days to the date. She felt humiliated and assaulted. A man she thought she was going to spend the rest of her life with had the effrontery to pour water on her face and clothes because he was angry.

She knew he had a bit of anger problems . But it never occurred to her he could unleash the anger to her publicly. This happened in an eatery while they were having a meeting.

The introduction have been done few months back and invitation cards shared to family, friends ,colleagues and church members.

The wedding comes up ,first week of March. Besides, lot of money have been spent in preparation for the occasion.

Last week, dude invited the babe to meet him in one of the eateries so they could sort out some issues. She came as agreed not knowing that the meeting would be the last between both of them.

Somehow, their were argument between them and dude out of anger poured the water he was drinking on her . She stood speechless, dazed and confused. Somehow, she managed to pull herself together and walked out of the spot with her wet clothes.

She got home broken but made up her mind to discontinue with the marriage. Of course, she didn't waste time to let her mom and sisters know about the strange development. And her decision was to call off the wedding.

Sadly, her mom was not completely in support of her decision but with the backing of her siblings, they were able to convince her . The whole family are backing her. To them ,the marriage is over.

However, dude and family would not take any of that. They have been begging and sending emissaries to her and her family.

The pastor of her church is not left out . He has invited her but she is still holding her ground. No marriage. She is a bit lucky, because she and her family are together in this decision.

What do you make of this ?


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/02/lady-who-was-embarrassed-by-her-fiance-calls-off-the-wedding.html

Can you please tell us what actually led to misunderstanding and water baptism by the man? She might be playing the victim card here

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by IamEmem(m): 10:42am On Feb 22, 2018
ObinnaVal93:


the only valid reason I wud accept z if she insulted him or hz family which z not possible.. cos he won't come begging... if na ur sis u go wan hear d oda side of d story

And you think its not possible for the girl to insult him or his family?
May be you never jam and pray you never jam such women who at little issues will insult the hell out of you and make u look miserable with her wagging tongue.
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by jude33084(m): 10:43am On Feb 22, 2018
olaolutreasure:
Congratulations!!!
You have just successfully unsubscibed from future divorce, critical beatings and marital break-up

I stand by you jor cool
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Austinoiz(m): 10:43am On Feb 22, 2018
My dear, I can't praise nor bash you over your decision.
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Hormotorlah: 10:46am On Feb 22, 2018
bivanJohnaliuz:
gals qet Mind............. Na them dy Divorce dis Days.....


Yes, our eyes don open...human pikin cannot come and die in a sham called marriage.
That's why during courtship one should pray that God's open your eyes to see the negative side of your partner...then you will decide if you can handle it or not before marriage comes knocking

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Mariangeles(f): 10:47am On Feb 22, 2018
Mynd44:

There is no reason for violence. Stop pushing this narrative of "she must have provoked him" as it is repulsive.

Men should do better, no matter the provocation, getting violent is not and will never be the answer. The only way violence is allowed is self-defence.

It is good that she has enough sense to pull away and I am glad her family supported her
Thank you...
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by mybestlove(m): 10:47am On Feb 22, 2018
Better now than later after wedlock
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by diluewunmi: 10:48am On Feb 22, 2018
purem:
The person that's post this shiit on fb is madt, why because he didn't tell us what the lady did he just wants us to start bashing the guy.

Who knows maybe the lady must have slapped his mum undecided

If your point is the case, any gentle and sensible man will call of the wedding instead of inviting her for a meeting and pouring water on her. There is no maturity in that bro.

Congrats to the babe

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Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by IamEmem(m): 10:48am On Feb 22, 2018
shallysgirl:
Women are'annoying', just know it and you are halfway there. They are the weaker vessels. Men should learn to be more tolerant. Only a foolish man lays his hand in a woman.

Agreed they are weaker vessel. But some are so intolerable that they will abuse their man verbally even 3 days after
And some cannot and will never apologise even when it is clear they are at fault.
Such attitude can stir up the anger level of a gentle man.
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by jkendy(m): 10:49am On Feb 22, 2018
Fit2Rule:
The dude is lucky that it's just the wedding being called off. Try that shyit wit my sister and you'll be behind bars for assault and battery and i'll make sure you get a real constant shower of unpleasant water while in detention.
Shut up there. Forming what you're not. We know your type when we read ur typing
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Uruan2023: 10:49am On Feb 22, 2018
Truckpusher:
Right decision - Anyone that can raise their voice over any issue in a public place is a ticking timed bomb.


Congratulations Dear
Potential bachelors are waiting to grease that thing until one unlucky nigga decides to take it all for himself. grin

Lol, like 2-3niggas will shine it before one good guy comes and own it. �
Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Engr1(m): 10:52am On Feb 22, 2018
After much knacking.........abi?

Re: Lady Calls Off Her Wedding As Her Fiance Pours Water On Her At An Eatery by Engr1(m): 10:52am On Feb 22, 2018
I see..........

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