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She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Beke2020: 8:33pm On Mar 18, 2018
Hello,

My life is at a very dark place now. I am not a happy man at all. When I married my wife, I was sure I was settling down with someone who I could trust and spend the rest of my life with. We met on a flight. I work with a top accounting firm and I travel alot, representing my company and our clients all over the country and beyond. I met my wife on a trip to South Africa. She is a cabin crew member of one of the top airlines. We hit off immediately we met. We exchanged nos and flirted with each other, 1 year later, we got married. We talked about our busy lives due to our work schedules and we agreed to not have children until three years. She’s still young at 24. Gina and I are happy. We spend time when we can,we have a healthy sex life. She’s my dream come true. Brilliant, intelligent, sexy and all. Our lives was like a movie. However, Gina cheated on me. I found out from a whatsapp chat that she received but somehow she didn’t delete the message. The guy she slept with was blackmailing her and was threatening to expose her if she didn’t pay him. When I saw the message, I died. I couldn’t believe this was happening to me. Later on, I asked my wife, and she broke down, confessed and said it happened when they traveled to Dubai. He was someone she met while their plane landed briefly in Dubai. They met at a hotel in Dubai and got drunk. She said she didn’t know it how it happened. But that after that, she left the guy but he traced her from her facebook and has since been blackmailing her. Well, I was truly upset and told her our marriage is over but after a while, I decided to let it go. I decided to forgive her and love her like I promised till death do us part. I called the guy and called his bluff. Now, he’s saying he has....full story from:



https://livelystones.com.ng/she-cheatednow-we-are-being-blackmailed/
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by AntiWailer: 8:36pm On Mar 18, 2018
He has what ?


When u are ready come and type it here.


I cnt be navigating up and down trying to counsel u grin grin grin

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by z11111: 8:39pm On Mar 18, 2018
Since you didn't catch her in the act ,forgive her. You can get the police involved .



Beke2020:
Hello,

My life is at a very dark place now. I am not a happy man at all. When I married my wife, I was sure I was settling down with someone who I could trust and spend the rest of my life with. We met on a flight. I work with a top accounting firm and I travel alot, representing my company and our clients all over the country and beyond. I met my wife on a trip to South Africa. She is a cabin crew member of one of the top airlines. We hit off immediately we met. We exchanged nos and flirted with each other, 1 year later, we got married. We talked about our busy lives due to our work schedules and we agreed to not have children until three years. She’s still young at 24. Gina and I are happy. We spend time when we can,we have a healthy sex life. She’s my dream come true. Brilliant, intelligent, sexy and all. Our lives was like a movie. However, Gina cheated on me. I found out from a whatsapp chat that she received but somehow she didn’t delete the message. The guy she slept with was blackmailing her and was threatening to expose her if she didn’t pay him. When I saw the message, I died. I couldn’t believe this was happening to me. Later on, I asked my wife, and she broke down, confessed and said it happened when they traveled to Dubai. He was someone she met while their plane landed briefly in Dubai. They met at a hotel in Dubai and got drunk. She said she didn’t know it how it happened. But that after that, she left the guy but he traced her from her facebook and has since been blackmailing her. Well, I was truly upset and told her our marriage is over but after a while, I decided to let it go. I decided to forgive her and love her like I promised till death do us part. I called the guy and called his bluff. Now, he’s saying he has....full story from:



https://livelystones.com.ng/she-cheatednow-we-are-being-blackmailed/


Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by EGDesignz(m): 8:40pm On Mar 18, 2018
Short of words tho
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by XhosaNostra(f): 8:41pm On Mar 18, 2018
He is planning to expose her infidelity to whom? I don't get it. The husband knows. Husband > other people undecided

I wouldn't pay him a dime.

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by z11111: 8:45pm On Mar 18, 2018
The most important thing now is the husband is aware. No need to pay anything ,let the stupid guy go ahead.



XhosaNostra:
He is planning to expose her infidelity to whom? I don't get it. The husband knows. Husband > other people undecided

I wouldn't pay him a dime.
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by XhosaNostra(f): 8:47pm On Mar 18, 2018
z11111:
The most important thing now is the husband is aware. No need to pay anything ,let the stupid guy go ahead.




Exactly!

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Beke2020: 9:02pm On Mar 18, 2018
hmnnn, will be back for u guyz
XhosaNostra:


Exactly!
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Olayetan(m): 10:42pm On Mar 18, 2018
XhosaNostra:
He is planning to expose her infidelity to whom? I don't get it. The husband knows. Husband > other people undecided

I wouldn't pay him a dime.
Mesef just wonder o

Maybe to her side husband

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Beke2020: 4:07am On Mar 19, 2018
Blackmailer are sometimes myopic
Olayetan:

Mesef just wonder o

Maybe to her side husband

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Lionessza(f): 6:09am On Mar 19, 2018
XhosaNostra:
He is planning to expose her infidelity to whom? I don't get it. The husband knows. Husband > other people undecided

I wouldn't pay him a dime.


I don't get it either. If the husband has accepted the " mistske" and wants to forgive , who else would she be worried about? Her boss?. Anyway, if I were a man, I would be scared of marrying an air hostess . I've heard many stories about them grin.

Good morning, cup cake smiley.

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by XhosaNostra(f): 6:15am On Mar 19, 2018
Lionessza:



I don't get it either. If the husband has accepted the " mistske" and wants to forgive , who else would she be worried about? Her boss?. Anyway, if I were a man, I would be scared of marrying an air hostess . I've heard many stories about them grin.

Good morning, cup cake smiley.


What boss? What she does after work is none of his or her business either. Are they running an airline or a convent? LMAO. In a similar position, I wouldn't give a rat's behind what other people think if my husband has forgiven me for my "mistake". They can go play in traffic!

Hope you had a lovely evening, sweetheart smiley The cold is biting this morning.

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by z11111: 6:17am On Mar 19, 2018
loooooool

Beke2020:
Blackmailer are sometimes myopic
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Lionessza(f): 6:35am On Mar 19, 2018
XhosaNostra:



What boss? What she does after work is none of his or her business either. Are they running an airline or a convent? LMAO. In a similar position, I wouldn't give a rat's behind what other people think if my husband has forgiven me for my "mistake". They can go play in traffic!

Hope you had a lovely evening, sweetheart smiley The cold is biting this morning.



LMFAO, exactly. If the husband is cool with it , the bastard can even sell his story to the prime news for all I care .

What's up with that city and weird weather , you guys are cursed grin.

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by XhosaNostra(f): 7:07am On Mar 19, 2018
Lionessza:




LMFAO, exactly. If the husband is cool with it , the bastard can even sell his story to the prime news for all I care .

What's up with that city and weird weather , you guys are cursed grin.



LMAO @ primetime news. Some people care too much about what other people think. They're going to find out & then what? Worst case scenario, they'll gossip. Ugh. Whatever.

It's clearing now, the sun is even out. Jo'burg has the crappiest weather tongue

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Sheuns(m): 7:09am On Mar 19, 2018
But how was the blackmailer able to get her on Facebook? In the story she claimed she was drunk.
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Lionessza(f): 7:17am On Mar 19, 2018
XhosaNostra:


LMAO @ primetime news. Some people care too much about what other people think. They're going to find out & then what? Worst case scenario, they'll gossip. Ugh. Whatever.

It's clearing now, the sun is even out. Jo'burg has the crappiest weather tongue


Lol, they probably fear the criticism from them " saints" and their pastors I guess grin.


angry

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by XhosaNostra(f): 7:31am On Mar 19, 2018
Lionessza:



Lol, they probably fear the criticism from them " saints" and their pastors I guess grin.


angry

Ane?

Jo'burg is almost always cold lol. We're hot blooded in Pretoria kaloku grin

*sexy look*

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Beke2020: 5:35pm On Mar 19, 2018
You maybe right. But dam criticism. A blackmailer is worse than arm robber and should be dealt with without mercy
Lionessza:



Lol, they probably fear the criticism from them " saints" and their pastors I guess grin.


angry

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Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by z11111: 8:40pm On Mar 19, 2018
I suggest they involve the police


Beke2020:
You maybe right. But dam criticism. A blackmailer is worse than arm robber and should be dealt with without mercy
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Lionessza(f): 7:31am On Mar 20, 2018
Beke2020:
You maybe right. But dam criticism. A blackmailer is worse than arm robber and should be dealt with without mercy


Lol, how would you deal with him ?
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by Beke2020: 5:13pm On Mar 20, 2018
Plan with my wife. Sebi na im dey blackmail because he either want something
Lionessza:



Lol, how would you deal with him ?
Re: She Cheated,now We Are Being Blackmailed! by z11111: 5:44pm On Mar 20, 2018
Yes nah.

Take all the conversation details for proof and present to the police.

Beke2020:
Plan with my wife. Sebi na im dey blackmail because he either want something

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