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What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by 2morogobeta(f): 10:38am On Feb 25, 2018 |
scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME whose situation is worse? person A or person B |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by EngrMcDon(m): 10:41am On Feb 25, 2018 |
Abeg no ask for my opinion on this kind thing. They don't exist in my world |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by dingbang(m): 10:42am On Feb 25, 2018 |
This girl sef.. Wetin be ya problem? Na money u dey find? 2 Likes |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:44am On Feb 25, 2018 |
A Losing a mother is the most traumatic experience a person could ever go through. You lose your anchor, your lighthouse & your security blanket. Fathers' roles in my opinion aren't that pivotal in a girl child's life. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by donstan18: 10:48am On Feb 25, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: It's more provital than you can ever imagine, you'll know only mother will open up to tell you. Most mothers do hide some father's emotional roles from the kids. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by 2morogobeta(f): 10:50am On Feb 25, 2018 |
donstan18: what are you saying please? which one is worse A OR B |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by bobokeshington: 10:50am On Feb 25, 2018 |
2morogobeta: Where did it happened ? My sympathy with those affected. 1 Like |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by 2morogobeta(f): 10:51am On Feb 25, 2018 |
bobokeshington: Answer the question jare who is worse a or b |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:52am On Feb 25, 2018 |
donstan18: How so? I'm not really getting what you're trying to say. I'd still choose the death of a father any day because losing a mother is just soul crushing. You're never the same again. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by 2morogobeta(f): 10:52am On Feb 25, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: are your parents alive? |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:52am On Feb 25, 2018 |
2morogobeta: No. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by 2morogobeta(f): 10:53am On Feb 25, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: im so sorry me too my mum died recently how old were you/ your parents when they died but my dad is still alive. 1 Like |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by donstan18: 10:54am On Feb 25, 2018 |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by 2morogobeta(f): 10:55am On Feb 25, 2018 |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:56am On Feb 25, 2018 |
2morogobeta: No problem. My condolences Well, they were no longer together but I was 13 when my dad passed away & 15 when my mom passed. It's been years. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by donstan18: 10:56am On Feb 25, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: Your choice, I think Well, it depends on how close you are/were to each of them. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:57am On Feb 25, 2018 |
donstan18: Perhaps. 1 Like |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by 2morogobeta(f): 10:59am On Feb 25, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: were you close to both? are you nigerian - your name is SA i am close to both my mother died when i was 23 my dad still alive to lose my dad would be devestating but to lose my mum.... even more devestating its common for dad not to be around not common for mum not to be around she was my favourite person in the whole world. i am just trying to compare my life to this girl she has everything. if i work hard, i can have everything. but ... no matter what i achieve in this world, my mum is always gone. but im trying to see what is worse her dad died when she was a few months old, that made her mother a WIDOW for the SECOND time as her first husband died too. i mean at least i had both parents for 23 years and my dad enjoyed 24 years of marriage? |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by donstan18: 10:59am On Feb 25, 2018 |
2morogobeta:Both of them are worse. But, if I'm forced to choose, i"l say B is the worst. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:13am On Feb 25, 2018 |
2morogobeta: Awwww girl, I'm feeling this story of yours to the soul right now. IMO, the experience is not the same because she never actually bonded with her father since he died while she was still a baby. The pain is different when you have memories of the person. It really hurts & hard to come to terms with. I'm sure she longs for the relationship they never had though. The "what ifs". But i don't think it's comparable since you actually spent some time with your parent to know the difference between the now & while they were still alive. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by eyinjuege: 11:15am On Feb 25, 2018 |
donstan18: How is it possible to hide someone else's emotional role? Can you pls kindly explain. My own understanding is that you're either there to support someone emotionally or you're not. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by lordlugards: 11:22am On Feb 25, 2018 |
2morogobeta:mumu the question was a trap to see how men and women will react at each parent's death and you're trying to prove that ladies will choose that the man die instead of the woman, even if their mother became widow for multiple time they are cool with it hence it's men that are dying. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by donstan18: 11:25am On Feb 25, 2018 |
eyinjuege: Sorry for not being specific, I meant being emotional traumatized and bothered about the bad fare of your kids. You know mothers naturally makes theirs, obvious to you than fathers, but deep down, fathers are more bothered. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by eyinjuege: 1:12pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
donstan18: We're not talking about the emotional needs of the parents here but that of the child. Its not enough to show or not show you're worried about your child. The main thing is about the child's needs. For example, the sick child in hospital feels terrible due to the illness, is mummy or daddy there with him to hug him, touch him and tell him its all going to be alright? Is daddy there to comfort him in hospital and to make him feel loved and not alone or abandoned in illness? Is daddy there to wipe away his tears? As parents, we all have our needs too. Lets not mix our needs with that of the children as they are seperate from one another. A father /mother should be the number one cheerleader of their child. We should all try to be close to our children and show it that we love them. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by donstan18: 1:39pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
eyinjuege: I Initially apologized for not being specific with my comment. Well, you made a point. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by eyinjuege: 1:49pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
donstan18: No offence was taken initially, and I'm also not trying to offend you. Just a normal discussion about some of the roles of parents whether mom or dad. Have a good Sunday.. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by donstan18: 1:55pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
eyinjuege: Alright brO, thanks for the contribution. Bless up. |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by derrydinny: 2:20pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
donstan18: very true, fathers like to act tough, they will be very weak but they will still act strong also fathers are less likely to be closer to their kids cos of stress, after working thru out the day, they prefer to rest other than chatting with their kids fathers that are less busy are closer to their children than those that are always busy |
Re: What Situation Is Worse, Scenario A Or Scenario B? by donstan18: 2:33pm On Feb 25, 2018 |
derrydinny: That's the truth brO! Much point, you got. But, nature has it that mothers are to close their kids more than fathers, which is making most fellows think otherwise. |
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