mhisbliss:
Fighting him wont stop anything, you risk getting killed, you might kill him too, then people wont care what he did, they'll be like, look its that guy who killed his dad, you'll goto jail and your life is ruined, causing your poor mum more pains.

Just hustle hard, make the greens, get your mum a decent rented apartment and find her something to be doing, maybe a trade or sue your jerk of a father to court and compel him to sign an undertaking, that way the law will fight for you

JasonScolari:
Your mum is the second wife? She deserve every bit of it.


Damn!!! She's wicked to share another woman's property.





No hard feelings.

OneCorner:
no hard feelings but,
i think your family is cursed.

ur mummy probably used juju to marry ur daddy.
so she deserves every beating

mhisbliss:
Not you too naw, didn't you read where he said they divorced before the mum got there? No one deserves an abusive marriage, even if you're the 11th wife

JasonScolari:
Nope. My apologies to the Op

mhisbliss:
Thanks

JasonScolari:
You welcome... My apologies to you as well.

mhisbliss:
No need for that, i just feel sorry he's going through that you've no idea the emotional trauma he's passing through, this should be on fp by now though, but its not BBN

JasonScolari:
Lol, I saw lala viewing the thread but I guess he was not satisfied since the Op is not talking about BamBam the toilet Ambassador.

mhisbliss:
How can that be more important than this? Thats how my educational thread didn't make fp, i want the old NL back seriously, i frequent quora mostly this days

JasonScolari:
Shame on them... Surprisingly, one of the female mod spends her 24hrs at the BBN thread and always push those rubbish to FP.. **spits**


Quora?

Ya i see her numerous comments there, sometimes you cant help but wonder where we went wrong

Ya quora, lots of smart people there and more coordinated

mikejj:
is ur dad from osun state??

Sarang:
Tell him to stop and mean it..
Arrest him if he doesn't.
Please see my signature

praiseneofingz:
iffa hia

Troubledmind:
I'm Frederick (pseudonym) i come from a family where raising your hands against your parent is a taboo, my mum has been with my dad for 21 years, she's a second wife, the first wife is living elsewhere, they got divorced before my mum came, now my dad disrespect my mum everytime, he barks at her for nothing, even things that shouldn't cause trouble he'll pick offense, he beats her in our presence, back then when I was young and helpless I'll just watch and cry but now I'm grown, i can beat him up anytime now because I told him the last time that if he touches my mum again I'll kill him, i regret telling him that but i was enraged, this poor woman endured this for 21yrs, currently I'm not at home, i got a call from my kid sis telling me he has started again, since my last warning he was quiet, now he's back to his old self, the worst thing is, he has other children, he'll always call my siblings and tell them bad things about me and mum, they don't talk to her or me(my elder bro and sis) dont talk to me or mum, I'm the second child from mum and the ninth child from dad, he's always battering mum and causing a rift between me and my siblings.

He pays thier school fees including my old bro who's almost thirty and my immediate younger sis but he refused to pay mine, the only siblings that talk to me is the last born and the youngest girl, the rest sided my dad

Please what do i do, i dont want to be someone who beat up my dad