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Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by murphyibiam15(m): 9:37pm On Mar 08, 2018
I hear many people saying going through a lover's phone is a bad habit... but to me it isn't. especially spouses that hide their phones from the other... trust is earned... if you're in doubt of your partner just try a possible means to read their whatsapp messages without them knowing afterall that's the only way u can unravel the hidden things..

besides if partners are truly sincere why are they afraid of their phones been checked??
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by XhosaNostra(f): 9:38pm On Mar 08, 2018
I agree 100% with you.

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by MhizzAJ(f): 9:41pm On Mar 08, 2018
It's a bad habit that can make you stay glued to your partner's phone watching their every move
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by sirusX(m): 9:41pm On Mar 08, 2018
Yanga dey sleep trouble go wake am shocked

But seriously giving the partner access is not a sign of trust or faithfulness...anyone who wants to cheat would still cheat

It all depends on the person’s principle

For some, the idea is to give you a smoke screen and make you trust them...as for the sincere ones, what you see is what it is...no strings to others

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by InfernoNig: 9:47pm On Mar 08, 2018
Bros what are you saying na. Going through your lovers phone is like suicide mission. Mostly on the part of Girls. I remember how I take check my ex babe bbm, that night i did compulsory vigil, sleep nor gree catch me, i just dey look ceiling for darkness.
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Burgerlomo: 10:13pm On Mar 08, 2018
It's not a bad habit at all, but it's not encouraging for any dude who want to live long cool
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by AnonHq(m): 10:21pm On Mar 08, 2018
If you don't have the balls to take whatever you find on your partners phone do not check or attempt to check it! I repeat do not check it... Cause you may see what can cause cardiac arrest
So for your own good let sleeping dogs lie, if you have a reason to doubt your partner, its best to walk away... What's the essence of a relationship without trust?
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:21pm On Mar 08, 2018
InfernoNig:
Bros what are you saying na. Going through your lovers phone is like suicide mission. Mostly on the part of Girls. I remember how I take check my ex babe bbm, that night i did compulsory vigil, sleep nor gree catch me, i just dey look ceiling for darkness.


Lmao grin grin. Good for you.
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 11, 2018
Girls Are not loyal so I would rather not disturb my self. What you seek for, you will surely find
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by MissRaine69(f): 7:01pm On Apr 11, 2018
When it comes to some women that’s a sure way of just ruining the rest of your year. What you will find will shape your perception of all women which will then be unfortunate as there are some good women out there.

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Olalan(m): 7:04pm On Apr 11, 2018
To check or not to check is a personal decision, but I would advise people in relationship to take an occasional peep into their partners phones, revelations might just be made for good or bad about the person character.
BTW why do people only think it's about cheating what about knowledge of your partner relations with others it might just give an insight about their real person

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by tobechi74: 7:09pm On Apr 11, 2018
Spy ,
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by kokogee: 7:48pm On Apr 11, 2018
it is the height of immaturity to sit down checking ur spouse phone. Let s assume u see a chat with the opposite sex, what would u do? You r only going to have heart attack and die young
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by sweetetlove(f): 11:32pm On Apr 11, 2018
kokogee:
it is the height of immaturity to sit down checking ur spouse phone. Let s assume u see a chat with the opposite sex, what would u do? You r only going to have heart attack and die young
Nope I won't have an heart attack, it will make me know my stance with my partner.

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by kokogee: 6:11am On Apr 12, 2018
sweetetlove:
Nope I won't have an heart attack, it will make me know my stance with my partner.

after discovering what u r hoping to see, what would be ur next step? truth is that u cannot rely on phone alone to catch a cheating spouse
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Mcy56(f): 7:24am On Apr 12, 2018
If the partner does not have cockroaches in his/her cupboard, there shouldn't be any cause for worry if his/her phone is checked.
Making it an habit is what I don't support because it will bring up suspicion and trust issues.

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by ubunja(m): 7:38am On Apr 12, 2018
virgins never have any issue with you checking their phones. i remember an ex who never touched my phone but hers was like a second phone to me. we once had matching phones and one morning she took mine to work by mistake. she told me although no suspicious calls happened it was the worst day of her life coz suspense killed her. meanwhile on hers the only person who called was her boss. after that incident her trust in me multiplied 100 times. but had she opened my 2go app she would have died. that was my pvssy supply.

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Mcy56(f): 7:51am On Apr 12, 2018
Virgins dont have issues with checking phones? shocked
C'mon, we are talking about morality and decency here which have to do with personality!
Thinking with the d**k instead of the head is indeed very detrimental to human existence. undecided

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Hapigirlxoxo(f): 8:01am On Apr 12, 2018
InfernoNig:
Bros what are you saying na. Going through your lovers phone is like suicide mission. Mostly on the part of Girls. I remember how I take check my ex babe bbm, that night i did compulsory vigil, sleep nor gree catch me, i just dey look ceiling for darkness.

Lol. Can't stop laughing.

I personally think is not necessary, what you're looking for, you will surely see.

For your piece of mind and sanity just don't
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Hapigirlxoxo(f): 8:04am On Apr 12, 2018
ubunja:
virgins never have any issue with you checking their phones. i remember an ex who never touched my phone but hers was like a second phone to me. we once had matching phones and one morning she took mine to work by mistake. she told me although no suspicious calls happened it was the worst day of her life coz suspense killed her. meanwhile on hers the only person who called was her boss. after that incident her trust in me multiplied 100 times. but had she opened my 2go app she would have died. that was my pvssy supply.

Lol. Are you is because she is a virgin?

I think is her personality and the level of trust she had or was trying to develop on you.
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by ubunja(m): 8:21am On Apr 12, 2018
Hapigirlxoxo:


Lol. Are you is because she is a virgin?

I think is her personality and the level of trust she had or was trying to develop on you.
you know what? maybe you have a point. it was her personality type coz since since i never met a girl who was cool about such things like her. but even though virginity maybe wasnt a big factor it did have an impact to a small extent. point is, she never denied i could cheat but she never counted on me to leave her for another. and i never, coz our relationship crumbled when her family meddled. to this day she doesnt touch my phone but i always go through hers when we meet..
you are right. it was her personality type. nice one Hapi.
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Mzansian(f): 8:30am On Apr 12, 2018
Your partner' s phone should be like your second phone. The minute he starts being all private with his phone, that's when I will start being uneasy, and that's not good for both of us . Privacy for what?

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Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by Hapigirlxoxo(f): 8:39am On Apr 12, 2018
ubunja:

you know what? maybe you have a point. it was her personality type coz since since i never met a girl who was cool about such things like her. but even though virginity maybe wasnt a big factor it did have an impact to a small extent. point is, she never denied i could cheat but she never counted on me to leave her for another. and i never, coz our relationship crumbled when her family meddled. to this day she doesnt touch my phone but i always go through hers when we meet..
you are right. it was her personality type. nice one Hapi.

I like her level of maturity. Most a times, girls that check their partner's phones, such relationship is mostly full of dramas. Demanding explanations everyday.

Moments you would have used to say sweet things to each other or talk about things that will help build your relationship, you will use it to answer interrogations which can lead to fights.

And maybe what the partner saw isn't a big deal but they will end up making a big deal out of it. Personally I don't think is necessary.
Re: Opinion : Going Through A Lover's Phone Isn't A Bad Habit by ubunja(m): 8:44am On Apr 12, 2018
Hapigirlxoxo:


I like her level of maturity. Most a times, girls that check their partner's phones, such relationship is mostly full of dramas. Demanding explanations everyday.

Moments you would have used to say sweet things to each other or talk about things that will help build your relationship, you will use it to answer interrogations which can lead to fights.

And maybe what the partner saw isn't a big deal but they will end up making a big deal out of it. Personally I don't think is necessary.

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