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z11111:
I miss my dad so much. I told my mom not to divorce him but she wouldnt listen. My name is Zavia,I am 22 years old undergraduate. My parents got divorced two years ago. As far as I am concerned,my mother is the cause of my parents break up.

Before the break up,my parents used to fight all the time. My mother always accused my father of cheating on her whereas she never got him with any woman. They would quarrel and fight for days without end. I used to dread going home for holidays cos I didnt want to see my parents. But my dad loved me so much. Inspite of all that was happening,he made sure that he kept caring for me and my brother Xavia. He would buy us anything we needed. He visited us regularly at boarding school. He called every other day to check on us. Where as my mom seemed not to care. It came to me as a realization one day that my mom regretted marrying my father and regretted having us as her children. She kept threatening to divorce and I kept begging her not to. My father also kept begging her but she wouldnt listen.Two years ago,they finally divorced and since that time,my life has never been the same.

I will never forgive my mom for allowing my father leave the house for us. I became angry and bitter against my mom. And to punish her,I became wayward. I began to party and drink and sleep with guys. I found myself dependent on porn and sex. I would have sex with any guy who even tried to smile at me. Yes,I became a rebel. Its amazing how my grades in school still fell within average. I was hurting inside and no one knew why. My mother began to date men after the divorce. She seemed happy with her new freedom. That made me even more angrier.

Because of this anger,I seduced ....

http://livelystones.com.ng/how-my-mother-turned-me-into-the-callous-bitch-that-i-am-today/

XhosaNostra:
She'll understand it when she's less immature, with a few bad relationship experiences of her own. She can't expect her mother to give up on her own wellbeing & sanity for her kids. She's a human too. She can remain in a bad relationship when it's her turn, if she's so self-sacrificial.

InfernoNig:
You have every right to be angry and at same time you own your life a 100% responsibilty.your mom did not force you to be a callous bitch or a prostitute. You choose that part yourself and its your choice so Quit blaming your mom and own up to your doing.