Most times before I put up a post, I do a mini research, that is, google. Before I start, I just want to say Caucasians have a different approach to issues.

Let’s get down to it. I was part of a discussion with some colleagues at work about handling the other woman that is disturbing your man, because you know, he’s jollof rice and ripe dodo with moin moin that everyone wants a piece of. Personally I don’t think it’s your duty to fend off someone throwing advances at your partner but I am not married as they pointed out and I’m young so maybe I don’t understand how this love something works. Anyway, they said I should post it on my blog and see what people think. If only they knew that my blog readers only read and say a silent prayer for me without commenting.

According to one lady, there are women that just will not take no for an answer from your man. They’ll barrage him with calls, send unsolicited nudes, suggestive messages and all the rest and as a woman it is your duty to put an end to it. She went further to say sometimes the man would outright ask you to handle it. I call bullshit.

So what that means is if for example there was someone at work that was flirting heavily with me and I turned the guy down severally and he still continues, the next thing is for me to call my man to either call the guy and further reiterate that I’m in a relationship or better still ask him to follow me to the office to handle the guy because…? Please tell me you see where I am going with this. That is escapist behaviour. Men are funny people, most times they know what they’re doing but they pretend like stuff ... read more @https://olliealley./2018/03/09/what-to-do-when-someone-wants-your-man/

Dear Op, I think something is seriously wrong with your brain. Why is it that your major problem is only on love, relationship, partner, seex, etc. Pls use ur time in a more productive way. My piece of 'akara'.

EnglishPolice:
Dear Op, I think something is seriously wrong with your brain. Why is it that your major problem is only on love, relationship, partner, seex, etc. Pls use ur time in a more productive way. My piece of 'akara'.

Is this not the romance section?
Where should the OP post exactly?

All these girls that call themselves boyfriend's 'besties" I got my eyes on you.

EnglishPolice:
Dear Op, I think something is seriously wrong with your brain. Why is it that your major problem is only on love, relationship, partner, seex, etc. Pls use ur time in a more productive way. My piece of 'akara'.

If you read to the end and proceeded to the blog, you would know how utterly asinine this statement is. By the way, why are you here in the relationship segment if your brain is more functional?