izzou:
LanreGH

Have you confronted her with this?

Maybe there could be a valid explanation for that. But you really need to present this on the table to her

You can only be worried after you have heard from her.

It is well bro

LanreGH:


Yes.. I have talked to her about it. She said she wasn't the one that did the chatting but her a friend. I find it difficult to believe her response, because from my observation, I was also chating with her at that same time.

LanreGH:
Hello house

.... I'm not feeling good right now. I saw this chat between my fiancee and a married man.

Do you think I should worry about it?

LanreGH:
Hello house

.... I'm not feeling good right now. I saw this chat between my fiancee and a married man.

Do you think I should worry about it?

Gewezzy1:
I feel so neglected by my siblings and parents, well it's okay soon I'd be out of everyone's space, am going to work hard and get a job and leave ds ouse for them, I'd make it on my own regardless of them in my life

pcguru1:
I think my depression is getting the best of me and in my way of work, as of lately I always tend not to bring personal problems to the office, but no matter how much I try to hide things, my face gives me away, I was recently summoned by the HR in my company, apparently people reported that i look/act detached not interested, depressed and defeated, it was very awkward discussing wit HR, you're trying to pick what to say so you don't come across as 'volatile" at the same time trying to ensure you get your views heard, apparently it seems my colleagues monitor me much more than I expected.

But that's even different I applied for 2 jobs international and got rejected not because i wasn't good but it's too costly to relocate me, most times everyone asks me if am okay, it's not easy trying to do things so you can be in a better place financially but doors are just closing left and right, while still under intense pressure of works and traffic and all. It's just depressing and I think i am gradually detaching myself, because this days I just don't care anymore i do and say things without considering what the other person might feel, Even went as far expressing dis-interest in a project to the head of the department while in a serious meetings, I was asked if i wanted to leave the project, and I responded with a cold face 'That I can't confirm or deny the fact I want to leave the Project only time will tell'. I just have this hutch, I might be sacked soon because HR doesn't call people to ask about feelings, I guess am just angry I haven't been promoted despite doing and contributing a lot of work, what i've come to notice is that I have no visibility despite how much i put, management never seems to notice anything because despite they still giving me work, they are still under the impression I am not doing anything, plus the thought that in 8 years now I will be 40 and things are not what i thought they should be. Just wanted to rant, the only way i cope is alcohol and dealing with drugs.

Basiljoe:
I don't know how to open up emotionally. I'm like a half dead robot. Once anyone start showing interest in me, I seem to shut them out. I don't even want to talk about the depression.

eelipumper:
I need a real female friend. We can Help one another long way. Just a chat mate for now............ Quote me. N ill dm you.

eelipumper:

Bros. You don Bleep up. I know you know the truth. Shitty species. FIANCEE. HAA.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How do you expect any lady to take you seriously with this kinda post? Why searching to chat with shitty species?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How do you expect any lady to take you seriously with this kinda post? Why searching to chat with shitty species?

eelipumper:

Oh. Now I understand... I actually wasn't generalizing the female specie but the Cheating ones. N don't take everything on Naira land to heart too much. Take that from me.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Sometimes our true selves get expressed here. P. S I don't take things on NL seriously

eelipumper:

Aii. But seriously, How are you

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Im great

Basiljoe:

I don't know what you're going through but I know it would get better brother. Maybe you should consider other options not on the table, like starting your own firm? I'm just saying because you're one of those people on Nairaland I secretly look up to. Hang in there!

earthsync:
someone should help me with online therapy. I need help serious help. I feel so depressed, so much thinking and it's beginning to affect my decisions. I just need someone to talk to and advice me

nicerod:
Where do u reside?
U need real people around u.
Stop staying indoors

earthsync:


I school at Uniben

earthsync:

I school at Uniben

earthsync:

I school at Uniben

pcguru1:
Thanks bro I really appreciate this statement, Yes I have started my business, it's software related the sad part is that when it comes to generating ideas for solutions, I am not that good, but if an idea exists i can break it down in systems, architectures and components to achieve it, so far I am just researching and thinking about having small projects that solve problems till something comes to mind, when i was young I was always filled with ideas but now, that is gone, but often it comes to mind when am working on a solution at work and notice a flaw, it's something am doing on the side. I just wish i started earlier but am glad am making the effort now.