How Long Does It Take To Fall In Love

I met my wife in October 2017, we did our traditional wedding on the 5th of April and the church wedding is on Saturday 28th April 2018. Courting someone for a decade doesn't guarantee a successful marriage.

sonofoluku:


Your theory is not always true.They may have both been preparing for marriage for a long time and then fate brought them together. Success is always defined as opportunity meet preparation.For the man to pull a wedding off within 2 months tells you how prepared he must av been in view of the current economic issues in Nigeria.Dont be too quick to judge.

I'm not trying to judge but to rush into marriage after just two months of dating is a decision a lot of times one tends to regret later. However, I don't wish that for them.

jessca048:
but two months is too small to venture into marriage

Whether you spend 2 months or 20years courting...you can never ever understand each other until you start to live under same roof and even at that,you will always continue to understand each other every passing day.Falling in love is an unrealistic phrase cos in the real sense people grow in love over the years of staying together as a couple.

A real man does not chase a woman but goes for any lady he desires and takes the next exit door if she starts acting hard to get but if he meets a lady who knows what she wants,he will never waste her time with baseless dating and courtship cos a real man knows what he wants ....only boys or guys who dont know what they want use that awkward line..'lets get to know each other'

Don't be fooled ladies...any reasonable man knows if he will likely marry you the very first time he sets his eyes on you...quote me anywhere.

na dat kind man...I dey find biko...a man who knows wat he wants ..not all dem time wasters...

wristbangle:
The time line is quite short but atimes the period of courting doesn't matter. After all, pastor adeyemi marriage is an e.g where him and his wife dated for few months yet have one of the best marriages on earth. If a man is ready, o ti ready ni yen.

Wishing them a peaceful marriage

who told you they have one of the best marriages on earth?There is always more to what meets the eyes.

Toks2008:


Whether you spend 2 months or 20years courting...you can never ever understand each other until you start to live under same roof and even at that,you will always continue to understand each other every passing day.Falling in love is an unrealistic phrase cos in the real sense people grow in love over the years of staying together as a couple.

A real man does not chase a woman but goes for any lady he desires and takes the next exit door if she starts acting hard to get but if he meets a lady who knows what she wants,he will never waste her time with baseless dating and courtship cos a real man knows what he wants ....only boys or guys who dont know what they want use that awkward line..'lets get to know each other'

Don't be fooled ladies...any reasonable man knows if he will likely marry you the very first time he sets his eyes on you...quote me anywhere.

My guy, that is not always true.Some ladies maybe kind, sweet ,lovely etc at the earlier part of your relationship.But after one year, may God help you .Even guys are guilty of it .

wristbangle:
The time line is quite short but atimes the period of courting doesn't matter. After all, pastor adeyemi marriage is an e.g where him and his wife dated for few months yet have one of the best marriages on earth. If a man is ready, o ti ready ni yen.

Wishing them a peaceful marriage

Not true
They knew themselves for more than just few months.

wristbangle:
The time line is quite short but atimes the period of courting doesn't matter. After all, pastor adeyemi marriage is an e.g where him and his wife dated for few months yet have one of the best marriages on earth. If a man is ready, o ti ready ni yen.

Wishing them a peaceful marriage

Lol, be careful oh. Don't risk it, marriage is for life. My friend is crying his eyes out right now, his fiancée just cheated on him last week, there wedding is in 2 months. A girl he has been dating for 2 years.

sinaj:
2months

Hml to them

y mine was just 25 days. We planned our wedding in 4 days and no i wasn't pregnant. I was married non tested. When you meet the right one , you simply wont want to take chances.

Ok...
Happy married life...

geostrata:
Those who are saying the timeline is too short...is ur 10years courtship marriage going to be better than theirs? it may surprise you that this short timeline will have the best of marriage. ...do you think dating a gal for long guarantee a blissful marriage? one thing I know is that they are going to enjoy their marriage!

Abi Collins no no Nina before she met miracle barely 3months dy r inseparable couple...dy fight quarrel but they learn to grow in love each day!


Happy Married Life...have a blissful and peaceful marriage

Miracle just told Nina, this isn't the time for love. This is the time to make money, courtship is very important, but shouldn't be more than 2 years.

It is no big deal the time frame of courting.
It really baffles me the mind frame of youths these days.
What people call relationship now is just about sex.

If a man meets a lady, it's either he wants to marry her or not, or not yet decided. Courtship should begin as soon as both parties desire each other enough, all energy should therefore be channelled towards the goal, if not, they stay friends and weigh their options. Not all these useless relationships we see these days, even among students.

It's just that most ladies lack a solid upbringing
They claim the guy broke their heart by leaving them after sleeping with them, so fukking what, is it by force to stay with you?? when it's not as if you're married. You both wanted sex outside marriage and that's what it is.

Couples marry 2mths after meeting = Couples divorce 2yrs after marriage

Mypeople2:
My guy, that is not always true.Some ladies maybe kind, sweet ,lovely etc at the earlier part if your relationship.But after one year, may God help you .Even guys are guilty of it .

There is no way you can stop an angel from turning to a devil so this is not a yardstick...two months is even too long...my dad never courted my mum and they stayed married happily till he passed on at 73..

Here is a story of a couple who decided to marry 5 days after meeting each other.

https://www.nairaland.com/4087850/he-proposed-5-days-after

grossintel:
Miracle just told Nina, this isn't the time for love. This is the time to make money, courtship is very important, but shouldn't be more than 2 years.

We are talking serious matter this one carry BBnaija matter come...i guess you are as young as the 23year old miracle who probably has no clue of what marriage entails.

edelweiss:
y mine was just 25 days. We planned our wedding in 4 days and no i wasn't pregnant. I was married non tested. When you meet the right one , you simply wont want to take chances.

Wow! Thats so strange.

Werent you scared within you?

Or is it that u knew him all along, he was prolly ur colleague at work, neigbour or church member but u guys just dated for d 25days?

edelweiss:
y mine was just 25 days. We planned our wedding in 4 days and no i wasn't pregnant. I was married non tested. When you meet the right one , you simply wont want to take chances.

Leave these ladies that want to waste their time getting sampled up and down in the name of courtship...awon ode...when you are thoroughly sampled and dumped they will say they have spiritual husband disturbing them..

Dating and courtship is for teenagers or adolescent who have no clue of what commitment means and just want to catch fun...but once a lady is above 25 she must be very careful about wasting her years in the name of dating/courtship.

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Well, the knowing each other just got formal!

How you take know that they have one of the best marriage on earth?
Be careful who you envy / what you wish for!

wristbangle:
The time line is quite short but atimes the period of courting doesn't matter. After all, pastor adeyemi marriage is an e.g where him and his wife dated for few months yet have one of the best marriages on earth. If a man is ready, o ti ready ni yen.

Wishing them a peaceful marriage

No time to check time

Once they can survive the first 2 years of thier marriage, then....we can shout hallelujah

Rozaytee:
na dat kind man...I dey find biko...a man who knows wat he wants ..not all dem time wasters...

Why are u getting time wasters?

Toks2008:


Leave these ladies that want to waste their time getting sampled up and down in the name of courtship...awon ode...when you are thoroughly sampled and dumped they will say they have spiritual husband disturbing them..

Dating and courtship is for teenagers or adolescent who have no clue of what commitment means and just want to catch fun...but once a lady is above 25 she must be very careful about wasting her years in the name of dating/courtship.

must ladies above 25 think about marriage?

why are you still single?

primitive man

Yeah is very possible two of my sisters own is not up to two months before they got married yet they are happily married till now

All of you talking about the reason behind the quick wedding did you think that maybe issa pregnancy & they want to tie the knot so it doesn't fall out of range?��‍♂️��‍♂️��‍♂️
I know an old classmate who had to do that.

Benjom:
That foundation, ehn?

no level mine was abt sane thg but we are years into it now and no stories