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hopexter:
95% of women share the same idea with her which is not easy to come out with, but a woman like you who sleeps with both past and present lovers still condemn her. This is why she mentioned pretenders like you....

past, present...pretenders kido pls I'm not your mother

She has a very good point

MhizAJ:
It's not new...Some people act in that manner too...They must have sex before marriage

She's not a virgin afterall so there's no need pretending about it or trying to tell her man to hold on till the wedding night

However,i do not support pre marital sex...It's wrong

Only virgins can say ‘they don’t support pre marital sex’ with some sense of integrity.

You can’t advocate for what you lack experience in more so, when you eaten your fill of the meal you now condemn.

At least she is being honest...

The lady make sense small o.

Confirm!! Na d sex go belle full u shey.

MhizAJ:
It's not new...Some people act in that manner too...They must have sex before marriage

She's not a virgin afterall so there's no need pretending about it or trying to tell her man to hold on till the wedding night

However,i do not support pre marital sex...It's wrong

you need fried akamu...

By this girl's standard, marriage is all about sekx. But I think other things ought to compliment sekx... My own conviction anyway.

MhizAJ:
It's not new...Some people act in that manner too...They must have sex before marriage

She's not a virgin afterall so there's no need pretending about it or trying to tell her man to hold on till the wedding night

However,i do not support pre marital sex...It's wrong

How's it wrong when your points above is screaming, it's no big deal.

MhizAJ:
It's not new...Some people act in that manner too...They must have sex before marriage

She's not a virgin afterall so there's no need pretending about it or trying to tell her man to hold on till the wedding night

However,i do not support pre marital sex...It's wrong

there's nothing like pre-marital sex,sex is sex.

Asowari:
is marriage all about sex

Though, marriage is not all about sex; however, there is no marriage without sex!

why are people on her case?that's her choice and decision and it should be respected,i see so many judges here already criticizing remember na God create sex ohh

Asowari:
is marriage all about sex

Yes my broda it is. No marriage can last without adequate and satisfying sex. This is me being realistic

greiboy:
I see all you know how to type is "you don't have sense" "you are dumb"

The irony of that lies in the way mad people behave I.e. they are often the first set of people to accuse others of being mad

Have a nice day

judging from your word, it means you are mad then... You need a doctor....

MhizAJ:
I just think it's messy and troublesome

It causes some kind of tension because of the hidden motives behind it sometimes

After you've done it, things are never the same. It just changes everything

It's just my opinion though or maybe it's just a matter of personal preference for me

I used to think that having sex and living together with a man makes one understand the sexual chemistry and learn the habits that may or may not get your partner upset and in that case decide whether you gonn marry him or not but i know better now and that's why some people are usually reluctant to have sex except in the context of a committed relationship

An ex cohabitant spotted

kenir:
"and pretenders has had cases of breakup because of this" horrible! and people will not notice because "sex before marriage" is the topic

I actually saw it but I dont know whether or not she is correct because I am not an English graduate

Asowari:
is marriage all about sex

Marriage means different things to different people. To this lady, sex takes precedence over everything else. The man must be able to do it well or he is out of the options. And the way to comfirm this is by testing the man.

Tecno66:
Marriage means different things to different people. To this lady, sex takes precedence over everything else. The man must be able to do it well or he is out of the options. And the way to comfirm this is by testing the man.

lol abi

Asowari:
is marriage all about sex

Why is it socially allowed only within marriage?

she made a very good point even though premarital sex is wrong. But many indulge

greiboy:
I see all you know how to type is "you don't have sense" "you are dumb"

The irony of that lies in the way mad people behave I.e. they are often the first set of people to accuse others of being mad

Have a nice day

Grei! U too smart for this. I tot u wld have learnt how to identify and ignore trolls...

BABANGBALI:
So how many she go test before settling down?

NO MORE LABAKE1 on ur mind now ??

Mandrake007:
there's nothing like pre-marital sex,sex is sex.

Hmmm! Come to think of it.. But this your comment is serious food for thought oh! Sex is sex? Wait a minute...could the Churches be wrong for saying having sex before matrimony is fornication? This is confusing...

OK now

BdorianGray:
NO MORE LABAKE1 on ur mind now ??

no mind her,she dey do like dat witch{CEE C} wey dey disturb Tobi of bbnaija

BdorianGray:
Hmmm! Come to think of it.. But this your comment is serious food for thought oh! Sex is sex? Wait a minute...could the Churches be wrong for saying having sex before matrimony is fornication? This is confusing...

we're just being subjected to religious conformity,sex is a very natural and normal act God made available to us or enjoy,have you heard anywhere in the bible of a marital sex ordained by God lol its just sex,animals do it, I don't know why religions(christianity in particular) have laid so much emphasis on sex there by making it a very sensitive subject which people are nervous,embarrassed and cautious while discussing it,in my mind I think religious leaders are only trying to curtail sexual growth because they're worried at how far humans might take sex which they believe can be the foundation at which immorality thrives(i partly believe this) so 'pre-marital' sexis just a newage Christian doctrine just like every other senseless doctrine emanating from everywhere,jacob had premarital sex with rachel,David with bathshebah,abraham committed adultery with hagar,talk more of Solomon who had 300 hags on the side,these people are examplery figures in the bible,if people say they don't wanna commit pre-marital sex because they see it as the apex sin then they better drop all other sinful acts because sin is sin none is bigger or smaller,because if everyone on earth is gonna be judged on the basis of sins committed nobody is going to make heaven,virginity or lack of 'pre-marital sex' won't take you to heaven so why treat sex like it was made by the devil for sinners if God didn't want us to have sex he wouldn't have given us genitals.but fornication is a sin oh I'm not endorsing it but so is hyopcrisy and lying.

“To hear many religious people talk, one would think God created the torso, head, legs and arms, but the devil slapped on the genitals.” ~ Don Schrader

xendra:
she no wise, she be oloriburuku

don't hide it u enjoy it to

Oturutax:
her name says it all.. KATE

Meaning?

Mandrake007:
we're just being subjected to religious conformity,sex is a very natural and normal act God made available to us or enjoy,have you heard anywhere in the bible of a marital sex ordained by God lol its just sex,animals do it, I don't know why religions(christianity in particular) have laid so much emphasis on sex there by making it a very sensitive subject which people are nervous,embarrassed and cautious while discussing it,in my mind I think religious leaders are only trying to curtail sexual growth because they're worried at how far humans might take sex which they believe can be the foundation at which immorality thrives(i partly believe this) so 'pre-marital' sexis just a newage Christian doctrine just like every other senseless doctrine emanating from everywhere,jacob had premarital sex with rachel,David with bathshebah,abraham committed adultery with hagar,talk more of Solomon who had 300 hags on the side,these people are examplery figures in the bible,if people say they don't wanna commit pre-marital sex because they see it as the apex sin then they better drop all other sinful acts because sin is sin none is bigger or smaller,because if everyone on earth is gonna be judged on the basis of sins committed nobody is going to make heaven,virginity or lack of 'pre-marital sex' won't take you to heaven so why treat sex like it was made by the devil for sinners if God didn't want us to have sex he wouldn't have given us genitals.but fornication is a sin oh I'm not endorsing it but so is hyopcrisy and lying.

“To hear many religious people talk, one would think God created the torso, head, legs and arms, but the devil slapped on the genitals.” ~ Don Schrader

Very well elucidated. I quite understand and appreciate your perspective.
In all, we must all try to live an ethical life.

BdorianGray:
Very well elucidated. I quite understand and appreciate your perspective.
In all, we must all try to live an ethical life.

True That

MhizAJ:
It's not new...Some people act in that manner too...They must have sex before marriage

She's not a virgin afterall so there's no need pretending about it or trying to tell her man to hold on till the wedding night

However,i do not support pre marital sex...It's wrong

but you've done it like twice and above abi?