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Gbolar09:
I met a lady at a friends wedding and we started dating afterwards. she refused me of sex severally untilI had my way forcefully at a point(just about 5months) after meeting.

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she later came up with a pregnancy story which was later confirmed after test. I told her to abort it as I wasn't ready for marriage but she refused.



You forced your way remember, so that's the result.



Eventually we agreed to keep it after series of begging and persuasion. we later proceeded to having our introduction by her insistence, even though she spent a larger percentage of the bills. we have being together since then till she delivered the baby and the baby is 9months old now.



She insisted that you take up your responsibility as a man.



I have always had this feeling that my short sexual activities with her should not bring forth the pregnancy but I kept mute.


Tell the feeling to leave you,because it's not true

on delivering the baby, the baby didn't look in anyway like me especially the skin colour but I later noticed a little resemblance between the baby and one of her(the mother) ex boyfriend which she spoke briefly about. what should I do please as I am totally confused?

Don't know if you are scared of your act or confused, which should I say

Gbolar09:
I met a lady at a friends wedding and we started dating afterwards. she refused me of sex severally until I had my way forcefully at a point(just about 5months) after meeting. she later came up with a pregnancy story which was later confirmed after test. I told her to abort it as I wasn't ready for marriage but she refused. Eventually we agreed to keep it after series of begging and persuasion. we later proceeded to having our introduction by her insistence, even though she spent a larger percentage of the bills. we have being together since then till she delivered the baby and the baby is 9months old now. I have always had this feeling that my short sexual activities with her should not bring forth the pregnancy but I kept mute. on delivering the baby, the baby didn't look in anyway like me especially the skin colour but I later noticed a little resemblance between the baby and one of her(the mother) ex boyfriend which she spoke briefly about. what should I do please as I am totally confused?

blackpanthar:
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You FORCED her, so you have to face the music.
YOU WANTED TO PLAY GAMES but didnt know the RULES to being a PLAYER... now you are TRAPPED.
You really NEVER LOVED HER.... but just wanted her body.

NOW
Your eyes is clearing but has not really cleared totally because you have been caged and boxed and blamed for what another may have done... GO AND DO A PATERNAL TEST... its not to come here remorseless and whine about it... go and confirm once and for all. BE A MAN.

you may be shocked to note that IT IS YOUR BABY... ressemblance may be that another man has deposited in the same honeypot before you FORCEFULLY entered.

NEXT TIME NEVER LET YOUR ERECTION CONTROL YOUR DIRECTION..... it has a way of messing up your whole life and bringing shame, regret and stigma