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Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Vikky014(f): 7:51pm On Apr 12, 2018
flimzy24:
.keep quiet.And is dating an automatic ticket to gold-digging for u broke ladies.That is all u ladies can offer not even a tangible advice. Fish brains
All girls are not gold diggers. stop saying trash.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by MimiShopping: 8:22pm On Apr 12, 2018
The only problem in Nigeria is poverty due to unemployment, underemployment and generational lack.

Kill poverty in Nigeria and watch Nigerian ladies stop complaining about sex and will also stop complaining about being used and dumped.

Blame all these on poverty cry

Thunder fire our past and present leaders who ruined Nigeria cry

America, Canada, Germany, UK, Australia, Switzerland, France, Spain, Netherland, Finland, Luxemburg, Belgium, South Korea, Hong Kong, Taiwan, etc that are developed and successful nations indulge in all kinds of sex; gay o, lesbianism, bestiality o, incest o, just name it yet these countries are successful, things are working there and everybody is living their dream life and very secured.

But here in Nigeria, due to poverty, women monetise their body, women attach so much material gain and monetary value to their body....and once a graduate is unable to secure a job after NYSC or looses a job due to bad economy, he or she says its because he or she had sex the other day, Nigerians and blacks are brainless!

Fight your stupid leaders to fix your nation and u won't need to fast all year to get a job and u won't need to form born again to get a job or husband, instead u worship God simply because you love God and want to worship Him not because u need a miracle or urgent solution.

Make una wake up, sex this and sex that, sex is no big deal.....if u have feelings for someone and u guys click, do it and move on and stop attaching so much importance to sex.

Nigerians eh, na wa o....na the same sex sex make Nigerians crazy about BBNaija nothing else, wasted generation of backward nation angry
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by barrysome001: 8:24pm On Apr 12, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
Ladies use us too many a time. I speak from experience.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Gerrard59(m):
MimiShopping:
The only problem in Nigeria is poverty due to unemployment, underemployment and generational lack.

Kill poverty in Nigeria and watch Nigerian ladies stop complaining about sex and will also stop complaining about being used and dumped.

Blame all these on poverty cry

Thunder fire our past and present leaders who ruined Nigeria cry

America, Canada, Germany, UK, Australia, Switzerland, France, Spain, Netherland, Finland, Luxemburg, Belgium, South Korea, Hong Kong, Taiwan, etc that are developed and successful nations indulge in all kinds of sex; gay o, lesbianism, bestiality o, incest o, just name it yet these countries are successful, things are working there and everybody is living their dream life and very secured.

But here in Nigeria, due to poverty, women monetise their body, women attach so much material gain and monetary value to their body....and once a graduate is unable to secure a job after NYSC or looses a job due to bad economy, he or she says its because he or she had sex the other day, Nigerians and blacks are brainless!

Fight your stupid leaders to fix your nation and u won't need to fast all year to get a job and u won't need to form born again to get a job or husband, instead u worship God simply because you love God and want to worship Him not because u need a miracle or urgent solution.

Make una wake up, sex this and sex that, sex is no big deal.....if u have feelings for someone and u guys click, do it and move on and stop attaching so much importance to sex.

Nigerians eh, na wa o....na the same sex sex make Nigerians crazy about BBNaija nothing else, wasted generation of backward nation angry
You are very correct. I see poverty more as a mental case than physical condition. The poverty situation has turned Nigerians to develop a suffering and smiling mentality. Unfortunately, my generation seems to be perpetuating this mentality instead of overcoming it.

Thanks for your post.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by BabbanBura(m): 8:42pm On Apr 12, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
Alert! OP na Hell transporter. No near her woo if u no wan wail for hell while she hail u!

But on a serious note, na longer throat that gets dem most gals' back on bed during relationships no be just the relationship
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by flamingREED(m): 8:46pm On Apr 12, 2018
Now that you've all admitted the folly of dating,
I hope you will have a date with God,
Repent and live right?


The elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, WITH ALL PURITY.
1 Timothy:5:2
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Follygunners: 8:48pm On Apr 12, 2018
So funny how 9ja ladies tend to materialize sex. huh huh

They talk abt it like it's a one sided affair....like they never like or enjoy it. Even the ones with odor-infested pvssy dey don shaka with sex... as long it's a female, abi. huh
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by flamingREED(m): 8:56pm On Apr 12, 2018
ikombe:
True talk cheesy cheesy cheesy

I have always asked my self why does guys between 15 - 25 years date. Niggas who are not really ready to settle down with whom they are dating undecided .

Maybe i am just saying dis because am single or i just love to ponder over things i can wrap my heads on angry

Is it love embarassed or lust tongue
A man making a lady his best friend is like one making chicken his pet.
One day, that chicken will be eaten.

Christ didn't make that mistake.

Truly, women have the power to bring down the best and brightest of us with them.

The answer to your question is
'it is lust'. Lust needn't be something big. Just holding a woman's hand to cool off is Lust.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by kratosonofzeus: 9:16pm On Apr 12, 2018
Fourwinds:
the reason why I keep saying girls should stop dating especially during their teen years....date when you know you are ready to settle down simple ....but greedy, materialistic, money and sex starve individuals won't agree
its very rare for me to like a comment but I liked urs, ur intellectual intelligence is of great value
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Qsscruz(m): 9:16pm On Apr 12, 2018
I reside at Apo legislative quarters.. Do you receive PMS?

SoapQueen:
Apo, Sir.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by bayocanny: 9:17pm On Apr 12, 2018
Divay22:
Your own is to troll ladies here and there angry
Don't mind him as if he doesn't have relationship problem, ask him who his planning to get married to you will be amaze
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Fourwinds: 9:20pm On Apr 12, 2018
kratosonofzeus:
its very rare for me to like a comment but I liked urs, ur intellectual intelligence is of great value
thanks..I appreciate
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 9:20pm On Apr 12, 2018
Qsscruz:
I reside at Apo legislative quarters.. Do you receive PMS?
I'm lost here, Sir. Please, what does "PMS" stand for? Premenstrual Syndrome or Premium Motor Spirit?
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by kratosonofzeus: 9:35pm On Apr 12, 2018
SoapQueen:
I'm lost here, Sir. Please, what does "PMS" stand for? Premenstrual Syndrome or Premium Motor Spirit?
HOLY MOLY Lwkmd cheesy
SoapQueen:
I'm lost here, Sir. Please, what does "PMS" stand for? Premenstrual Syndrome or Premium Motor Spirit?
HOLY MOLY Lwkmd
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by pedrilo: 9:37pm On Apr 12, 2018
We date and we fcck each othet and u shouting I'm using u.
How?
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 9:38pm On Apr 12, 2018
kratosonofzeus:
HOLY MOLY Lwkmd cheesy HOLY MOLY Lwkmd
I don't know if I have committed a crime but from the way you sound, I prolly have. What am I not saying right? Please, tell me.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Rozaytee: 9:54pm On Apr 12, 2018
I keep saying it dat 21st century relationships na indirect prostitution
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Rozaytee: 10:00pm On Apr 12, 2018
rudepen:
I'm sorry isn't sex supposed to be a 50 50 thing, like both party enjoy the shi right! Why are Nigerian ladies so uneducated and chicken brained
biko ladies don't ever fvck a man who isn't taking care of ur needs..flee from broke men abeg....
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by officialbazor(m): 10:01pm On Apr 12, 2018
Lyk seriously? He didn't use you. You liked it too. It's high time ladies stop dis self pity thing cos it's stale. Did you seriously expect marriage from a guy who could barely feed? Ladies please stop being pathetic
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by odehaj: 10:06pm On Apr 12, 2018
Who sex epp?
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Qsscruz(m): 10:24pm On Apr 12, 2018
I meant PM.. An acronym for Private Message..


SoapQueen:
I'm lost here, Sir. Please, what does "PMS" stand for? Premenstrual Syndrome or Premium Motor Spirit?
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 10:25pm On Apr 12, 2018
Qsscruz:
I meant PM.. An acronym for Private Message..
Oh,yes. You can do that.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Qsscruz(m): 10:27pm On Apr 12, 2018
SoapQueen:
I don't know if I have committed a crime but from the way you sound, I prolly have. What am I not saying right? Please, tell me.
You actually didn't commit any offence. He was most likely bemused by the meanings you accorded to the abbreviation.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Qsscruz(m): 10:35pm On Apr 12, 2018
SoapQueen:
Oh,yes. You can do that.
I tried sending an e-mail across without success. I shall drop my number quickly so you chat me up.. I will edit it shortly afterwards..
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by abumoney(m): 10:35pm On Apr 12, 2018
Someone wrote : If a guy invites U to his houz and his friends starts leavn 1 by 1
My sister folo d last person
I repeat folo d last person ��
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by SoapQueen(f): 10:36pm On Apr 12, 2018
Qsscruz:
I tried sending an e-mail across without success. I shall drop my number quickly so you chat me up.. I will edit it shortly afterwards..
Message seen and acknowledged. Let me know how I may be of help via email. Thank you.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by wildkat: 12:06am On Apr 13, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
At times i wonder the way some women reason. So it's only the women that are being fuçked, the men are not being fuçked and used abi? What about u ladies using that medium to gold dig on a guy? Expired Ode!!
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Nobody: 12:36am On Apr 13, 2018
Holywizard:
Don't mind these girls.
Sometimes I'll be on top of a girl and her fiance would call but she would be forming sleepy or busy.
My last date(2016) cheated on me with a secondary drop out when I was awaiting for NYSC. Fučk u ladies!!!
Seriously, it's like we experienced the same thing. You would hear excuses like 'school was so stressful today, that's why I sounded so dull, I just need to rest now'. The poor guy would reply with loving words and you hear them telling each other 'I love you'....while you're on top of her, waiting for her to end the call so you can continue from where you stopped.
They're now asking me why I don't have a gf presently. Girlfriend for what exactly? Cos I still don't get why I need one. Even the married ones are not left out.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by tk4rd: 4:11am On Apr 13, 2018
Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?
You are so biased in your use of the "used and dumped" line..
So, you mean that you ladies don't like the countless free sex too?
Anyway, I no blame u.
Either you, (or someone very close to you) just ended a sweet sizzling fúck-filled relationship after all the whole countless free sex and promises that followed, and you are not finding it funny.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by Holywizard: 5:33am On Apr 13, 2018
I'm even scared of getting married.
If not for the kids...
ceeroh:
Seriously, it's like we experienced the same thing. You would hear excuses like 'school was so stressful today, that's why I sounded so dull, I just need to rest now'. The poor guy would reply with loving words and you hear them telling each other 'I love you'....while you're on top of her, waiting for her to end the call so you can continue from where you stopped.
They're now asking me why I don't have a gf presently. Girlfriend for what exactly? Cos I still don't get why I need one. Even the married ones are not left out.
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by samuel3818: 6:12am On Apr 13, 2018
Holywizard:
But I've been having regular sex although I've not been dating and they are peoples' lovers
Baba show me way na....I go like be your friend o
Re: Opinion: Relationship Is Being Used For Free Casual Sex Anytime by CorleonOfSicily: 7:03am On Apr 13, 2018
Obainoneandonly:
so if we dey date,we no go knack ourselves. sex is part and parcel of d dating itself.and nobody is using and dumping anyone.I don't know how your brain is wired,but I think u should change your mindset .
Dating for sex, culprit detected
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