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you want a tall, handsome, generous millionaire.

understandable.

how many are there in the world?

how many are single?

how many are looking for someone like you?

do you see how the numbers dwindle drastically?

right.

so what to do?

at what age did you start taking marriage seriously?

at what age did you start REALLY praying about your future?

what advice have your parents/family given you?

have you even asked?

now,

1. what are your top 3 priorities?

2. what standard have you raised yourself to?

3. stand before a mirror in your undies, without any makeup and list your assets- physical, mental, spiritual and financial.

4. what's your stand on feminism?

5. why would you expect your man to have more than 50% of your assets in (3) above?

6. do you drive to work? start carpooling. and ditch the car on weekends.

7. if you want more than 50% of your assets in a man, upgrade yourself in the listed criteria.

8. look at your weekly activities for the past year. change everything that's moveable. travel route/method, social hangouts, hobbies, alone time (eg, attend a social event with your parents every two weeks).

9. if you've been doing 'mountaintop', better stop that nonsense.

10. invest in others- volunteer, donate clothes, shoes, etc (do a fashion/makeover party for underprivileged ladies in church). help out at the office. get involved! many good men are observing quietly. ALWAYS GIVE A BIRTHDAY CARD- at work, church, the gym, study/project partners, etc.

11. relax. smile more. dance every break you get. snap your fingers to music at the busstop. eat healthy. do outdoor sports in groups. compete against boys.

12. more flare gowns, less pencil skirts. MUCH LESS makeup.
your marketability has less to do with clothes, more with your attitude.
are you a beautiful ice queen, or a warm, cheerful home girl?

...or maybe I'm writing nonsense?

Tanks...am so workin on some points

Reality check time for dem.
#okiesss.

evy800:
Tanks...am so workin on some points

Tnx.
can u give. insight into female expectations?
it'll go a long way.

myself13:
Reality check time for dem. #okiesss.

hm. well, boys are seeing red in this economy. time to restrategize.

aloeman15:
hm.
well, boys are seeing red in this economy.
time to restrategize.

the idea is to help them think outside their individual boxes.