Divay22:

Two wrongs can never make a right, but it's fair for the man to cheat and they'll applaud him like a hero, but if it's a woman she'll be disgraced and sent packing out of the man's house..
Both deserve same punishment

ndy87:
I no fit laugh o! Atin u people can now see that some ladies no d slack dis days. Wen some men brag about being polygamous in nature. Have u seen how they are wailing dis days none stop Wat a man can do a woman can do much better, ladies are now polynomial in nature. Hope dah!

Halfpenny:
Married men have been cheating for the longest time and the poor wives were advised by society to pray, fast and endure. When the tables turned men are talking about bringing back ancient hocus pocus

Every Dog has his day!

Team side chicks are pained because anything he could do SHE could do better

I'm glad to be alive

#Fox

TonyeBarcanista:

I don't think a sensible man will wail over this. I even pray to spot cheat so as to do the needful as soon as possible even with the minutest evidence. Only low esteemed men will wail when their spouses or girlfriends cheat on them...

TonyeBarcanista:

I'm not you my brother...

I have this unforgiving spirit resident in me that only manifest when betrayal is involved...

GeneralOjukwu:
I pray they are unable to do the same ritual for men.

I have 3 wives and yet, i log into several forbidden websites

Sima04:

bros abeg we never call ur na jus relax first u hear.
Ur own worse...
hw much u dey even use sub sef
I knw say na glo u dey use cos if u try use 9mobile for east hear ,hmmm online d high cost of data go just kill u

LOL...you didn't get my joke. My illegal websites meant - other women

dominique:
I was expecting to see practical tips on how to deal with BOTH male and female infidelity in marriages instead all I saw was; married women yen yen yen, married women yen yen yen... Una just dey start

Married men have been cheating for centuries, y'all have been advising the wives to deal with it and work on themselves bla bla bla. Now tables are turning and y'all are vibrating all over the place, una just dey start

Soon side-dicks will be boldly calling husbands to mock and insult them the way some side-chicks do to wives. Just keep fasting and praying and working on yaselfs, una go dey alright las las

Brugo:


And when you betray others, would you hope for forgiveness?

Don't underestimate your capacity and tendency to do the things you find unforgivable.

TonyeBarcanista:

Which punishment can a woman give a cheating husband aside legally divorcing him or separation? She can't send him out of HIS own house... That's impossible!

However a cheating wife is likely to be shown the way out of the house of her husband. She can continue with her cheating ways, but who cares? A sensible man will move on and even drink some green bottles and eat grilled fish to celebrate it.

Divay22:

Well then, but if this Ekpo nka owo is to be reintroduced then both gender is to punished by it, not just women.

I'm now even scared of getting married, cause men see cheating as a norm for them, but cry out when it's a woman.... We're tired of praying and crying for him to change.

TonyeBarcanista:

the Ekpo nka owo can't apply to both gender because our forefathers and deities in their wisdom permits polygamy and allows men having concubines even when married.

Prayer remains the Master Key

danthamccoy:
It's terribly sad seeing someone who can write so eloquently with such a backward mentality. I could only shake my head reading through this tirade. What's even sadder is that there are a lot of men who share similar sentiments while they hide their wedding rings to chased after every available skirt.

Divay22:

Then it's only right for me to say "it's a man's world"which is not suppose to be so anymore.

What's good for the goose is also good for the gander.

As for the bolded If she is a wife the breakup is instantaneous and THERE will be no room for reconciliation even if my life depends on it.

If you ain't ready to forgive then you ain't ready for marriage.

Cutehector:
Two wrongs can never make a right and what you sow is what you reap.. Because your man cheats on you and then you go on to sleep with a gate man or a sugar boy is laughable because you too have committed adultery and you will also rot in hell for eternity.

TonyeBarcanista:

My Dear, since time immemorial men aren't known to be "begging" their wives to be faithful to them, they only encourage them to stay faithful. An unfaithful wife is always at the receiving end in our society. She loses her husband, her home and her honour as consequence but not so with a man. It is more to the advantage of a wife to be faithful my Dear...

Let me reiterate that I don't forgive cheating spouse or girlfriend. Such forgiveness is a great sin to me irrespective of what led to it (I'm not even interested to unravel the mystery that led to it). Finally, as a person, I am not the type that allows room for reconciliation as there can never be one.

I let go and clear that person's chapter off my memory... Good Riddance

pocohantas:
While the white man is making awesome inventions and discoveries. The black man is either fighting for extra toto or fighting to install prepaid meter inside toto. Se won fin obo shepe fun yin ni? ? ‎


I support compulsory DNA testing for every child, b‎ut for me to go take a fidelity oath(ekpo-nka-owo) alone, while the man is free to run amok, because society endorses polygamy and abhors polyandry. I rather be a babymama, win win for me... 

Why should anyone even seek a death penalty for a cheating spouse?
That is insane.

pocohantas:
While the white man is making awesome inventions and discoveries. The black man is either fighting for extra toto or fighting to install prepaid meter inside toto. Se won fin obo shepe fun yin ni? ? ‎


I support compulsory DNA testing for every child, b‎ut for me to go take a fidelity oath(ekpo-nka-owo) alone, while the man is free to run amok, because society endorses polygamy and abhors polyandry. I rather be a babymama, win win for me... 

Why should anyone even seek a death penalty for a cheating spouse?
That is insane.

ndy87:

Meaning you are unforgiving.

TonyeBarcanista:

My Dear, since time immemorial men aren't known to be "begging" their wives to be faithful to them, they only encourage them to stay faithful. An unfaithful wife is always at the receiving end in our society. She loses her husband, her home and her honour as consequence but not so with a man. It is more to the advantage of a wife to be faithful my Dear...

Let me reiterate that I don't forgive cheating spouse or girlfriend. Such forgiveness is a great sin to me irrespective of what led to it (I'm not even interested to unravel the mystery that led to it). Finally, as a person, I am not the type that allows room for reconciliation as there can never be one.

I let go and clear that person's chapter off my memory... Good Riddance

TonyeBarcanista:

Which punishment can a woman give a cheating husband aside legally divorcing him or separation? She can't send him out of HIS own house... That's impossible!

However a cheating wife is likely to be shown the way out of the house of her husband. She can continue with her cheating ways, but who cares? A sensible man will move on and even drink some green bottles and eat grilled fish to celebrate it.

Divay22:

That's about changing.

It's our individual differences, but if it's right for you ,no probs. but we all deserve a second chance though it might not be the same again, but if our partners are worth it, reassure us it not gonna happen again, one more trial would do.

Halfpenny:


There's a simple solution to that... Women make your money, since all a man is worth is his D and his money...

TonyeBarcanista:

Good... A welcome development!

I don't think any man give a damn whether you are a single mother or a triple one. What I know is that they will always go for the next available younger and prettier under 20s

TonyeBarcanista:
Whether she is as wealthy as Alakija or Oprah Winfrey is not my business. As long as she is off my house and my life... I care less though I will always wish her well