FluidQueen:
For a lady who was trained and brought up and Still is singlehandedly trained by A Woman In College, I'd like for you to Shut your filthy mouth up!

A woman without a man is synonymous to A Lizard without an IPhone.. We only need ourselves, Our ambitions, the fire in our souls and simply focus on becoming that independent woman that woukd still triumph in our endeavors regardless of what Sexist, mentally retrogressive people like you think.

keep blowing grammar and making up fallacies to comfort and lie to yourself just because you're maybe privileged I presume doesn't make it the same for other ladies out there,maybe you should get out from your comfort zone, go out more and see the world for what it is,fact is many young women who even live in the citie depend on men for their livelihood so women depending on men is synonymous to a car needing fuel,you women need men period!

Mandrake007:
keep blowing grammar and making up fallacies to comfort and lie to yourself just because you're maybe privileged I presume doesn't make it the same for other ladies out there,maybe you should get out from your comfort zone, go out more and see the world for what it is,fact is many young women who even live in the citie depend on men for their livelihood so women depending on men is synonymous to a car needing fuel,you women need men period!

Needing men for what exactly?I was Butressing my point based on Money, Food, Shelter. Finance.

Maybe Financially dependent women. Yes. You lots are their meal ticket. I Concur.

But for Independent women that Work, hustle, Have educational degrees and Get salaries the same way you do? Lol. They depend on NOBODY but themselves. And last I checked, that's the only thing Y'all boast about doing for Women. Providing. These women call the shots and DO NOT NEED YOU! Hard truth. They could afford their Shawarmas and whatever they want to

Blackhawk01:
Is she unwell? Which of the girls?

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Spits on her cone head!!

FluidQueen:
Needing men for what exactly?I was Butressing my point based on Money, Food, Shelter. Finance.

Maybe Financially dependent women. Yes. You lots are their meal ticket. I Concur.

But for Independent women that Work, hustle, Have educational degrees and Get salaries the same way you do? Lol. They depend on NOBODY but themselves. And last I checked, that's the only thing Y'all boast about doing for Women. Providing. These women call the shots and DO NOT NEED YOU! Hard truth. They could afford their Shawarmas and whatever they want to

your comment got radical feminism written over its so apparent it's like it's you are in a contest with men but nah it's the natural order of things you lot are just like the prodigal son you know where home is,your so called "miss independent career women who don't need a man" are still same women who run to churches,dating apps and several other means seeking for men when the truth of life dawns on them then they realize all those years of foolishness only results in bitterness and loneliness right there they want a man who's gonna take charge of them but sometimes it's too late.

Mandrake007:
your comment got radical feminism written over its so apparent it's like it's you are in a contest with men but nah it's the natural order of things you lot are just like the prodigal son you know where home is,your so called "miss independent career women who don't need a man" are still same women who run to churches,dating apps and several other means seeking for men when the truth of life dawns on them then they realize all those years of foolishness only results in bitterness and loneliness right there they want a man who's gonna take charge of them but sometimes it's too late.

I do not need men to PROVIDE for my financial NEEDS. They are not my parents. And these has nothing to do with Feminism.

Financial provision is one out of Several things Men that are financially independent have to offer. All I'm saying is Women that are also financially independent do not necessarily need these things from men. They have the capability to provide for themselves.

Can you please not make this about U? It's not the battle of the sexes. Aim to be less Short-Sighted, maybe You'd see my point. A rising population of Nigerian women are becoming financially independent. That is what I'm trying to say here. They can afford to get themselves things.

greiboy:
Although I haven't taken more than two girls in my entire life to a restaurant or fast food chain to dine on pizza or sharwama

I think the lady has a point. It is very rare to see a Nigerian lady go to restaurants or fast food chains just to buy any of those things, just like it is very rare to find a Nigerian guy buying those things without a lady accompanying him

So it is often the snacks of choice in the Nigeria dating scene.

wetin a guy wan take pizza or sharwarma do? Na food be dose ones?. If i must buy it its because a lady requested for it. Either u give me my normal beans and yam or my bitter leaf soup or i won't chop any other tin. By the way u forgot to mention those ladies wey u go invite come an eatry and when they come, they will be bringing their squadron of friends along. U invited just one girl to have a nice quiet moment with her and u will be seeing thirty or fifty more girls accompanying her. Endtime date i tell u.

FluidQueen:
I do not need men to PROVIDE for my financial NEEDS. They are not my parents. And these has nothing to do with Feminism.

Financial provision is one out of Several things Men that are financially independent have to offer. All I'm saying is Women that are also financially independent do not necessarily need these things from men. They have the capability to provide for themselves.

Can you please not make this about U? It's not the battle of the sexes. Aim to be less Short-Sighted, maybe You'd see my point. A rising population of Nigerian women are becoming financially independent. That is what I'm trying to say here. They can afford to get themselves things.

OK you said financial provision are one of the things men financially independent can offer,atleast men got something to offer,you lot clamor for equality why can't you lead by example then by practicing what you preach and offer more other than you lot laying on your backs and your spreading legs.

Regardless of how much women earn how come you lot are just naturally dependent,this is a very natural thing when things are not provided for you like demanded you still throw tantrums and go on tirades about how men are selfish small minded scums who don't the needs of a woman..sometimes I just feel you lot just hop on the bandwagon because y'all are confused.

since women are more independent now and want equality why don't we women provide for their men just like their men provide,go into the streets ask a random lady about relationships/marriage they already got a default mindset that a man most provide all their basic needs and they should be entitled to several privileges because ofcourse they're women and that's the societal conformity.

Since you're the leader of 'independent women' I hope you and your cohorts would be the change of the status quo by voluntarily getting your bfs cars iphones, and regular incentives after intercourse,all expensed trips to holiday resorts etc by that way we'll know we have come a long way,this is ofcourse exaggerated but I hope you can aid your partner financially voluntarily without thinking he's gigolo.Thanks.

Mandrake007:
OK you said financial provision are one of the things men financially independent can offer,atleast men got something to offer,you lot clamor for equality why can't you lead by example then by practicing what you preach and offer more other than you lot laying on your backs and your spreading legs.

Regardless of how much women earn how come you lot are just naturally dependent,this is a very natural thing when things are not provided for you like demanded you still throw tantrums and go on tirades about how men are selfish small minded scums who don't the needs of a woman..sometimes I just feel you lot just hop on the bandwagon because y'all are confused.

since women are more independent now and want equality why don't we women provide for their men just like their men provide,go into the streets ask a random lady about relationships/marriage they already got a default mindset that a man most provide all their basic needs and they should be entitled to several privileges because ofcourse they're women and that's the societal conformity.

Since you're the leader of 'independent women' I hope you and your cohorts would be the change of the status quo by voluntarily getting your bfs cars iphones, and regular incentives after intercourse,all expensed trips to holiday resorts etc by that way we'll know we have come a long way,this is ofcourse exaggerated but I hope you can aid your partner financially voluntarily without thinking he's gigolo.Thanks.

because women do not find you worthy to buy things for You doesn't mean there aren't women that are 'SHOULDER-ING' a lot of financial Responsibilities. Women that actually provide for their family and send their kids to school. But ofcourse, You seem to be willfully oblivious of the fact that there are women that are indeed financially Independent.

First, not Every female believes in Equality, feminism and whatnot. The larger population, do not believe in feminism or even know what the word entails. Reason you still see them agreeing with The Stereotype, Men are providers.


And By the way. I do not subscribe to the Stereotype, men must provide. I believe in shared financial Responsibilities in A home. And I'm sorry, if a larger population Of Nigerian women are actually dependent On You lots for provision of basic things like food, money and whatnot. That's where feminism comes in play. Breaking rigid gender norms.

The rest you wrote are basically rants of a Butthurt human. Stop buying these things for women if it actually stings you this much. Goodluck.

FluidQueen:
because women do not find you worthy to buy things for You doesn't mean there aren't women that are 'SHOULDER-ING' a lot of financial Responsibilities. Women that actually provide for their family and send their kids to school. But ofcourse, You seem to be willfully oblivious of the fact that there are women that are indeed financially Independent.

First, not Every female believes in Equality, feminism and whatnot. The larger population, do not believe in feminism or even know what the word entails. Reason you still see them agreeing with The Stereotype, Men are providers.


And By the way. I do not subscribe to the Stereotype, men must provide. I believe in shared financial Responsibilities in A home. And I'm sorry, if a larger population Of Nigerian women are actually dependent On You lots for provision of basic things like food, money and whatnot. That's where feminism comes in play. Breaking rigid gender norms.

The rest you wrote are basically rants of a Butthurt human. Stop buying these things for women if it actually stings you this much. Goodluck.

i'm open minded to learning and don't get offended while divulging my ideas and I'm willing to listen to what you gotta say but calling my statement a "butthurt rant" is uncalled for and just points out how obstinate you are with your ideologies but it's alright you made some valid points but i'll stick to my opinions and I insist you step out of your enclosure you still have a lot to learn.

lefulefu:
wetin a guy wan take pizza or sharwarma do? Na food be dose ones?. If i must buy it its because a lady requested for it. Either u give me my normal beans and yam or my bitter leaf soup or i won't chop any other tin. By the way u forgot to mention those ladies wey u go invite come an eatry and when they come, they will be bringing their squadron of friends along. U invited just one girl to have a nice quiet moment with her and u will be seeing thirty or fifty more girls accompanying her. Endtime date i tell u.

Na true you talk ooo my chairman

Those ladies way go pack food go home nko, although na hear, I just dey hear am

I have not experienced it before

Mandrake007:
i'm open minded to learning and don't get offended while divulging my ideas and I'm willing to listen to what you gotta say but calling my statement a "butthurt rant" is uncalled for and just points out how obstinate you are with your ideologies but it's alright you made some valid points but i'll stick to my opinions and I insist you step out of your enclosure you still have a lot to learn.

Sorry for the butthurt thingy. My apologies.


Glad you saw through my points. Also good you're sticking to your opinions.
And for your enclosure thingy, I do not get you.

greiboy:
Na true you talk ooo my chairman

Those ladies way go pack food go home nko, although na hear, I just dey hear am

I have not experienced it before

aghh those ones?
they will be bringing out massive polythene bags from nowhere and be stuffing all the junk in it.the way those massive polythene bags dey fit enter their handbags with ease after stuffing it is surely a miracle

FluidQueen:
Sorry for the butthurt thingy. My apologies.


Glad you saw through my points. Also good you're sticking to your opinions.
And for your enclosure thingy, I do not get you.

Good,I mean you need to step out more,meet people get marinated into the society it's a lot to learn out there.

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