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Cutehector:
pretender ke.. I have my ways on knowing the kind of person a woman is. No woman can pretend on me and go away with it.. I repeat, nobody

greiboy:
That is the whole point of the test, it's to weed out the pretenders

5thElement:
So because you won't look the other way when you see an assault case means that everybody who sees an assault case will also not look away?

I can see that you don't know how the real world works. You're either naïve or living in denial.


Same logic. Different people want different things in their future spouse.


If for a lady inability to provide by the man is a deal breaker then that's her choice.

Expecting everyone to love pork simply because you love pork is naïveté at its best.

Preshy561:
seems you haven't met ladies before?

there was one that even borrowed money to sponsor her marriage cos she was really desperate

but do know what she did atlast?

so forget,if you meet a pretender +desperate ladies you go know seh this test is just nonsense.

greiboy:
@ emboldened

Obviously she didn't do it for the money, maybe for another shallow reason

But I believe if anyone feels threatened or unsure whether the affection of his/her partner is tied to his/her money, this test is accurate and appropriate.

Preshy561:
hmmm,she did it for the money.lol
una never jam ladies shaa.


well,anyway to look out for your wife is welcomed.

greiboy:
Yet, she borrowed money to do her our wedding? where's the money then?

Preshy561:
more like she contributed to the wedding with some money,not that she did the wedding herself.
but she regained more of that after the wedding cos she had a target.
the marriage didn't last upto a year.

greiboy:
Apparently you live in a world of your own

There are thousands agencies set up to solicit public support and raise awareness on cases of assault in relationships. Anyways, that is simply by the way.

Anyone that refuses to speak against the wrong doing in our society have only forgotten that he or she lives within the society and he/she is not safe from falling a victim of the said evil act.


Like I said earlier

Money is an exhaustible commodity, any body that goes into a relationship for money or builds his/her affection around money will always suffer as the money comes and goes. The person will always be disappointed and never satisfied. The person is shallow.

Even if I were to take your argument as legitimate


What is stopping the lady from looking for her own money? After all, we all go to school to acquire skills these days.

5thElement:
How about marrying a lady for her looks. Is that shallow too?

Of course it is. But we are more up in arms against a lady who would rather secure her future than a man who married for beauty.


I keep repeating it but you seem unable to understand except from your own worldview.


People marry for different reasons. It's not for you to say that one is moral or immoral simply because you won't do it or you don't condone it.


Women marry broke guys all the time. And some can't.


Some men can marry women who are broke, plain-faced, flat features, from low background/class and some can not.

Let's get over ourselves already and stop painting every relationship with the same brush.


It doesn't work that way.


The only time it's unacceptable is when the woman tricks the man that she'll stand by him through thick and thin and then absconds when thin comes around.

Then you can talk about morality.

Randy91:
this is a good litmus test...
I must say,I've learnt a lot since I joined Nairaland

greiboy:
All the 'I can't date broke guys crew" will hide their faces right now

They will be like; it is fabricated, why will the guy lie, class is bae always

Cutehector:
pretender ke.. I have my ways on knowing the kind of person a woman is. No woman can pretend on me and go away with it.. I repeat, nobody

goldbim:
Plastic love!!owo epo

greiboy:
@ emboldened makes me question your age and maturity

Hope you know dating is quite different from marriage?

Human wants are unlimited, if we are to list what we find attractive in the opposite sex, I am sure we won't be able to find a suitable partner, but marrying a guy/lady solely because of money is extremely shallow. I am sure if you have spent a day alone hustling you will understand better.

Bear I mind, I haven't be specific about any gender throughout our conversations. So you should realize that you are the one not ready to see the world beyond little enclave.

I am off for now

Randy91:
this is a good litmus test...

I must say,I've learnt a lot since I joined Nairaland

TheUpsetGirl1:
Nigerian ladies...

You can't marry an unemployed man but you yourself ain't employed..

I love this new wave.. guys should be faking broke to catch the leeches.
Never marry a broke lady if you're made.
don't settle for less

greiboy:
Exactly our point,

if the guy faked financial inadequacy and have hidden his financial prowess from the lady before the wedding, I am sure she will have lost out like the girl we are busy poking fun at on the thread.


Financial litmus test is bae

VampireeM:
mstchew. Most people on social media be spinning tales just to trend. Na their cup of tea

Shugavee:
As for me the relationship is doomed!! I won't leave my man cause he lost his job but if i find out he owned a company blah blah blah, n it was all a test!! That's the end!!

lefulefu:
brother mi i have learnt a lot too myself
mehn this is a good test
it should be termed the ULTIMATE LITMUS TEST IN DETECTING A GOLD DIGGER

TheUpsetGirl1:
A-week engaged Nigerian lady dumps her fiancé a week after “losing” his job




https://mobile.twitter.com/macdpimp/status/990508533622943744

Biglittlelois:
What kind of stupid ass test is that? it's just like her telling the man she slept with his best friend which is a test, the guy will also break up with her even if it's not true, who wants to suffer in this wicked country.

Shugavee:
As for me the relationship is doomed!! I won't leave my man cause he lost his job but if i find out he owned a company blah blah blah, n it was all a test!! That's the end!!

VampireeM:
mstchew. Most people on social media be spinning tales just to trend. Na their cup of tea

OneSentence:
they are two different things. if I tell a lady I've lost my job, if she really believes in me she'll stick around but when u tell a guy u cheated on him is he supposed to say he doesn't believe u did? totally different tests.