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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:31pm On May 07, 2018
hope that Seun moderator that carried d ikorodu Oro festival on his head will also support this useless culture?
Vry obnoxious nd wicked practice!!!
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by gists: 9:31pm On May 07, 2018
carpmam:
Every woman is a money woman because they were also bought by their respective husbands through bride price,the only difference here is that this people are doing theirs in an archaic way
Speak for yourself. Maybe every woman in your life is a money woman.
I did not pay a dime for the love of my life. Her dad gladly and willingly handed her over to me amidst songs and merriment.

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Seun360(m): 9:32pm On May 07, 2018
ladiesreject:
Northerners.
I knew it's them.
Hahaha
Shame on any body who comes from the southern part of Nigeria. Northerners rock God bless North
Olodo!
Northern Cross river.
Later now u go follow dey abuse Buhari.

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Abudu2000(m): 9:33pm On May 07, 2018
Not just there this used to be practiced in many parts of edo state, also called forced marriage... although not too common but still practiced low key, just in a more gentle form.... I swear Africans are nothing but animals, if only we know how those racists see us we for done do away with all these nonsense called languages self.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Sluvist(m): 9:38pm On May 07, 2018
So, if i just carry my 10k to that state, it is enough for me to buy confirm virgin slave girl that will serve my purposes. Ok my way to Niger delta now.

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:38pm On May 07, 2018
Seun360:


Olodo!

Northern Cross river.

Later now u go follow dey abuse Buhari.


Fool

If you don't see the sarcasm in my comment then you're a disgrace to what ever institution you're attending or attended

WAWA BANZA
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:39pm On May 07, 2018
ladiesreject:
Northerners.

I knew it's them.

Hahaha

Shame on any body who comes from the southern part of Nigeria.
Northerners rock
God bless North


Ur post doesn't make sense. U read am before you click submit??
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Seun360(m): 9:39pm On May 07, 2018
ladiesreject:



Fool

If you don't see the sarcasm in my comment then you're a disgrace to what ever institution you're attending or attended

WAWA BANZA

So also is your Biological Father!
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by shekauvsbuhari: 9:42pm On May 07, 2018
This is de type of places where all these pentecostal churches should go n preach, but no. Thet ll cluster in every available space in abuja, porthacourt n lagos looking for money,

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:43pm On May 07, 2018
That place is 1hr away from my village. About 30 mins from the governors village. grin Na so she go born children Wey the man family go d use any how them like. Proud ogoja babe.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Abagworo(m): 9:43pm On May 07, 2018
It's their culture and shouldn't be interfered with. If Whitemen say man can marry man or man can marry animal, what makes their ideas better than that of our forefathers?

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:45pm On May 07, 2018
ndy87:



Ur post doesn't make sense. U read am before you click submit??

I read am na

Na just sarcasm.

I be from north central, and I know say southerners de always speak ill of us and the entire north. So na devil (not God) catch them here. Cos had it been this news na from our side, you for see hate speech.

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:47pm On May 07, 2018
Call me non-comformist but I 've never been one to subscribe to traditional beliefs especially the ones that are down right stupid and of no benefit to society. To me, this is slavery in another name. None of these so called "money girls" are in control of their own destiny. The path their life would follow had been predetermined by a parent or a relative who in most cases does not have their best interest at heart. It is such an absurdity that some communities still maintain some of these outmoded customs and belief systems to the detriment of their society at large.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:47pm On May 07, 2018
CNN must not hear this them no go let Nigeria rest.. My lawd in 2018
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:48pm On May 07, 2018
ladiesreject:


I read am na

Na just sarcasm.

I be from north central, and I know say southerners de always speak ill of us and the entire north. So na devil (not God) catch them here. Cos had it been this news na from our side, you for see hate speech.

Do you know that they share a boundary with benue state? They even have communal clash every now and then. I dont appreciate how u talked to seun360 that was unfair and insulting. Try to control that temper of yours.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 9:49pm On May 07, 2018
ladiesreject:
Northerners.

I knew it's them.

Hahaha

Shame on any body who comes from the southern part of Nigeria.
Northerners rock
God bless North
and God reject south right?

It is only Igbo that use to insult u,stop biased
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by abike12(f): 9:54pm On May 07, 2018
when we talk about feminism, some empty heads will be equating it to what should happen between husband and wife. these are more serious areas that we can make an impact but will stupidity let people see road?

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by gists: 9:56pm On May 07, 2018
ladiesreject:


Fool

If you don't see the sarcasm in my comment then you're a disgrace to what ever institution you're attending or attended

WAWA BANZA
Don't stress yourself jare and don't mind the bagger. And dem go dey shout when they say Naija yoots are lazy.
As I said, no region is perfect. we all have our strength and weaknesses.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Charly68: 9:59pm On May 07, 2018
I think the Governor is a prof and I can't see the relevance of his academic credentials in the state affairs ..Oh my God where are we going in Naija
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by infj: 10:00pm On May 07, 2018
lipsrsealed



A lot of people are disappointed that its not the North. If it were to be the North this thread would have reached 4-5 page with people wailing 'arewa and backwardness' and relate it to their religion but no its not the part you hate so no wailing.

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Fatherofdragons: 10:03pm On May 07, 2018
abdelrahman:
The bigot Igbo Christians now!
when did cross rivers become an igbo state? Codeine addict mtcheeeeewwwww

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by OKame(m): 10:05pm On May 07, 2018
Some traditions are obsolete. This is one of them. This is modern day slavery, it should be stopped
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 10:05pm On May 07, 2018
ndy87:


Do you know that they share a boundary with benue state? They even have communal clash every now and then. I dont appreciate how u talked to seun360 that was unfair and insulting. Try to control that temper of yours.

He should have asked me to clarify my comment, just like you did. But instead, he just insulted me.

But thanks for your advice, I appreciate.
Meanwhile, you started with pidgin English, why did you switch? You should have just continued na lol, I like it pidgin
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 10:07pm On May 07, 2018
Charly68:
I think the Governor is a prof and I can't see the relevance of his academic credentials in the state affairs ..Oh my God where are we going in Naija


Wat are u saying Na? Dat place is 45 minutes to prof. Sen. Ben's village.

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Charly68: 10:09pm On May 07, 2018
ndy87:

Wat are u saying Na? Dat place is 45 minutes to prof. Sen. Ben's village.
Ewoo! Why are these people deceiving their people like this ?
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by selfemployed(m): 10:12pm On May 07, 2018
CastedDude:
A Nigerian journalist, Imani MumZoe, has shared her experience after embarking on an investigate trip to Cross River state to uncover the "Money Marriage Practice'' under the platform of Channels TV. Money Marriage is an old traditional practice synonymous with the Becheve tribes in Obanliku Local Government Area of Cross River State, South South Nigeria where an elderly man buys a little girl for a wife.

Obanliku Local Government Area is situated in Northern Cross River State, approximately eight hours drive from Calabar the State Capital to access.

According to the journalist, the traditional practice is presently ongoing in a remote part of Cross River State South South Nigeria where, young girls are being sold out for a kind of marriage known as, "The Money Marriage" and the victim, Money Woman.

The practice which is as old as tradition itself is carried out without the consent of the girl who in most cases, is sold out to clear debts owed by a family relation even before her birth.

At each of the communities visited, victims of the Money Marriage through the help of the missionary were quick to share with Channels Television their experiences as Money Women or Money wives.

The Money Woman practice according to tribes in becheve is a status thing and a show of pride as there is virtually no family in Becheve that is not without a Money Woman.

The victims are most times used to settle debts owed by her relatives and when her husband dies, his next-of-kin marries her and if the girl-wife dies without giving birth to children, her parents are obligated to bring a replacement in accordance with customary demands.

In cases where a money woman gets pregnant by another man, the husband hold claims of the children and if the woman eventually gives birth to a baby girl, she is in turn sold out to a willing buyer without her consent.

‘Money Wives’ are not allowed the right to education and in every sale, the girl’s opinion is not sought. She is the bread winner.

Victims of this marriage are sold for as low as Ten Thousand Naira, few goats and pigs, tubers of yam, depending on the man's bargain power.

The buyer determines what he does with the money woman even if he uses her for ritual purposes.

Once a girl is sold out for Money Marriage, she is considered dead by her own immediate family and warned never to return back irrespective of how she is being treated by her husband or his relatives.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/money-marriage-practice-becheve-tribes-in-obanliku-lg-in-cross-river-state.html

Is it not time that everything about African tradition is abolished? From the ooni of I've to the emir of sultan of sokoto.

Tradition is really keeping Africa in bondage. I wonder why the British colonists didn't outlaw all these rubbish.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by DEcclesia(m): 10:14pm On May 07, 2018
native barbarism
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Odetokun3(m): 10:15pm On May 07, 2018
Mind ur business cheesy
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 10:16pm On May 07, 2018
Charly68:
Ewoo! Why are these people deceiving their people like this ?


My dear me self I know dat place but didnt think that those things still exist. But the famous obudu cattle ranch is in that. Local government Na so lol.
Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by nahzyla: 10:20pm On May 07, 2018
Abagworo:
It's their culture and shouldn't be interfered with. If Whitemen say man can marry man or man can marry animal, what makes their ideas better than that of our forefathers?

Because nobody is getting hurt by oyibo strange laws. Man marrying man is a choice both men choose to make.

This one Africans are doing is causing harm to those innocent girls who are forced into slavery.

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Superman30(m): 10:30pm On May 07, 2018
Debazent:
This is slavery and this happens in almost all communities of this nation,if not the world at large.
na lie !
It's what their Christianity teaches them

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Re: Money Marriage Practice In Cross River State Where Girls Are Sold To Elderly Men by Nobody: 10:32pm On May 07, 2018
It is not that common I served in Becheve community secondary school as a corper.

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