wonlasewonimi:
Meeen people know so much about people. Wondering what people know about me now...

Dyt:


Don't even go there
You will be surprised

wonlasewonimi:


Idayatu, you don't count because we have already nyanshed each other.

Dyt:


It doesn't matter
Old things have passed away


BTW
Have you been to naija in 10years?

wonlasewonimi:

Yes... I will call you when I'm back in July

wonlasewonimi:
Meeen people know so much about people. Wondering what people know about me now...

isalegan2:


I know you better than you know yourself.

Kidding! I kid I jest.

By the by, DYT is a superstar. Bow down, earthling!

tenmariner:
@ naijagypsy, the wife is alive and she is in the best position to express this level of character assassination on her husband. If u are the type that thinks outside the box, common sense should have told u that the possibilities of the couple coming back together and even stronger cannot be ruled out.Hence, the irrelevance of this option. How do u want to feel if his wive and kids stumbles on this thread one day? You have out of the blue become the Judge and the jury of a MARRIAGE DISCORD. #bad#

isalegan2:


Going through a lot?

Or putting others through a lot!

I just saw this thread. Don't know much about the Siena guy and wasn't a fan. Once I read a post where he bragged about fukking up the mechanics of a car because a customer owed him a few hundred pounds. The driver could have died!

I believe the OP.

shaybebaby:

I watched a video of her on YouTube where she shared the story of her upbringing and my heart truly broke for her.

I can see why she would have clung on to a relationship that was not ideal and afraid to take risks. She simply wanted to belong to someone, to be loved.

That said, even though they weren't legally married, she was his common-law wife evidenced by the three kids she had for him. There might be a way for her to regularise herself even without him in the picture on that basis(this is conjecture on my part).

The reason that springs to mind about the errant husband not filing for her could be that he acquired his citizenship through shady means or may not even be legal himself.

armyofone:
Your sponsor has to do it - you can't do it yourself.



Lesson - if you come to the west with a visitor visa and then got married, make sure he files for you before you start having children. Gladly offer him condom or get yourself protected. Communicate why it is important to get secured immigration wise before kids. It is for the children's, you and his good.

KanwuliaExtra:


Any how you analyze it. . . . In MARRIAGE AMONG NIGERIANS. . . . People change mostly for the WORSE!

Especially if they had no good role models.

Back in 2007 or 2008, Siena told us on NL how his father was very abusive. Any surprise why things should turn out the way they did? There are just certain things that become repeated cycles. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is just one.

It is only a matter of time before children repeat the SINS OF THE FATHER.

To give the benefit of doubt, it is 90% likely that OP’s is truthful. I KNOW OUR NIGERIAN MEN! Na so dem dey behave! I don shout taya for NL, but some women will always walk into marriage with EYES, NOSE AND THROAT blocked with SEMEN!

Dem go dey preach love and shyte! Meanwhile, they are SUFFERING and DYING in their relationships and marriages.

baby124:

I saw a post from him yesterday under SienaGbudje. Maybe the OP is monitoring him on NL and decided to make this post since she is sure he is now active again. If all the OP accuses him of is true, then he should do the right thing and ensure his family is well taken care of. There is no excuse to rob your kids of their own entitlements. OP may be speaking from a place of pain as Siena’s wife or one of the people carrying Siena’s burden while he goes free with another woman. There is no other side to the story if his kids have been abandoned. No excuse for that. I know that in the UK children get allowance from the government so Siena should hand over that allowance to the mother ASAP. Or she should open an account for her kids and request through a lawyer that the payments be deposited in that account.

OAM4J:


Siena will not use his full name to create a moniker on NL, doesnt make sense. The moniker SienaGbudje is not the same old Siena but an impostor. After the impostor created a thread announcing the comeback of Siena, those who have Siena contacts called to confirm, but he told them the person is not him. https://www.nairaland.com/4429599/it-feels-good-back/1#66350698

So it looks like someone has an agenda towards Siena on NL, and we are not sure if all the tales on this thread is part of that agenda. Lots of people have Siena contacts on NL, and the ease at which they called him and got him already proved he has not changed his known contacts and he is accessible contrary to the claim of OP.

So its better to hear from him and his wife directly before making any judgement.

LotusFan:
This is a faceless forum how on earth can this woman think she can come here and tarnish this man’s name.
She didn’t live with them, how on earth did she know this?

Besides this is against Nairaland’s rules, she even put his surname!!! she’s didn’t think of his kids. If he can’t get a good job in the uk based on this her rant.

I still remember the thread where Mrs.Siena was singing praises on Siena. They were in love, how come he is suddenly a monster?

Naijagypsy you need to take a deep breath and think of the far reaching effects of this post. Marriage is deep, you are friends with Siena’s wife, you are a brutish citizen she could have said anything to you to garner sympathy.

There are always two sides to every story.

Seun please this post violates so many of Nairaland’s rules. This is a sheer case of character assassination. Lalastiala where are you? Please delete this thread.

blank:


He is legal. He divorced his European wife about 10 years ago if I remember clearly. The only reason he will not file for her is just to exert some sort of control.

But what do I know?

Ahnie will soon report to this thread.

isalegan2:


I know you better than you know yourself.

Kidding! I kid I jest.

By the by, DYT is a superstar. Bow down, earthling!

P.S. Thread is going into Nairaland dustbin, my crystal ball says.

wonlasewonimi:


I dey fear you o....

It seems naijagypsy is on a mission....so why is the wife not validating your points? she is a regular on these boards na.

isalegan2:


I'm harmless.



You're too smart for this kain question, Oga Sir!

Maybe I don't know you at all.

Withdrawn.

naijagypsy:


ask him wen last he spoke to his kids. ask him where the child tax credit money is.. agenda against him? you dont know sienna. he has blocked her numbers post his number and let us call him or email me at naijagypsy@gmail.com i would like that number. i am telling you that he has lied through his teeth..

Anabell2:


Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

Anabell2:


Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

Anabell2:


Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

Anabell2:


Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

Ralphlauren:


Bloody hell just when I thought I have seen/heard it all.

I’m honestly not shocked.

I don’t know which one is most amusing - soliciting for wedding funds from gofundme or the $15,000 goal

Anabell2:


Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

naijagypsy:


dont speak like that , he got her a visa to stay as a spouse and turned abusive.. she had no idea... you will not understand abuse... thats it

Anabell2:


Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

shaybebaby:

Poor girl.

Why would she? Gist remain?

Anabell2:


Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

armyofone:
Go fund me for wedding?
@wife #3, na ordinary hand so ?