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Forgive me, most relationships are characterized with double dating, both does it.

Is that why you are moaning?

freedomchild:
Ladies are always confused and insecure in relationships especially in this part of the world. I don't blame them sha. because they have nothing else to offer they think all men who psyche them are after there stinky pussy. They've lost countless genuine men who come there way because of this silly mentality.. though there are reasonable and intelligent ones sha but they are just few.

Just shut up! Are men any different?

So Wetin be ur decision wey find out?

So Wetin be ur decision wey u find out?

Kaxmytex:
I will rather sing on ethanol, codeine, weeds, etc than wasting inspiration on any lady.. .

You ma GEE

i blame buhari�

comshots:
So when the thing con wide she go begin look for a God-fearing man when she herself no fear God.



Girls are loyal to made men only because he got all she needs.Money,dick,cars,mansion,etc.

I want to oppose your last paragraph, some ladies are unsatisfactory in nature, as some guys are polygamous in nature


lady that enjoy sex, don't get satisfy of just a d1ck, the sizes must definitely make her continue choosing

If my ex-girlfriend got pregnant for another guy when we were dating. I forgave her and moved on with our lives, we still talk till today. That doesn't mean I will treat other ladies bad.

Saladin25:
If my ex-girlfriend got pregnant for another guy when we were dating. I forgave her and moved on with our lives, we still talk till today. That doesn't mean I will treat other ladies bad.

WHATTTT!!! You got the "Collins" treatment and not only that, She got pregnant also. I think you should really watch out oh, As it might be a pattern.

If you didn't know that your girl is not 100% committed to you, then there is a problem. This might happen again in the future.
For example: I already know my GF is having a side dude, she doesn't need to tell me, the patterns are there to show. I'm just quiet & observant.

now that you have known, what did you do? it's best some private issues are not discuss openly...

kimbraa:
Just shut up! Are men any different?

Baby Why you dey vex na! The post wasn't even directed at you

I've got side chicks who all have bfs...
No New New here bro

one thing about life is to move on. dwelling in the past takes you a step backward.Good you found someone who understands you. Im preparing for my woman

cruchenutii:
Baby Why you dey vex na! The post wasn't even directed at you

I know. It's nauseating to read comments of guys playing the victim's card. They make it seem like guys don't double date, whereas, most guys have 4-5 girlfriends.

FEAR woman and SAVE your life.

kimbraa:
I know. It's nauseating to read comments of guys playing the victim's card. They make it seem like guys don't double date, whereas, most guys have 4-5 girlfriends.

What about ladies?

kimbraa:
I know. It's nauseating to read comments of guys playing the victim's card. They make it seem like guys don't double date, whereas, most guys have 4-5 girlfriends.

Victim card is a norm na, everybody likes to play it. "Men are scum", "All men are trash" is one of the victim's card that women play. But you will see them sharing their wedding I.V next weekend.

At the end of the online & offline bashing of Men -> Women, Women -> Man. We go still marry ourselves Last Last.

Don't fool yourself,
all babes have a side dude.


In fact, it's possible you
are the side dude, stealing from
the main dude.

Even married women are guilty
of this atrocious behaviour.

Cassava fall on them all .....

I don't see how this is newsworthy when this is an everyday experience!

Nairaland just keep getting us twittans Instagram posts as news.

cruchenutii:
WHATTTT!!! You got the "Collins" treatment and not only that, She got pregnant also. I think you should really watch out oh, As it might be a pattern.

If you didn't know that your girl is not 100% committed to you, then there is a problem. This might happen again in the future.
For example: I already know my GF is having a side dude, she doesn't need to tell me, the patterns are there to show. I'm just quiet & observant.

I knew something was wrong, though she was in another state working as at that time. I first noticed she doesn't post pictures any longer on social media which is unusual, even if her phone is faulty, she will always find a way to post pictures(she is a picture freak). I asked her why she wasn't in Lagos during the festive period. She lied, that she was too busy with work. I just concluded that she is pregnant. She later confessed a month to the delivery of her baby that she is pregnant, she said, she doesn't know how she would relay the information to me.She narrated how everything happened, that the guy doesn't want to take responsibilities. I even advised her and still call her once in a while. She has learnt her lessons and I have also learnt to be more vigilant.

what I could deduce from what I've been reading lately is that don't love any woman if you don't want to end up being a fool. keep fvcking them and dating them for the sake of fvcking and when you're ready for marriage,go for a very young secondary school girl,marry her on time and you're good to go,women are not worth all these stress.
Christian guys are the ones that suffer most with romance and look like fools at the end of the day. go for very young secondary school girls and marry them on time if you're ready for marriage. these old bitches in their 20's are not worthy of marriage. guys pls ignore them,I'm saying it again,go for very young secondary school girls for marriage. you don't need a career woman to be your wife.
if you've already married these ladies in their 20's,pls marry another wife if she starts equating herself to you for her to know where she stands and the difference between a man and a woman

Saladin25:
I knew something was wrong, though she was in another state working as at that time. I first noticed she doesn't post pictures any longer on social media which is unusual, even if her phone is faulty, she will always find a way to post pictures(she is a picture freak). I asked her why she wasn't in Lagos during the festive period. She lied, that she was too busy with work. I just concluded that she is pregnant. She later confessed a month to the delivery of her baby that she is pregnant, she said, she doesn't know how she would relay the information to me.She narrated how everything happened, that the guy doesn't want to take responsibilities. I even advised her and still call her once in a while. She has learnt her lessons and I have also learnt to be more vigilant.

Okay no p. I'm even more worried with your explanation that she kept you in a loop for 9 Months. Which means she knows she's having a baby & still chit chatting with you like you are in a relationship.
So it's either she is really heartless OR you guys were only friends and (You) not her, thought you were in a relationship.
So she would have aborted the baby If she knew It was a mistake from the onset. Women don't keep babies for whom they don't love.

She's Lying. Most definitely.

They prefer to date one married politician with several other concubines to one single young man with prospect and vision......Women have succeeded in boxing the men into a conner with their cry for gender equality and girl child rights...Men watch out, the table is turning
author=phantonce post=67098041]This isn't a news.....It's common knowledge.

Something still baffles tho...

Most guys claim to be single and most girls seems to be be dating more than one guy.

Who are this girls dating,biiko....ghost Angel[/quote]

cruchenutii:
Okay no p. I'm even more worried with your explanation that she kept you in a loop for 9 Months. Which means she knows she's having a baby & still chit chatting with you like you are in a relationship.
So it's either she is really heartless OR you guys were only friends and (You) not her, thought you were in a relationship.
So she would have aborted the baby If she knew It was a mistake from the onset. Women don't keep babies for whom they don't love.

She's Lying. Most definitely.

Well from her explanations,she wanted to abort the baby but her mum declined after explaining to her,even her mum knows me very well. I am even happy for her she didn't abort the baby, who knows whether that might be the only child she would have in life (just saying). I have moved on with my life, but I still see her as a friend.

Saladin25:
Well from her explanations,she wanted to abort the baby but her mum declined after explaining to her,even her mum knows me very well. I am even happy for her she didn't abort the baby, who knows whether that might be the only child she would have in life (just saying). I have moved on with my life, but I still see her as a friend.

True sha, Well All glory to God.

How's that a problem? So you don't know that a boo also has a boo?

jaxxy:
Ive never dated a gal dat was completely single. They always had a bf or sm sort. Its no biggie

Bros it's a biggie o. You deserve to be with a girl that is for you and you're for her. Abi na so you wan continue into marriage. is It says a lot about our youth that virtues like loyalty and faithfulness are treated lightly. We are not so different from our leaders.

freedomchild:
Ladies are always confused and insecure in relationships especially in this part of the world. I don't blame them sha. because they have nothing else to offer they think all men who psyche them are after there stinky pussy. They've lost countless genuine men who come there way because of this silly mentality.. though there are reasonable and intelligent ones sha but they are just few.

Change starts with you. You need to change your approach towards relationships.

Then you need to check your immediately family, are there any members of your family that are doing it but you don't want to talk then because they are your family?

Then you move on to your friends. Are there are of your friends that make it a habit of rotating girls like toys. Those ones that can't be committed but sleep around with random girls. You need to call them out and criticise them.

Then it'll be easier for you to face the general society.

comshots:
So when the thing con wide she go begin look for a God-fearing man when she herself no fear God.



Girls are loyal to made men only because he got all she needs.Money,dick,cars,mansion,etc.

That's not how the vagina works. Go and read a biology textbook.