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How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:02pm On Mar 25, 2018
Putit..

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:10pm On Mar 25, 2018
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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 5:25pm On Mar 25, 2018
True. But in another breadth some men actually need women to be successful in life. Some men's luck are tied to women.Now don't get me wrong. I mean that some men need the encouragement of the opposite sex to keep chasing their dreams. The idea of focusing on your dream alone to be successful and the girls will come do not apply to all. In those times of difficulty, in those times when everything seem bleak and it's as if the world is stopping you from getting to your desired eldorado, many men would need the re-energising support of their girl friend to keep grinding further.

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:40pm On Mar 25, 2018
myself13:
True. But in another breadth some men actually need women to be successful in life. Some men's luck are tied to women.Now don't get me wrong. I mean that some men need the encouragement of the opposite sex to keep chasing their dreams. The idea of focusing on your dream alone to be successful and the girls will come do not apply to all. In those times of difficulty, in those times when everything seem bleak and it's as if the world is stopping you from getting to your desired eldorado, many men would need the re-energising support of their girl friend to keep grinding further.
That's when you've got a reasonable girlfriend. What op said is relative, and likewise yours, but you're both right in your respective opinion.

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 6:06pm On Mar 25, 2018
kimbraa:
That's when you've got a reasonable girlfriend. What op said is relative, and likewise yours, but you're both right in your respective opinion.

A hustling guy keeping an unreasonable girlfriend is definitely unreasonable or slow.The kind of woman a man keeps has a great influence in shaping his destiny.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Shugarlord213: 6:15pm On Mar 25, 2018
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:16pm On Mar 25, 2018
myself13:
True. But in another breadth some men actually need women to be successful in life. Some men's luck are tied to women.Now don't get me wrong. I mean that some men need the encouragement of the opposite sex to keep chasing their dreams. The idea of focusing on your dream alone to be successful and the girls will come do not apply to all. In those times of difficulty, in those times when everything seem bleak and it's as if the world is stopping you from getting to your desired eldorado, many men would need the re-energising support of their girl friend to keep grinding further.

You might be right tho but I still personally disagree with you.

Here is why you might be right;
If you're in difficult times and you got a good girlfriend that loves and supports you in those trying times, it's actually a good thing..

Here is where I totally disagree with you;
Waiting for the encouragement of opposite sex to keep chasing your dreams in times of difficulty is stupid, it shows you're weak. That's even a more better reason the girl will dump your ass.

A real MAN does not wait for words of encouragement and consolidation from the opposite sex to keep griding further.. He just keeps moving forward regardless of whether the girl comfort him or not.

Personally, when i'm experiencing tough times, I don't even tell my girlfriend. I just stay focus on solving my issues. She's the one who always later finds out on her own about my challenges. Sometimes she get mad at me, because I didn't tell her..

I don't know if you're a Christian, because I want to give you an example from the Bible..
.From the bible, let use JOB as example. When God allows the the devil to inflict Job with pains.

When the persecution was too much on him, even his loving wife told him to just curse God and die..

You see, If job was waiting for encouragement from his wife, he would have been greatly disappointed.. If he was depending on his woman to encourage him in that difficult times, he would have given up easily..

It better you depend on God and YOURSELF, than depending on a woman..

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 6:28pm On Mar 25, 2018
putit:


You might be right tho but I still personally disagree with you.

Here is why you might be right;
If you're in difficult times and you got a good girlfriend that loves and supports you in those trying times, it's actually a good thing..

Here is where I totally disagree with you;
Waiting for the encouragement of opposite sex to keep chasing your dreams in times of difficulty is stupid, it shows you're weak. That's even a more better reason the girl will dump your ass.

A real MAN does not wait for words of encouragement and consolidation from the opposite sex to keep griding further.. He just keeps moving forward regardless of whether the girl comfort him or not.

Personally, when i'm experiencing tough times, I don't even tell my girlfriend. I just stay focus on solving my issues. She's the one who always later finds out on her own about my challenges. Sometimes she get mad at me, because I didn't tell her..

I don't know if you're a Christian, because I want to give you an example from the Bible..
.From the bible, let use JOB as example. When God allows the the devil to inflict Job with pains.

When the persecution was too much on him, even his loving wife told him to just curse God and die..

You see, If job was waiting for encouragement from his wife, he would have been greatly disappointed.. If he was depending on his woman to encourage him in that difficult times, he would have given up easily..

It better you depend on God and YOURSELF, than depending on a woman..

I didn't neccessarily suggested that a man should rely on his girl friend if you had read my post very well. But I understand where you are coming from.But do not forget I am talking about a reasonable partner here. The biblical scenario you used to illustrate your point doesn't quite fit in because that woman never had a good account.She wasn't a good nor a reasonable woman.What I opined earlier in my previous post in a nutshell, is that the support of a reasonable partner is always comforting and essential to keep a man afloat. I didn't say a woman's support in a man's life is indispensable. Heck, as I said earlier it doesn't apply to all.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 6:38pm On Mar 25, 2018
putit:


You might be right tho but I still personally disagree with you.

Here is why you might be right;
If you're in difficult times and you got a good girlfriend that loves and supports you in those trying times, it's actually a good thing..

Here is where I totally disagree with you;
Waiting for the encouragement of opposite sex to keep chasing your dreams in times of difficulty is stupid, it shows you're weak. That's even a more better reason the girl will dump your ass.

A real MAN does not wait for words of encouragement and consolidation from the opposite sex to keep griding further.. He just keeps moving forward regardless of whether the girl comfort him or not.

Personally, when i'm experiencing tough times, I don't even tell my girlfriend. I just stay focus on solving my issues. She's the one who always later finds out on her own about my challenges. Sometimes she get mad at me, because I didn't tell her..

I don't know if you're a Christian, because I want to give you an example from the Bible..
.From the bible, let use JOB as example. When God allows the the devil to inflict Job with pains.

When the persecution was too much on him, even his loving wife told him to just curse God and die..

You see, If job was waiting for encouragement from his wife, he would have been greatly disappointed.. If he was depending on his woman to encourage him in that difficult times, he would have given up easily..

It better you depend on God and YOURSELF, than depending on a woman..

And the same bible said two heads are better than one.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by walepackage(m): 6:46pm On Mar 25, 2018
Shugarlord213:
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall

i concur with this.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 6:48pm On Mar 25, 2018
Shugarlord213:
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall


It's your experience. Live your life the way your experience has formed you. Do not think is the one true way to life. Your experience cannot be the same with others.As you saying that you give zero shits about women, some other men are indebtedly greatful to the women that helped them become what they are today.Mehn, we need each other. There is more to life than fvcking.You go tire very soon.I know your grieviances are stemming from the Feminists crew but you shouldn't let that be.

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:59pm On Mar 25, 2018
myself13:

I didn't neccessarily suggested that a man should rely on his girl friend if you had read my post very well. But I understand where you are coming from.But do not forget I am talking about a reasonable partner here. The biblical scenario you used to illustrate your point doesn't quite fit in because that woman never had a good account.She wasn't a good nor a reasonable woman.What I opined earlier in my previous post in a nutshell, is that the support of a reasonable partner is always comforting and essential to keep a man afloat. I didn't say a woman's support in a man's life is indispensable. Heck, as I said earlier it doesn't apply to all.

True. Getting a reasonable woman as partner is more than looking for ANY woman.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Shugarlord213: 7:02pm On Mar 25, 2018
myself13:

It's your experience. Live your life the way your experience has formed you. Do not think is the one true way to life. Your experience cannot be the same with others.As you saying that you give zero shits about women, some other men are indebtedly greatful to the women that helped them become what they are today.Mehn, we need each other. There is more to life than fvcking.You go tire very soon.I know your grieviances are stemming from the Feminists crew but you shouldn't let that be.


Oga, if you like continue being a possie. How many women don help men compare to how many men don épp women.

Trust them at your own peril boy

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 7:09pm On Mar 25, 2018
Shugarlord213:



Oga, if you like continue being a possie. How many women don help men compare to how many men don épp women.

Trust them at your own peril boy

That is why men and women cannot be equal. I ain't yarning equality here, and I certainly ain't no poosie. Online and offline. You are not very observant.. if you were, You wouldn't even call me an asslicker in your next life. We can't have the same opinion.I'm just laying it bare for once in the sense that some guys cannot be Fvck bois and would never be no matter how hard they try and you have to give them a sense of belonging.Come to think of it, it's apparently obvious you do not possess the earmarks of a fvckboi you are trying so hard to be, since your confidence with women's start with a car and ends with a car. I you pity sha.O nwere o ebe iku aku. Your self worth is slow.

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 7:11pm On Mar 25, 2018
putit:


True. Getting a reasonable woman as partner is more than looking for ANY woman.

Finally.

Nothing Good comes easy, so they say.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:11pm On Mar 25, 2018
myself13:

As you saying that you give zero shits about women, some other men are indebtedly greatful to the women that helped them become what they are today..

.. you mean they are grateful to their MOTHERS if your answer is Yes, then I concur with you.

Apart from the men MOTHERS, I don't know which other women you're actually talking about..
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 7:21pm On Mar 25, 2018
putit:


.. you mean they are grateful to their MOTHERS if your answer is Yes, then I concur with you.

Apart from the men MOTHERS, I don't know which other women you're actually talking about..

Feigning ignorance wouldn't help us Oga. Let's say the total number of relationships existing are 20.The fact that two men out of the whole are thankful to their supportive partner is still noteworthy. It shouldn't be overlooked. My point.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by ubunja(m): 8:17pm On Mar 25, 2018
Shugarlord213:
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall

getting a car just to get girls makes you a loser to an extend. thats a bit too much. there are guys who get the same level of pvssy you getting but being pedestrians. thats the spirit of OP's article. minimum effort/spend - maximum benefits/pvssy

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Jeferious: 9:20pm On Mar 25, 2018
myself13:
True. But in another breadth some men actually need women to be successful in life. Some men's luck are tied to women.Now don't get me wrong. I mean that some men need the encouragement of the opposite sex to keep chasing their dreams. The idea of focusing on your dream alone to be successful and the girls will come do not apply to all. In those times of difficulty, in those times when everything seem bleak and it's as if the world is stopping you from getting to your desired eldorado, many men would need the re-energising support of their girl friend to keep grinding further.
Abeg this one no follow. I can encourage myself. And every seasoned lion out there does not need pep talk and encouragement. The instinct is just sufficient- to improve and conquer. Bae's pep-talk is an unnecessary addition.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 9:31pm On Mar 25, 2018
Jeferious:
Abeg this one no follow. I can encourage myself. And every seasoned lion out there does not need pep talk and encouragement. The instinct is just sufficient- to improve and conquer. Bae's pep-talk is an unnecessary addition.

Please stop it. I pointed out it doesn't applies to all. You are not the same with others. Some men need women in their life...forget this your bravador. I made that assertion with relation to the inputs of your fellow men here in the past.. Long before the Feminist invasion, before some of you started forming Arnold schwazznigger to prove a point.

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Jeferious: 9:53pm On Mar 25, 2018
myself13:

Please stop it. I pointed out it doesn't applies to all. You are not the same with others. Some men need women in their life...forget this your bravador. I made that assertion with relation to the inputs of your fellow men here in the past.. Long before the Feminist invasion, before some of you started forming Arnold schwazznigger to prove a point.
OK. You're cleared. I sincerely like that 'You are not the same with others'.

Because over here, we don't form 'Arnold Schwarzenegger'........'Arnold Schwarzenegger' is rather our way of life.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Jeferious: 9:58pm On Mar 25, 2018
ubunja:
getting a car just to get girls makes you a loser to an extend. thats a bit too much. there are guys who get the same level of pvssy you getting but being pedestrians. thats the spirit of OP's article. minimum effort/spend - maximum benefits/pvssy
I'm of the same school of thought with you. Buying a car in other to get pu$$¥ is like playing an odd of 1.01 on bet9ja(a football betting site) with #1m...just to get a paltry #10k extra
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 9:59pm On Mar 25, 2018
Jeferious:
OK. You're cleared. I sincerely like that 'You are not the same with others'.

Because over here, we don't form 'Arnold Schwarzenegger'........'Arnold Schwarzenegger' is rather our way of life.

Shaaaraaaap there! You seem more like a weakling to me. Abegg go your ignorance is contagious.I'm so done with you. Next,

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by STILESGANG: 10:03pm On Mar 25, 2018
No true successful man chases women.They do the chasing
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Jeferious: 10:12pm On Mar 25, 2018
myself13:

Shaaaraaaap there! You seem more like a weakling to me. Abegg go your ignorance is contagious.I'm so done with you. Next,
Between my posts and yours, which one sounds more like that of a weakling? And then I have to 'Shaaaaraaap there' because I don't agree with your opinion?

If it was in real-life, maybe we'd let it slide and not bother. Or maybe we'd have done more- like making sure one of us don't see the light of tomorrow. I personally for play better egede for you make you dance wella.

But this is social media, where anybody can become anything, so I choose to overlook and not feel bothered. Enjoy your night and data
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 10:15pm On Mar 25, 2018
Jeferious:
Between my posts and yours, which one sounds more like that of a weakling? And then I have to 'Shaaaaraaap there' because I don't agree with your opinion?

If it was in real-life, maybe we'd let it slide and not bother. Or maybe we'd have done more- like making sure one of us don't see the light of tomorrow. I personally for play better egede for you make you dance wella.

But this is social media, where anybody can become anything, so I choose to overlook and not feel bothered. Enjoy your night and data

K

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 10:48pm On Mar 25, 2018
Some people will just be quoting you unneccessarily out of point to fill their emptiness. Sigh

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Shugarlord213: 11:22pm On Mar 25, 2018
ubunja:
getting a car just to get girls makes you a loser to an extend. thats a bit too much. there are guys who get the same level of pvssy you getting but being pedestrians. thats the spirit of OP's article. minimum effort/spend - maximum benefits/pvssy


That one is your business boy, if you like be on leggediz benz I no sabi your mama
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by myself13: 12:20am On Mar 26, 2018
Shugarlord213:



That one is your business boy, if you like be on leggediz benz I no sabi your mama

Your master, Ubuunja is teaching you. Be humble and learn from him.If you want to be a fvckboi, put on the whole armour of it.

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Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:36am On Mar 26, 2018
You've tried it elsewhere and it seems not to work... Now come let's do it together. We teach, educate, and sell tools. Just a click on my signature….. If you know, you know.
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by abimic(m): 1:06am On Mar 26, 2018
You created a thread for having a gf aS if having one was hard, population isn't helping females out there even with with two girls to one guy, females are still countless that are single. Getting a gf is as easy as drinking water but getting a good partner is as difficult as locating a rainbow when it didn't rain. Anyway, to those looking for good partners, good luck....
Re: How To Really Get A Girlfriend by Kinggnicole(f): 2:48am On Mar 26, 2018
myself13:

That is why men and women cannot be equal. I ain't yarning equality here, and I certainly ain't no poosie. Online and offline. You are not very observant.. if you were, You wouldn't even call me an asslicker in your next life. We can't have the same opinion.I'm just laying it bare for once in the sense that some guys cannot be Fvck bois and would never be no matter how hard they try and you have to give them a sense of belonging.Come to think of it, it's apparently obvious you do not possess the earmarks of a fvckboi you are trying so hard to be, since your confidence with women's start with a car and ends with a car. I you pity sha.O nwere o ebe iku aku. Your self worth is slow.

Dusted.

I don't blame him though. The car that's making him feel so important is the same car that's just like possessing a phone in saner climes.

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