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Good morning dear admin,

I am a 25 year old lady. I just finished uni and got a job working for almost six months now. I am dating a young guy whom I love. He is yet to propose but sometimes we talk about marriage in general. Recently, as we gisted, he was of the opinion that a woman who leaves the husband because he cheated is a foolish woman. I was shocked. His explanation is that there are more women than men in the world and men are biologically built to cheat. That really scared me. It makes me think that he might be the type that would cheat if we get married. Please ma, he has not even proposed marriage. Should I quit the relationship because I do not agree that a woman should stay with a cheating husband. Maybe if he does it by mistake but a serial cheater?…

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Does he love you?
Show or say indicate that he cares, treasures and cherishes you?
Talk to him ....not from an angry, confrontational or insecure place. Some men grew up with fathers or Male role models who had that sort of mindset if done often enough it looks and sounds normal.

My sister...... Don't stay with cheater ooooooooooo....... All u need to do is prayer and follow ur mind

Yorubas say: ti onile ba ti n fi apari isu han alejo, owe ile to lo niyen.

In english; if the house owner starts offering the visitor yam's head, it's a sign of overstayed welcome.


Apparently, your bf is telling you his plans now and it's left to you to make do of it. If you choose to ignore the warnings now and end up being with him, we don't want you to bring your case up here again and start seeking advice on how to kill you cheating husband.

Sheggun1:
My sister...... Don't stay with cheater ooooooooooo....... All u need to do is prayer and follow ur mind

The signs are obvious. You don't need a prophet to tell you what to do. Simply waka pass

Point of correction !
Men are not born to cheat .
My dear if you can tolerate stay ,if you cant ,waka pass as my dear fellow said.

Beke2020:
The signs are obvious. You don't need a prophet to tell you what to do. Simply waka pass