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Dear Lively Stones,

My marriage is not working and I need help on what to do otherwise,we might just pack it up.

My wife and I have been married for seven years. We have a daughter that is five years old. A year ago,something happened. I cheated with a young lady in our compound and since then,our marriage has never been the same.

I feel terribly sorry that I cheated but it was not really my fault. My wife's job keeps her very busy but my job allows me flexibility. Our sex life paid the cost for the her career. She was barely able to keep up in that department. The daughter of one of my neighbors seem to notice how sex deprived I was when we both ran into each other one day at a grocery store. W

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-cheated-a-year-agobut-my-wife-is-pushing-me-away/

hmmmm....... complicated issue.. only advice don't give up on her.. continue loving her,take her out,buy her gifts.. ignite the flame of love in her( that's sounds weird coming from me sha ).. she trusting you isn't impossible buh gonna be difficult.. another thing sack that house help I hate snitches.

On this kind of stories one also need to hear from your wife,you already gave us an excuse for ur flaws, we can not jus take your story even doh it might be true,all stories have two sides

1. OP stop trying to justify your unacceptable infidelity by pointing to your jobs and sex life, accept your error and eliminate trying to find a reason for your error
2. Cut off any relationship with the lady you messed up with.
3. You have to work on gaining your wife's trust it's going to be hard but you must work at it.
4. The lady is hurting now, you must lay down your ego and sooth her emotional wound your action caused.
5. Make up your mind and bring her into your plan to make your marriage work again by discussing extensively why the error was made and how what you guys will do to avoid a repeat.
6. Love her more and stay positive and don't beat yourself over for the error you committed learn to forgive you and move on.
Wish you the best bro

True actually .All stories have two sides.

ishabablessing:
On this kind of stories one also need to hear from your wife,you already gave us an excuse for ur flaws, we can not jus take your story even doh it might be true,all stories have two sides

Excellent.

You said it all.

oloriooko:
1. OP stop trying to justify your unacceptable infidelity by pointing to your jobs and sex life, accept your error and eliminate trying to find a reason for your error
2. Cut off any relationship with the lady you messed up with.
3. You have to work on gaining your wife's trust it's going to be hard but you must work at it.
4. The lady is hurting now, you must lay down your ego and sooth her emotional wound your action caused.
5. Make up your mind and bring her into your plan to make your marriage work again by discussing extensively why the error was made and how what you guys will do to avoid a repeat.
6. Love her more and stay positive and don't beat yourself over for the error you committed learn to forgive you and move on.
Wish you the best bro