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Dear Jzhane,
I am a fresh graduate and I live in Minna, Niger State.am in a fix and need advise as quickly as possible.
My best friend sent your story excerpt on Whatsapp to me. I was initially reluctant to click on the link after reading the highlight because I avoid any relationship site that will be pointing out my deeds to me. I don’t like people using abusive language on me. But my friend who is privy to my predicament actually convinced me about your blog, which i now also recommend to everyone.
After reading few of your stories, I concluded that this is the right person to share my pains with where I will not be judged. Ma, your comments are on point, no criticism on people personality. Pardon me to say but I like you ma because of you Godly counsel, though we have not met Am sure anyone having you as a big aunt is blessed.
I will be getting married in 6 months time to the most caring, gentle and wonderful man ever. I have a concern which have kept me in bondage, fear…. I was abused at a very young age. After the abuse,I became a sex slave. This young man that I am getting married to is Wilson. I have been dating Wilson for 2 years now but he has not been able to ever satisfy my sexual needs. What he doesn’t know is that,I have met with other men behind his back. I am not attracted to them,I just have insatiable needs which Wilson cannot meet.
My Condition started at an early age, precisely 7 years. My mum will leave me with the young man,our neighbor who was about 25 years at that time. He was always coming to our house to gist with us. My parents didn’t suspect anything but he pretended to be playful with me but any chance he had,he abused me and made me promise to keep quiet. It was our little secret. He would give me candies as my reward for keeping quiet. This continued until I was 8 years old. We then moved out of that neighborhood.
When I was 12 years old,approaching puberty, I began to observe that I was drawn to s*x. The young boys in my area would playfully touch me and I would just allow them. It felt like food to me. I was being used by all the little boys in my area.I left for boarding house and that didn’t stop. I was abused by my seniors and house teachers. And I loved every bit of the abuse cos I loved sex like I needed it to breathe. I lived quite freely in the University. I had slept with several guys and lecturers before graduation.
Gloria has been my best friend since uni. She is the one who introduced me to your blog. One time,while in school,She took me to a Church in our desperation to solve this matter. I paid N50k to conduct deliverance. That didn’t work. After narrating my whole experience to the Pastor, he said the man the abused me when I was ..

https://livelystones.com.ng/abused-and-cursed-yet-he-wants-to-marry-meplease-help/

deliverance ..50k. no wonder it did not work, OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST destest such, infact its a clear sign of a fake church.

desperation can make some people do anything

HRHQueenPhil:
deliverance ..50k. no wonder it did not work, OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST destest such, infact its a clear sign of a fake church.

The addiction can be removed. You just need a better ”addiction”….you remove the addiction by focusing on something else . A perfect example is praying. Anytime you feel the urge,you start praying. You listen to alot of faith lifting messages too.

You find yourself a support group to hold you through….you begin to develop a close relationship with God,He will remove the will and urge completely.

Once you are able to complete the above,which will take some time,you my dear,can live a happy normal life free of addiction.

liquidlove2018:
Dear Jzhane,
I am a fresh graduate and I live in Minna, Niger State.am in a fix and need advise as quickly as possible.
My best friend sent your story excerpt on Whatsapp to me. I was initially reluctant to click on the link after reading the highlight because I avoid any relationship site that will be pointing out my deeds to me. I don’t like people using abusive language on me. But my friend who is privy to my predicament actually convinced me about your blog, which i now also recommend to everyone.
After reading few of your stories, I concluded that this is the right person to share my pains with where I will not be judged. Ma, your comments are on point, no criticism on people personality. Pardon me to say but I like you ma because of you Godly counsel, though we have not met Am sure anyone having you as a big aunt is blessed.
I will be getting married in 6 months time to the most caring, gentle and wonderful man ever. I have a concern which have kept me in bondage, fear…. I was abused at a very young age. After the abuse,I became a sex slave. This young man that I am getting married to is Wilson. I have been dating Wilson for 2 years now but he has not been able to ever satisfy my sexual needs. What he doesn’t know is that,I have met with other men behind his back. I am not attracted to them,I just have insatiable needs which Wilson cannot meet.
My Condition started at an early age, precisely 7 years. My mum will leave me with the young man,our neighbor who was about 25 years at that time. He was always coming to our house to gist with us. My parents didn’t suspect anything but he pretended to be playful with me but any chance he had,he abused me and made me promise to keep quiet. It was our little secret. He would give me candies as my reward for keeping quiet. This continued until I was 8 years old. We then moved out of that neighborhood.
When I was 12 years old,approaching puberty, I began to observe that I was drawn to s*x. The young boys in my area would playfully touch me and I would just allow them. It felt like food to me. I was being used by all the little boys in my area.I left for boarding house and that didn’t stop. I was abused by my seniors and house teachers. And I loved every bit of the abuse cos I loved sex like I needed it to breathe. I lived quite freely in the University. I had slept with several guys and lecturers before graduation.
Gloria has been my best friend since uni. She is the one who introduced me to your blog. One time,while in school,She took me to a Church in our desperation to solve this matter. I paid N50k to conduct deliverance. That didn’t work. After narrating my whole experience to the Pastor, he said the man the abused me when I was ..

https://livelystones.com.ng/abused-and-cursed-yet-he-wants-to-marry-meplease-help/

Addiction is a psychological problem. Even if "deliverance" works, the actress in this nollywood movie has not fixed her mind yet, and it will still go back to that habit given enough boredom because she has not replaced it with anything.

It takes time to rewrite ones psyche.

Haaaa!!!
Actress kwa !!
Which movie ?

2buffagain:
Addiction is a psychological problem. Even if "deliverance" works, the actress in this nollywood movie has not fixed her mind yet, and it will still go back to that habit given enough boredom because she has not replaced it with anything.

It takes time to rewrite ones psyche.