izaray:
Lol, that's social media for you. Where alot people sees as an opportunity to display their stupidity to the world. Trust you're doing good

Am good dear and you?

Espada10:


ARE you also from anambra?

No, I am not ALSO from Anambra .

oyb:


Will be interesting to watch from the side lines if they get their biafra.

LOL. There would definitely be another cry of marginalisation.

pocohantas:


No, I am not ALSO from Anambra .

Now I understand why the question dey vex u

pocohantas:


LOL. There would definitely another cry of marginalisation.

that one na sure bet

Biafra is good but Igbos are not yet matured for biafra maybe in another 100yrs

Flazer101:
My name is Obinna.
So I decided to write this down because I need advice.....
There was this girl I love so much, one thing leads to another, we started dating. We are both in school. I was totally inlove with this girl and so is the girl with me.
Then suddenly she started avoiding me, as a man, I knew something is wrong, so I approached her, asking her questions. She opened up that she is avoiding me because of one reason, she said that her family hates some particular states (Delta, Imo and most esp Enugu) , I was surprised, first time am hearing such.. Enugu of all people.. wtf
She said yes that her cousin once got married to an Enugu guy and her uncle refused to turn up to his daughter wedding just because the guy is from Enugu. She told me that one of her elder sister is facing being disown by their parents just because she is discussing marriage with an Enugu guy. By the way, this girl is an Anambra girl and am from Enugu. I was dumfounded, so this kind of old stigimatization or whatever still exist in this generation.
I inquired if there is any reason behind their family having such hatred against a particular state but she said no. I tried to make her understand but she believes so much in family first, even her brothers still have the same hatred incured in them.. Like she use to tell me that her brothers use to tell her never to date any guy from those three states. The only person insupport is only her elder sister which is dating a guy outside Anambra state.
Now am emotionally devasted, and so is she,we both love oursleves but she is not feeling secured with me any longer
She said we can still be 'normal' friends but I cant. I really can't. Pls anybody in the house, I need advice on what to do, I love this girl and I do picture my future with her, but with this new development, I dont even know what to do.

My brother, she is just been polite to give you a dumb reason why you can't date her.
kindly as her what's the reasons of the hatred of people from the aforementioned places .
Sincere she might be getting a better Zap some where or she has seen someone that makes her head spin .
My advice run for your life, see her as a friend and if she give you sex Zap am well well.

Espada10:


Now I understand why the question dey vex u

Nah, it doesn't vex me, I have been asked more annoying/weird questions. So, that one is nothing

Espada10:


that one na sure bet
Biafra is good but Igbos are not yet matured for biafra maybe in another 100yrs

We'll try again in another 100yrs then.
Not like I look forward to it anyway. I know us enough to know we would screw it up.

pocohantas:


Nah, it doesn't vex me, I have been asked more annoying/weird questions. So, that one is nothing



We'll try again in another 100yrs then.
Not like I look forward to it anyway. I know us enough to know we would screw it up.

Make those IPOB warlords for politics section catch you fess

Ur head dy there. Dats jst d truth.

Espada10:
The girl do not like you that much ...simple and short



That being said ...I am suprised at Enugu because even though anambra loves to marry themselves as poco said...but they have no problem marrying from Enugu



The only state anambra people try as much as possible to avoid is IMO.

They will rather go to cross river or akawaibom than marry from imo state.

zicoraads:

Make those IPOB warlords for politics section catch you fess

Hihihi. You no see say I dey watch them from afar?

pocohantas:


Hihihi. You no see say I dey watch them from afar?

Be there. After dem finish you for here, you will go on shouting Biafla Biafla

Meanwhile, I saw your crush all over the place yesterday

Flazer101:
Thank you all.
I think I will end the relationship, but thinking about ending the relationship keeps hurting me. From the advice so far, its like there is no light at the end of the tunnel.

It will only hurt for a while, it will get easier and then you won't even remember her name. Don't love someone who doesn't love ALL of you. You can move on and focus on your education. And tell her that you don't want friendship and she should move on with her life. How could you be friends with someone who comes from people who think like that?

zicoraads:

Be there. After dem finish you for here, you will go on shouting Biafla Biafla

Meanwhile, I saw your crush all over the place yesterday

I don't have that kinda strength to be shouting anything. I suck at all forms of partisanship.

My crush go dey alright someday.
Though it may tarry, wait for it - because it will surely come...

Biafra is a joke. Anambra state and their tribalism is there to ensure it never works.

pocohantas:


I don't have that kinda strength to be shouting anything. I suck at all forms of partisanship.

My crush go dey alright someday.
Though it may tarry, wait for it - because it will surely come...

Toh. I wish I was like you though. You are so popular I envy you a whole lot

No work tomorrow, right?

Flazer101:
Thank you all.
I think I will end the relationship, but thinking about ending the relationship keeps hurting me. From the advice so far, its like there is no light at the end of the tunnel.

this is a hand writting on the wall,just bolt off peacefully.
She will later fine her way back but then u are gone.
Her mind is no longer in u and can never be for now.
Face your books.

oyb:


Will be interesting to watch from the side lines if they get their biafra.

So so interesting, when they themselves don't trust one another

@Op: Taah...!!! Instead of you to think of how you go make urself financially relevant so you won't have to depend on any1 after school, you dey here dey mull babe wahala. I tire for young dudes of these days. Once e reach time to marry her now, you go dey find committee off friends. shior..!!

Flazer101:
Thank you all.
I think I will end the relationship, but thinking about ending the relationship keeps hurting me. From the advice so far, its like there is no light at the end of the tunnel.

one thing i learnt from my previous relationship is, DON'T TRY TO FORCE ANYONE TO STAY OR CONVINCE ANYONE TO STAY OR BEG ANYONE TO STAY. Immediately remove your mind once they shows signs of leaving.
Letting that girl go as soon as possible is for the better, if not, you will just be postponing the inevitable.

Speaking of the anambra supremacy trait, i like it, even tho i'm not from anambra. Even tho it goes against my ethic of treating all human equal.

zicoraads:

Toh. I wish I was like you though. You are so popular I envy you a whole lot No work tomorrow, right?

You no well.
I deserve a star on Nairaland Walk of Fame

No work, Workers Day na. I might just hang out with my new boyfriend(s) tomorrow. My enemies will say "who dash me bf?"...

chai ! I understand, it can be painful. Anambra people are wired to always marry themselves, some call it supremacy trait, I say they love and appreciate themselves

rebirthforgoody:




Shut your stinking dirty mouth oooooh must you talk olodo

Happy New Month dear.

Pearl05:



Happy New Month dear.

Happy new month sweet heart but am still angry with you hope you know that