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Martin0:
NOTE TO MEN...!!!

Fellas we often look down on women who have sex with a lot of men. However, as men we are just as wrong & guilty when we have sex with a lot of women. Men get called "players," & women get called "hoes" for making the same decisions. Men know that we are not being players, we are playing ourselves. Because the more women as a man you use & abuse, the more fear you create inside of you. Promiscuous men often fear commitment, because of the guilt that lives in their spirit & conscious based on how they have lied to & mis-treated women.
Their fear is that one day what they've done to women will happen to them, if they allow themselves to fall in love & be committed with a woman regardless of how much they love them.
Which is the fear & suspicion that lives within a insecure & guilty conscious. To be a player you have to be a part of a game. Games have rules as well as winners & losers. So if you are a player. What are the rules to your game, & what are you really winning & losing... When what you gain & lose is the inability to love or trust anyone, including you.

highpriestess:
no longer players,men that sleep around are called moloshos.

Martin0:
NOTE TO MEN...!!!

Fellas we often look down on women who have sex with a lot of men. However, as men we are just as wrong & guilty when we have sex with a lot of women. Men get called "players," & women get called "hoes" for making the same decisions. Men know that we are not being players, we are playing ourselves. Because the more women as a man you use & abuse, the more fear you create inside of you. Promiscuous men often fear commitment, because of the guilt that lives in their spirit & conscious based on how they have lied to & mis-treated women.
Their fear is that one day what they've done to women will happen to them, if they allow themselves to fall in love & be committed with a woman regardless of how much they love them.
Which is the fear & suspicion that lives within a insecure & guilty conscious. To be a player you have to be a part of a game. Games have rules as well as winners & losers. So if you are a player. What are the rules to your game, & what are you really winning & losing... When what you gain & lose is the inability to love or trust anyone, including you.

UDUJ:
Martin you are making lots of sense these days. Good one

Martin0:
how far na

UDUJ:
I am good bro. It's like you were talking to the past me bro. I felt that S H I T.

Martin0:
oh oh oh well it all past sha, what matters now is what you have now and who you are now, everybody all have one horrible past/old times to talk about, so it not just only you...

anyway how is ur wife /girlfriends and kids doing?

UDUJ:
Not married yet. Plan to tie the knot next year.