tooawesome:
I don't believe this liar. So why did you go to his house if not for sex, what were you expecting? Abeg shut up and sleep

really? Did you read the entire thing? She was stranded, she didn't want to go to his place, he convinced her nothing will happen and since she had nowhere to go at that time of the night, she went to his place.

TheUpsetGirl1:
When I say naija guys are the most sex starved guys in the world some people won't believe me... A lady coming to sleep in your house doesn't mean you should have sex with her.
Majority of naija guys once a lady visits them at home the only thing on their mind is how to have sex with the lady...
So if the lady wasn't strong, that fool would've had sex with her right

I don't just understand Nigerian guys.. if not being sex starved why should a sane guy be thinking about sex whenever a lady visits him


I'm just tired of this country.. imagine the emotional stress this lady passed through

Try moving to India or South Africa.

I hear the men there are perfect gentlemen.

To all Ladies never ever visit a guy in his room if u are not ready to let him...
Never!

Smh...see Mary see Jesus

PrimadonnaO:


Why didn't you want to return to your house oga? Because you bought yams and fuel?

They were gisting and it's wrong to tell him to leave the house by 11:45pm no matter how you see it. Or better still tell him from the onset that he won't pass the night in her house. Not gist and then by 15 minutes to midnight, you change the narrative.

pedrilo:
Reminds me of my ordeal with a female in d same abj.
I fell in love with a colleague, we started out as friends. She always asked for financial assistance and I do sort her out sometimes.
On a certain Friday after work, she asked me to buy yam, potatoes and onions on my way to her crib cos we planned seeing after work and my place is very far from hers.
Got to her place past 8pm wit her yams etc, we both went out to buy fuel for her gen which I paid for, then returned to her place, ate togeda and started gisting.
At exactly 11:46pm, she asked to know wat time I intend to go bak home and I was surprised!
This babe changed it for me and said I cnt pass the nyt in her house. I was beyond embarrassed!
I called a friend to come n pick me wit his car and he did.
I left her place with few drops of tears. I was seriously hurt.

did you talk to her about it?

okolet:
Battled all tru d night?.... As in with what weapon?

I know that people like you will not believe, which weapon is available in Nigeria?

Sometimes I wonder how some of you managed to enter university after writing English language in WAEC? This lady was stranded
She doesn't know anywhere In Abuja. 
How do You Expect her to know all these places and most times when people sleep at someone's house, they don't want to waste money on hotel bills
However this guy convinced her that it was okay to come to his place meaning that it was not her idea In the first place
Try and be more civil in your comments and read posts to the end before making silly Conclusions.  

RalphJean:



YOU ARRIVED ABUJA AT 11PM.
Even got to Wuse, from the airport.
And it was FLIGHT yo took to Abuja.
Even if it was 2am, you will still get cars going to Nyanya-Maraba.

Plus, you could easily take “drop “ for less than 1,000 naira to Nyanya.
But no! You called someone who you claimed to be your friend, who stays AFTER Apo.
From Apo to Wuse is almost same as from Wuse to Nyanya.

Don’t come here and be writing fake story to give guys a bad name, please.

Neoteny:


Try moving to India or South Africa.

I hear the men there are perfect gentlemen.

Savage lmao here. This your sarcasm make sense o

INDUSTRIALFAN:
I beg you do not generalize. Have you met all the the guys is every country to ascertain this claim?

she is not worth the strees just ignore the attention seeker!

how I wish I had a girl friend that will rape me....

Coolgent:
To all Ladies never ever visit a guy in his room if u are not ready to let him...
Never!

Ladies, read the above advice again and again. Then if it happens, make sure you take any piece of evidence you see at the scene, take pics too, go to the nearest police station and report the case.

Whose son is this?!!!smh animal...

Drnice2:
Sorry. But some girls no dey learn at all. U no know wetin happen for 2go era? Come to think of it, "body no be wood." That's why you must pray for your man's self-control, not always for miracles. Men are highly attracted to sex, forget the "we are holy gang crew." It's natural, just like mensuration is to women.

Sex is to men like menstruation is to women?

Just want to be clear on that

pocohantas:


Hhahahaha. The pehnis has a mind of its own...

Hahahaha. That's what they say but e get as e be na. They better talk sense into it before someone gets infected with a disease that has no name.

icedsammy:
That is what i use to tell ladies who love to make guys their friends..Ere Ki ni Aja BA ekun shey.

So ladies shouldn't have male friends anymore?

Just want to be clear on that

She needs to stop being an alarmist.

He was not a friend but a complete total stranger that she met on a plane.

She made a series of bad choices.

Crixina:
So ladies shouldn't have male friends anymore?

Just want to be clear on that

I agree with him.

It's my opinion and you are free to disagree but don't expect any empathy from me when, not if, things go sour.

Every single male friend you think you have is just an inept person that hasn't figured out how to close the deal yet.

OmoAlata1:

He has a weakness which we've seen but his strength has been overshadowed by lack of self control for us to bypass.

After she left his house and he made the estate guards send her outside the estate, he later realized the evil thing he had done without thinking properly the first time and went out to meet her. He apologized and was ready to take her to a safe place.

He drove her to where she got a cab and cared enough to know if she had arrived at the place she was headed. That's a guy with a conscience.

He came to his senses, realizing his mistake. He wouldn't have done that for her if he wasn't a nice person.

Take heart. Shit happens. U girls gotta pity guys sometimes because when d Spirit of f*ck falls upon him anything can happen

EgunMogaji:


I agree with him.

It's my opinion and you are free to disagree but don't expect any empathy form me when, not if, things go sour.

Every single male friend you think you have is just an inept person that hasn't figured out how to close the deal yet.

Like you said, it's your opinion, cos the ones I have(at least I can count two) have never tried to rape me or take advantage of me.

Yes, most times, those relationships can be steepy, but I won't ever agree to all...mind you the two friends I'm talking about, I have been friends with one for 10years, the other 7.
So it would be crazy if you are telling me that after 10 and 7 years respectively, they haven't still figured out "how to close the deal".

Crixina:
Like you said, it's your opinion, cos the ones I have(at least I can count two) have never tried to rape me or take advantage of me.

Yes, most times, those relationships can be steepy, but I won't ever agree to all...mind you the two friends I'm talking about, I have been friends with one for 10years, the other 7.
So it would be crazy if you are telling me that after 10 and 7 years respectively, they haven't still figured out "how to close the deal".

Excellent, you have it all figured out

Enjoy.

TheUpsetGirl1:
When I say naija guys are the most sex starved guys in the world some people won't believe me... A lady coming to sleep in your house doesn't mean you should have sex with her.
Majority of naija guys once a lady visits them at home the only thing on their mind is how to have sex with the lady...
So if the lady wasn't strong, that fool would've had sex with her right

I don't just understand Nigerian guys.. if not being sex starved why should a sane guy be thinking about sex whenever a lady visits him


I'm just tired of this country.. imagine the emotional stress this lady passed through

I really don't get your point.. have u traveled to other countries? I did not read the story sha...but I got a little hint from ur post...is not like Nigeria guys are starved..I've heard men say..guy, if a girl just come ur house no Bleep up o..she want sex...I guess that's the world we live in..some ladies actually do come visit for sex...I guess the guy thought that was what it was...

I am not in support of Seyi's action. But if you can get a cab to wuse from the airport at that hour, it means that you could equally get a cab to AYA and from that point to karu at any hr of the night. My question is that knowing well that Karu is safer, why did you opt for Seyi's place?

TheUpsetGirl1:
When I say naija guys are the most sex starved guys in the world some people won't believe me... A lady coming to sleep in your house doesn't mean you should have sex with her.
Majority of naija guys once a lady visits them at home the only thing on their mind is how to have sex with the lady...
So if the lady wasn't strong, that fool would've had sex with her right

I don't just understand Nigerian guys.. if not being sex starved why should a sane guy be thinking about sex whenever a lady visits him


I'm just tired of this country.. imagine the emotional stress this lady passed through

Why will she come to sleep in my house? Ere ki l'aja n ba Ekun se

TheUpsetGirl1:
When I say naija guys are the most sex starved guys in the world some people won't believe me... A lady coming to sleep in your house doesn't mean you should have sex with her.
Majority of naija guys once a lady visits them at home the only thing on their mind is how to have sex with the lady...
So if the lady wasn't strong, that fool would've had sex with her right

I don't just understand Nigerian guys.. if not being sex starved why should a sane guy be thinking about sex whenever a lady visits him


I'm just tired of this country.. imagine the emotional stress this lady passed through

madam binu, why not try India before concluding, don't go alone, I repeat don't go alone

No rape attempt here......a case of negotiation gone bad

That's too stingy of you, at least give the guy one mouth, what are friends for

Fabulousb36:
This is very normal, once a lady spends the night in a guy's house for any reason then she must sleep with him, stay awake struggling or get raped. Considering that all they see when they look at a lady is a sex tool. They ask questions like "y then did u come" even if it was just an unplanned situation that got her there.
Well my advice to every lady, please don't go to spend the night at any man's house unless u have plans of sleeping with him. Nigerian men are sex starved, it's just like a lamb walking into a lion's den, it's either it's plays along or it gets eaten.
To the guys, abeg sex is cheap. There are a million and one girls willing to give u what u want out there. If it's too hard get a gf or get married or better still take ur rod to the club or something. It's not worth ruining friendships or inflicting pain on a fellow human being.

ROD!!!

pedrilo:
Reminds me of my ordeal with a female in d same abj.
I fell in love with a colleague, we started out as friends. She always asked for financial assistance and I do sort her out sometimes.
On a certain Friday after work, she asked me to buy yam, potatoes and onions on my way to her crib cos we planned seeing after work and my place is very far from hers.
Got to her place past 8pm wit her yams etc, we both went out to buy fuel for her gen which I paid for, then returned to her place, ate togeda and started gisting.
At exactly 11:46pm, she asked to know wat time I intend to go bak home and I was surprised!
This babe changed it for me and said I cnt pass the nyt in her house. I was beyond embarrassed!
I called a friend to come n pick me wit his car and he did.
I left her place with few drops of tears. I was seriously hurt.

Bro, I feel ur pain.
Nobody deserves to be lead on like that only for them to be left hanging at the end.
Walahi if u do that girl bad thing u are justified oooo

If u try the girl and she no gree form perfect gentleman and claim it was you trying to make her comfortable.

You will be surprised she will be the one offering you herself later, maybe when when she visits next.

And women are fond of giving a man green light without knowing.

A girl once told me, its either i sleep in her corridor or she sleeps there while i sleeps on bed... Every hormone in my body dry with that statement. I told her no worry, i will be having a meditation on the chair.

Meditation ko ni