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Am not trying to steal anyone babe. I asked her out and she agreed, it wasn't as if I pointed a gun at her head.

For those thinking I fell for her due to sex: She has other qualities like good character and natural beauty!

5thElement:
So you're trying to steal somebody's babe and you're feeling cool?

Here's karma's knockout punch for you. You'll marry the girl, and by the time you're like 75yrs old and after all your kids have graduated from the university, you'll suddenly discover that none of the kids belong to you.

A cheat will always be a cheat. Marriage not withstanding.

You are warned!

Interesting

I bet you will do the same if you were in my shoes. Who goes around flaunting goodies for a new girl you just met.

Halfpenny:
Op is an idiot

Relationship built on lies (his part) and cheating (her part) what a great relationship.

When she meets the next guy, she'll tell him the same story and the cycle continues. Good luck!

I opened up to her after sex and she got angry but later calmed down. Anytime I call to say hello to her friends, she get angry with them once they compliment me like "you have a cool voice".

I don't know if am good in bed but she told me am different but she refused to explain what makes me different. Also, she is not pregnant.

Originalsly:
Mr Executive.... the babe is in a relationship with someone...that's what her mouth says.....she's having a relationship with you only...only you..no other guy?...correct? ... she sqeezed you in on her schedule... face to face...and slept with you....you the lucky one...the one her heart is now beating for. Question...feel free to ignore...or lie.... did you tell her you're an executive before or after sex?....and why do you think she's now telling her friends about you?..after sex?...is it because you're that good between the sheets?...or maybe...just maybe another reason?...and lastly...do you know if she is pregnant? ...for someone else? Your chances of having a relationship with her are very very good...great...trust me.

Yemmy, this sounds like the proverbial, having her cake and eating it too.
She may have all the qualities that you stated. But logically 5 months is more than plenty of enough time to have cut off the other relationship to pursue something with you. Resolve this issue first before proceeding further. But the fact that she hasnt done this voluntarily doesnt look good for you. Im sorry but I think you deserve better. This is coming from a female btw.

delectablegyal:
that girl is a good girl. you don't put all your eggs in a basket. a lady looks out for a serious guy who is ready for marriage. let me tell you something. "if you are not married to a lady, she does not owe you loyalty". she could try other guys out too. who knows, you could be a con? don't rush things. as it is now, you and the other guy are in a race and that's how it is for every other lady.

I must say from your write up, the lady seems like a good girl. she likes you. as it is now, if you prove to her that you truly love her. she could ditch the other guy and before you know it, your wedding picture is on nairaland frontpage.

i know no say you dey get sense sometimes

Am not trying to make her dump her boyfriend. My resolve with her is that she should choose who she desires most. What ever the outcome is will be her decision.

tosyne2much:
First and foremost, some ladies naturally have tight v-jays no matter the intake of joysticks they've had, so don't be deceived that a lady has only had sex a few times because of the tightness of her vagina

Back to the issue... If you succeed in convincing a lady to dump her boyfriend, then another guy can equally do that.

Once a lady is in a relationship the best thing to do is back off.. A lady will always make a derogatory remarks about her boyfriend when she want to date another dude. All this "my boyfriend is not treating well" is a plot to deceive you


Use your head bro...

She's yet to decide on that. As for sex, no lady can be 100 percent loyal to a guy until she gets d ring. I already made it clear that I will never be her side guy and she has limited time to make that decision.

AnonyNymous:
If she could dump someone she said she was 'dating' so easily, then what makes you think she won't dump you later on for another guy she meets on Facebook? Wait- she didn't even dump him yet, she had sex with you while she was still dating.

Well what goes around comes around. You desire someone else's woman, well don't be surprised if later in the relationship or marriage, she ends up doing same.

It's the law of nature.

yemmy95:
She's yet to decide on that. As for sex, no lady can be 100 percent loyal to a guy until she gets d ring. I already made it clear that I will never be her side guy and she has limited time to make that decision.

if she is not loyal to you alone with sex b4 marriage, she will never be loyal after marriage bro.
You really think people change after marriage? stay woke bro

Well done but you have successfully destroyed her current relationship. That girl is into you already because you have money, you are working. I pity the other guy if he has no job.
You have snatched her away from him successful, she's just waiting for you to propose now. Guys!