My view on how to treat women...


Don't compare your wife to other women. You don't know what their husbands are going through.



. NEVER expose your wife's weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman.



. Don't think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Agreesive men don't make a happy home.



Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid.


. Do your responsibilities as man...don't leave every to your woman.



. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise the kids.


Don't be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends and extended family. The wife and children are your first responsibility.


. Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure should be considered before your own.


Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If you loved them so much why didn't you marry them instead of your wife.


Never shout down your wife or challenge her in front of the children. The children are watching. They won't listen and obey her too.


Tell your wife she's beautiful even if you know she's looking normal. Women love compliment.


Don't forget that women also want attention and someone to share their thoughts with. Never be too busy .

.Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her shopping and once in a while, cook for her.


Please don't forget your these anniversary dates. Wedding ,engagement,the first time you kissed. I beg you. These dates mean a lot to women. (Don't ask me why). I also don't know.


. Your mother should not have the final say in your marriage. You married your wife, not you and your mother. Let her talk in her own husband's house.


.There are 5 days each month that you have to say "I'm sorry", "yes baby" and "I love you" more than 7 times a day. That's when she's menstruating.

In short, just be a doormat, don't hold her to any standards.
I thought this was marriage not slavery.

Number 1 Ašslicker on Nairaland

Hmm too much sentiment attached with too many priority placed, I find this quite funny.
If marriage is Slavery, then I do not want to get married.

Good a thing you said ur view's. Keep viewing it that way.

JONNYSPUTE:
Good a thing you said ur view's. Keep viewing it that way.

hmm OK oo

Martin0:



hmm OK oo

. Yes I said so because you think and believe from your own perspective that doing all this you listed is what you need to keep a woman right? But I tell you its not but since its your views,view it wella before you cry had I known when the time comes.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Yes I said so because you think and believe from your own perspective that doing all this you listed is what you need to keep a woman right? But I tell you its not but since its your views,view it wella before you cry had I known when the time comes.

hmmmmm chai wait can I ask you something?

can you keep a long distances relationship for 8year's and then still get married to her.

Martin0:



hmmmmm chai wait can I ask you something?

can you keep a long distances relationship for 8year's and then still get married to her.

. Yes I can. Its all about trust and individual differences. That you are gumming a girl and doing everything possible for her is not a guarantee that she will be into you as much as you are into her. If the couples involved in such long distance relationships are able to make a definition of what they actually wanted,its OK but let's be realistic 8 years of dating someone whether long or short whatever is not all that advisable. We all read a thread here of how one computer guy was busy helping and stocking a lady,always in her house,thinking he was into a relationship whereas the lady in question was busy fucking another guy. Trust and understanding is the watch word not love.

@OP

By the time you realized that the saying "one who comes into equity must come with a clean hands" remains potent, then, you'll see reason to make amend and choose your words wisely.

Only a virtuous woman deserves the best from his sane and sound man.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Yes I can. Its all about trust and individual differences. That you are gumming a girl and doing everything possible for her is not a guarantee that she will be into you as much as you are into her. If the couples involved in such long distance relationships are able to make a definition of what they actually wanted,its OK but let's be realistic 8 years of dating someone whether long or short whatever is not all that advisable. We all read a thread here of how one computer guy was busy helping and stocking a lady,always in her house,thinking he was into a relationship whereas the lady in question was busy fucking another guy. Trust and understanding is the watch word not love.

mmmmm OK ooo

This is mockery

I'm still young, I'm 20, but I love to learn about relationships and marriage but some people have said all what the OP said is slavery and mockery but I can't figure out how being sweet is slavery

I really want someone to come explain the parts where slavery comes in

Thank you in advance, no offense intended

Martin0:



mmmmm OK ooo

Matinez ezigbo Nwanne biko e ge na ndi ara ju na NL.
I bet you, there is no how in this earth as long as the heavens exist that God would not bless your soul with the best woman of your dreams.The one that would love you more and that you would love better, a lady that wld make life so easy, fun and fulfilling for u. She wld appear from no where. Just watch. You would certainly end up in a happy and successful matrimony. Mark my words....
Amam na uche GI di ya..
I will personally be damned if u don't. But am sure u wld... Btw, nice write up!!

0luwatope:
I'm still young, I'm 20, but I love to learn about relationships and marriage but some people have said all what the OP said is slavery and mockery but I can't figure out how being sweet is slavery

I really want someone to come explain the parts where slavery comes in

Thank you in advance, no offense intended

Don't mind some NL guys if this was told to ladies now the lady is a wife material and a virtuous one.

0luwatope:
I'm still young, I'm 20, but I love to learn about relationships and marriage but some people have said all what the OP said is slavery and mockery but I can't figure out how being sweet is slavery

I really want someone to come explain the parts where slavery comes in

Thank you in advance, no offense intended

My Brother, don't mind all them naysayers here.. Most of all the Ops point are on track. God would guide you and bless your Soul too at the right time with your heart desires.

NB- Be careful about how you take in whatever you read on romance section though. Always be inquisitive and analytical. Many of them come from ppl who are apparently bereft of any ethical foundation... Many are savages, misandrist, misogynist, deranged, confounded and spiritually impoverished beyond what is normal.
So watch out!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Don't mind some NL guys

BdorianGray:

My Brother, don't mind all them naysayers here..

Thanks a lot... God bless your relationships too

BdorianGray:


Matinez ezigbo Nwanne biko e ge na ndi ara ju na NL.
I bet you, there is no how in this earth as long as the heavens exist that God would not bless your soul with the best woman of your dreams.The one that would love you more and that you would love better, a lady that wld make life so easy, fun and fulfilling for u. She wld appear from no where. Just watch. You would certainly end up in a happy and successful matrimony. Mark my words....
Amam na uche GI di ya..
I will personally be damned if u don't. But am sure u wld... Btw, nice write up!!

hmmmm OK I see you, thanks

I like number 2. You are sounding like a husband material these days .

Your views on how to asslick a woman

Thank you for your view

Am afraid I can't support it

BdorianGray:


My Brother, don't mind all them naysayers here.. Most of all the Ops point are on track. God would guide you and bless your Soul too at the right time with your heart desires.

NB- Be careful about how you take in whatever you read on romance section though. Always be inquisitive and analytical. Many of them come from ppl who are apparently bereft of any ethical foundation... Many are savages, misandrist, misogynist, deranged, confounded and spiritually impoverished beyond what is normal.
So watch out!!

Chai...nawa oo

roarik:

I get question to ask you o my dear

The comments above sha.Sometimes I wonder the kind of women some men have dated in their life. Honestly it's not easy for a man to do half of the things the OP stated,if you are a matured man and you can do one third of the things above your woman will worship the ground you walk on.

But then I tell you most solemnly it not easy for a man to achieve one third . .

Then again when you do all that as a man and your wife still turns out to be a bitch, never mind karma will treat her Bleep up and you will have the last laugh.

Biko where is king lefulefu oya come and learn how to treat a woman /wife.

Twoclans:
The comments above sha.Sometimes I wonder the kind of women some men have dated in their life. Honestly it's not easy for a man to do half of the things the OP stated,if you are a matured man and you can do one third of the things above your woman will worship the ground you walk on.

But then I tell you most solemnly it not easy for a man to achieve one third . .

Then again when you do all that as a man and your wife still turns out to be a bitch, never mind karma will treat her Bleep up and you will have the last laugh.

Biko where is king lefulefu oya come and learn how to treat a woman /wife.

love nwantiti oya lefu bia

you opinion, nice

0luwatope:
I'm still young, I'm 20, but I love to learn about relationships and marriage but some people have said all what the OP said is slavery and mockery but I can't figure out how being sweet is slavery

I really want someone to come explain the parts where slavery comes in

Thank you in advance, no offense intended

Bro don't listen to those girls replying you, they are nairaland whores looking for maga.

Read on niaraland the diary of an uber driver.
It's by Romeo.
You will understand what majority of this girls do.
Then read Ubuja's miseducation.
Your eye will clear.

In all sincerity, many girls will tell you to do what the op says but you will notice that any girl you do it for takes it for granted. And will take advantage of you, eat your money, Bleep your best friend and laught with her friends about how you are a sweet fool.

Women are overrated. They r normal human being like men pls

don't really care about OP view buh my own is this treat me like a king and I will treat you like queen..

donsimo:



Bro don't listen to those girls replying you, they are nairaland whores looking for maga.

Read on niaraland the diary of an uber driver.
It's by Romeo.
You will understand what majority of this girls do.
Then read Ubuja's miseducation.
Your eye will clear.

In all sincerity, many girls will tell you to do what the op says but you will notice that any girl you do it for takes it for granted. And will take advantage of you, eat your money, Bleep your best friend and laught with her friends about how you are a sweet fool.

Now I'm lost, alll I need to do is to listen to the voice in my head.

Recently, I almost created a thread about 'how to be a nice guy without being a pussy'. Personally I'm a nice person, I can easily do all what OP said but not every fvcking time.... I should know when to say yes and when to say no... Not only decide, but also cling to my decision.

To the best of my knowledge and ability, I've tried to act like a bad guy, a methodology which most guys here claim to work, but I suck at being a bad guy, I did everything woefully, I broke my heart myself, messed up my relationship.

The best thing is to just be myself, work on myself and put limits to everything nice and sweet I have to do to please my woman... Moderation is the best bet. Sorry I had to quote you, I'll do as you say, read the diary et al...

Thanks a lot pal

0luwatope:


Now I'm lost, alll I need to do is to listen to the voice in my head.

Recently, I almost created a thread about 'how to be a nice guy without being a pussy'. Personally I'm a nice person, I can easily do all what OP said but not every fvcking time.... I should know when to say yes and when to say no... Not only decide, but also cling to my decision.

To the best of my knowledge and ability, I've tried to act like a bad guy, a methodology which most guys here claim to work, but I suck at being a bad guy, I did everything woefully, I broke my heart myself, messed up my relationship.

The best thing is to just be myself, work on myself and put limits to everything nice and sweet I have to do to please my woman... Moderation is the best bet. Sorry I had to quote you, I'll do as you say, read the diary et al...

Thanks a lot pal

Am not asking you to become a crazy heartbreaker,
Just know the true nature of women, read those treads as a start, then chose anything you want to be.
The thing is most 90% of all girl LovePeddler around, then look for a good guy to marry and become a liability on his neck, they also blackmail you emotional to do things for them.
They also blackmail you to accept there cheating and sleeping around and marry them with all their flaws while emphasing how you should build your own world around them.

Most girls only know how to take, the aim of those post is to ensure that you don't and up being a maga and regret when they lady moves on after milking you dry.

Martin0:

I get question to ask you o my dear

oya ask