How my friend tried raping me after initially being extremely nice - Nigerian lady.


Dat_Middle_Belter.
@Mhiz_Merci
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A story and a thread.
Sometime in 2016 I was flying from Lagos to Abuja in the evening. Aero rescheduled the flight and I ended up getting to Abj after 11pm . I was to go to school(Nasarawa state university) straight and it was already late. Before I will get to Nyanya


To my place, I thanked him and declined, reason being, Yes we’ve been chatting well but we’ve only met once and I didn’t know him beyond our chats and phone calls after the first day we met. he called me on the phone and convinced me to come over, said what I’m I scared of?

He is not a child and can’t go to bed knowing his friend is stranded at the airport. Long story short I took a cab to wuse and met Seyi then the drive to his house somewhere around Apo extension. He went to bed straight, I’m naturally a night person plus the fact that I was

Not in a familiar place, I could not sleep. Had my bath then started pressing my phone. Seyi woke up later and started trying to touch me, I told him no, got to the point where I started pleading and crying because he was becoming difficult. In his words “Things cannot

always go your way” . After plenty begging and crying I asked him “Do you want me to leave your house this night?” Seyi said yes, if you cannot have sex with me you will have to leave. I was fully clothed already so I just wore a sweatshirt on the top I was wearing and

Picked my small traveling bag. I walked out of the door, it was 2:18am. Made the long walk to the estate gate and asked the security guys if I can get a cab they said no. I asked if can sit with them till daybreak and they agreed. Few minutes later

Seyi appeared at the gate and asked the security guys “What is she doing here? Are people allowed to sit here? The guys started saying no Sir and he told them if she can’t go back to where she is coming from let her go out. They were all staring at me , I told them to open


the gate and I sat outside. I was sobbing quietly, minutes later Seyi came outside to tell me He was sorry, he didn’t know I have mind like this, please he can’t sleep knowing I’m out here, bla bla bla. I didn’t say a word to him. He stood there with me and talked plenty

In my mind, I was just saying the God that has delivered me from that lions den nothing is taking me back there. Seyi went inside, drove his car out and told me to enter the car, that he will take me to wherever I want to go in Abuja that night. It was almost dawn by������

this time. I refused, he begged me for over 30 mins until I saw another car coming from a distance, since it’s a lonely and untarred road that leads to the estate I entered the car so there can be another car behind us Incase he tries something funny. ��������

that was how we drove to the junction, where the tarred road begins and we saw two cabs and the drivers gisting. I told him to drop me. I came down and asked one of the cab men(an older man) if he can take me to Nyanya he said yes, called a big amount ����

Seyi was trying to negotiate price and all, without saying a word to Seyi I entered the cab, Baba please let’s go. The moment the Baba started started moving that was when my tears and serious sobbing appeared from nowhere. My God, the man asked me what����

Was wrong and I explained to him. He consoled me and dropped some words of wisdom. Did not drop me at Nyanya but took me to the house I was going to in Karu, I had to sit outside and wait for the time for prayers then some Muslims going for prayers opened the gate and ����

I went in. I don’t tell this story because even me I find it difficult to accept that this shit happened to me, somehow it still makes me emotional when ever I remember. And anytime I’m asked what’s the most terrible experience I’ve ever had, I don’t share this but ������

this is really the most horrible experience I have ever had in my life. I never called, texted or insulted Seyi. He called that morning I don’t pick then sent a text that he wanted to be sure if I got to where I was going to safe. I replied in the affirmative and that was all��

I decided to share this story after seeing a similar story shared on an Instagram page today. This has affected my meeting new people and trusting people enough to visit them even after meeting up in open places . Ladies let’s be careful. Thanks for reading, now kindly Retweet.

Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/Mhiz_Merci/status/989642295459962880

So sorry about the experience, but it is nothing new

The lady encountered an unstable, sex starved man.

He is unstable because he still came to apologize after the ordeal. He probably had serious psychological problems.

Moral lessons of the story;

Ladies should always make sure that they don't travel to a foreign land at night. It is risky enough for men not to talk of ladies in an environment as unforgiving as ours

Ladies should always be skeptical about receiving an alarming kind gesture from strangers, particularly anything that requires staying in a room alone with this said stranger. I know some people are generally nice, but one cannot be too careful, one can only be careless.

This particular lady was lucky because she might have been raped by the guy if the guy was actually a hardened criminal as against just an unstable guy, she might even be robbed. I have heard of similar stories that didn't end well.

Others might not be so lucky

greiboy:
No story

say what you wanna say

Mtcheeeeeeew

Hmmm

I don't believe this liar. So why did you go to his house if not for sex, what were you expecting? Abeg shut up and sleep

greiboy:
So sorry about the experience, but it is nothing new

The lady encountered an unstable, sex starved man.

He is unstable because he still came to apologize after the ordeal. He probably had serious psychological problems.

Moral lessons of the story;

Ladies should always make sure that they don't travel to a foreign land at night. It is risky enough for men not to talk of ladies in an environment as unforgiving as ours

Ladies should always be skeptical about receiving an alarming kind gesture from strangers, particularly anything that requires staying in a room alone with this said stranger. I know some people are generally nice, but one cannot be too careful, one can only be careless.

This particular lady was lucky because she might have been raped by the guy if the guy was actually a hardened criminal as against just an unstable guy, she might even be robbed. I have heard of similar stories that didn't end well.

Others might not be so lucky

as in.. I just taya for some guys

tooawesome:
I don't believe this liar. So why did you go to his house if not for sex, what were you expecting? Abeg shut up and sleep

I pity the ladies that are mingling with you..

tooawesome:
I don't believe this liar. So why did you go to his house if not for sex, what were you expecting? Abeg shut up and sleep

take it easy

These things really do happen.
Some guys think every p***y must be conquered.
But the ability to exercise that self-control actually increases your respect.

I take no chances.
I even prefer those guys that are all out in my face, with them I know I should be on auto-defence

let the usual national anthem be sang. ....MEN ARE SCUM

It could be you.

That thing no go school

OK now I know

Self control is really necessary.

Seyi na bad guy sha. He needed the puna badly

i stop reading the story when i saw "SEYI" as the guy.....hmm afonja softwork

Wehdon MA... Most of them slay mama won't open this thread.

mi24325:
Ok

Will bend my head and waste all the bullets

No guy is extremely nice to a beautiful woman without dirty thinking in mind

Reminds me of my ordeal with a female in d same abj.
I fell in love with a colleague, we started out as friends. She always asked for financial assistance and I do sort her out sometimes.
On a certain Friday after work, she asked me to buy yam, potatoes and onions on my way to her crib cos we planned seeing after work and my place is very far from hers.
Got to her place past 8pm wit her yams etc, we both went out to buy fuel for her gen which I paid for, then returned to her place, ate togeda and started gisting.
At exactly 11:46pm, she asked to know wat time I intend to go bak home and I was surprised!
This babe changed it for me and said I cnt pass the nyt in her house. I was beyond embarrassed!
I called a friend to come n pick me wit his car and he did.
I left her place with few drops of tears. I was seriously hurt.

Chai!

Brb

Modified

"Sorry It's too long, I don't want to read any long script that'll add no value to me in this 2018.

Best wishes to The victim.

That's a strong and very intelligent lady right there.

She made the best decision by not going back to Seyi's house.

Sorry. But some girls no dey learn at all. U no know wetin happen for 2go era? Come to think of it, "body no be wood." That's why you must pray for your man's self-control, not always for miracles. Men are highly attracted to sex, forget the "we are holy gang crew." It's natural, just like menstruation is to women.

tooawesome:
I don't believe this liar. So why did you go to his house if not for sex, what were you expecting? Abeg shut up and sleep

You're a cretinous fvcktard!

So because a female visits you to pass the night, it automatically means you must have sex with her?