andergirl:
Very very risky,me can't try it.

nothing dey inside I did it

jessca048:
but two months is too small to venture into marriage

u date someone for 10yrs after marriage she changes so what’s d point?marriage na pure luck

edelweiss:
y mine was just 25 days. We planned our wedding in 4 days and no i wasn't pregnant. I was married non tested. When you meet the right one , you simply wont want to take chances.

25days? How is that possible?

Toks2008:


Whether you spend 2 months or 20years courting...you can never ever understand each other until you start to live under same roof and even at that,you will always continue to understand each other every passing day.Falling in love is an unrealistic phrase cos in the real sense people grow in love over the years of staying together as a couple.

A real man does not chase a woman but goes for any lady he desires and takes the next exit door if she starts acting hard to get but if he meets a lady who knows what she wants,he will never waste her time with baseless dating and courtship cos a real man knows what he wants ....only boys or guys who dont know what they want use that awkward line..'lets get to know each other'

Don't be fooled ladies...any reasonable man knows if he will likely marry you the very first time he sets his eyes on you...quote me anywhere.

The bolded is so true.

that foundation is not strong,so many hidden secret.

Please know this: the duration of courtship doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. Statistics has shown that most divorced couples were in courtship not less than 5years. Be prayerful and ask God for wisdom. Once you see the right person, every other thing follows suit

Now the courtship will start with all its attendant problems! May you find the grace to overcome all. HML

Angelanest:
Does the time frame of knowing someone before wedding affect the marriage?, this is the question being asked by some online users after a couple tied the knot few months after knowing each other. This lovely couple have got themselves trending online after getting married two months after meeting each other.

According to a friend who congratulated the couple and shared pictures from their wedding ceremony, the new couple identified as Martin and Dinah met in February 2018 - held their introduction on Saturday, April 21st and did their church wedding the next day, Sunday.

Congratulations to the couple.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/04/couple-get-married-two-months-after-meeting-each-other-photos.html

I dated my wife fo 2 months before we got married. its been 7 years now......2 beautiful kids and no regrets in sight....of course, there will be occasional arguments....like any other couple....

2 months .....5months....5 years....doesnt matter. if you re sure....ive heard of people that dated for 5 years....breaking up under a year of marraige. and arranged marraiges where they met on d wedding day lasting lifetimes. How long you date isnt isnt that big a deal.

jessca048:
but two months is too small to venture into marriage

You may be right..but 10 years of courtship doesn't also guarantee a good marriage..Luck or what some people call favour is what counts.

sonofoluku:
Your theory is not always true.They may have both been preparing for marriage for a long time and then fate brought them together. Success is always defined as opportunity meet preparation.For the man to pull a wedding off within 2 months tells you how prepared he must av been in view of the current economic issues in Nigeria.Dont be too quick to judge.

They were 'preparing for marriage,' on social media? I weak, o!

As long as they are both good people it will work but where one is bad or deceuful in nature then it might not work. Wish them the best. HML

ah don bilivit a picture of how they met and i fall for this.........can sombori plan igbeyawo ceremony in a week or two weeks? No intromimo nothing nothingno oooo

when there is money there is love

Ovoko! The rushing eh?

Toks2008:


We are talking serious matter this one carry BBnaija matter come...i guess you are as young as the 23year old miracle who probably has no clue of what marriage entails.

Was I talking to you? Did you read the guys post before my response to the guy? Aproko.

I wish them God's blessings in their marriage

prechbills1:


must ladies above 25 think about marriage?

why are you still single?

primitive man

Who told you I'm single? Mumu Nigerian youth.

Toks2008:


Who told you I'm single? Mumu Nigerian youth.

lmao... frustrated asshole want to deny his relationship status

mumu.. you're a 38years old single man..
stop coming here to pour your frustrations on women

prechbills1:


lmao... frustrated asshole want to deny his relationship status

mumu.. you're a 38years old single man..
stop coming here to pour your frustrations on women

Lobatan @38...you go just die untop my matta...

Biglittlelois:
Nice, no time to waste, i pray for something like this soon

Oya, let's tangle!

congratulations to them and may God bless their union

wristbangle:
The time line is quite short but atimes the period of courting doesn't matter. After all, pastor adeyemi marriage is an e.g where him and his wife dated for few months yet have one of the best marriages on earth. If a man is ready, o ti ready ni yen.

Wishing them a peaceful marriage

Are you living with them that you know that they have one of the best marriages on earth? Or are you being deceived by all this show of act you see on your screen? Lol... Some people sha... Best marriage on earth my foot... How long has he being married?..... The same set of morons who said pastor chris n pastor anita had one of the best marriages on earth, not until the whole skeleton in the cupboard starting coming out....

two months is two short to know the type of person you are marrying.... 3 to 5years... No lady or man can pretend that long, you will start seeing their real self.. But two months? Even I can put on a show of pretence for more than that.....

Sicilyjoe:
Even the traditional marriage I went yesterday. I don't think is up to 2months self or maybe two months, they met by February ending and they did traditional marriage yesterday , reason being That the girl she supposed to marry disappointed him although is from the parents sha so when my guy met this girl he said no time to waste before another story

All that is required is a mature mind with the fear of God.
Ask independent ppl that know her what they know.Send ppl she doesn't know to investigate her, especially ppl of the same sex. You will get all the info you need in 1 week.

pornhub:
They dated for 12 years on social media and met two months ago

It is still equivalent to 2 months.

You DNT kw a person until u marry him/her long dating is not always necessary

geostrata:
Those who are saying the timeline is too short...is ur 10years courtship marriage going to be better than theirs? it may surprise you that this short timeline will have the best of marriage. ...do you think dating a gal for long guarantee a blissful marriage? one thing I know is that they are going to enjoy their marriage!

Abi Collins no no Nina before she met miracle barely 3months dy r inseparable couple...dy fight quarrel but they learn to grow in love each day!


Happy Married Life...have a blissful and peaceful marriage

I know a lady who married a man barely 3 weeks after meeting him. Me self was waiting for the divorce , over 8 years now with two beautiful kids, their marriage is an example for others now. It's not how long you dated someone or the period of courtship, the main issue is how you handle your marriage. There's no handbook on how to make a marriage work.

jaychubi:
You DNT kw a person until u marry him/her long dating is not always necessary

Exactly, people change. Day by day we meet people and experience situations that change our perceptions of life. That good girl could become the devil sister after marriage and that wild girl everyone thinks don't know how to keep their home could make her marriage work

bigerboy200:

You may be right..but 10 years of courtship doesn't also guarantee a good marriage..Luck or what some people call favour is what counts.

you are right dear

Deltatoto:
u date someone for 10yrs after marriage she changes so what’s d point?marriage na pure luck

marriage is just likened to a football the best player does not always have a great time in the pitch

Toks2008:


Whether you spend 2 months or 20years courting...you can never ever understand each other until you start to live under same roof and even at that,you will always continue to understand each other every passing day.Falling in love is an unrealistic phrase cos in the real sense people grow in love over the years of staying together as a couple.

A real man does not chase a woman but goes for any lady he desires and takes the next exit door if she starts acting hard to get but if he meets a lady who knows what she wants,he will never waste her time with baseless dating and courtship cos a real man knows what he wants ....only boys or guys who dont know what they want use that awkward line..'lets get to know each other'

Don't be fooled ladies...any reasonable man knows if he will likely marry you the very first time he sets his eyes on you...quote me anywhere.

true�

Biglittlelois:
Nice, no time to waste, i pray for something like this soon

Yes I am here for you, our wedding is less than two months after today