"Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why - Family (2)

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Nobody: 7:13am On May 11, 2018

Really?

Should this salary come with all the expectations of employment?

Monthly performance reviews, no entertainment during working hours, mandatory compliance to dress codes etal?

What is this dunce on?

Should the husband also be paid for doing chores around the house?

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by BabyApple(m): 7:14am On May 11, 2018

walahi ooto ni woman yi sor

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Cutehector(m): 7:15am On May 11, 2018

vizkiz:
Only a maid stays at home and get paid for her services at the end of the month.

Your wife shouldn't be a stay at home mom. She went to school for a reason. She should be a supporter for the family instead of another liability.

sense.. Nice words bro

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Obierika(m): 7:15am On May 11, 2018

Are we still on this matter?

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by vizkiz: 7:15am On May 11, 2018

pocohantas:
But some men want stay at home mums, especially for their kids formative years...

Imagine telling a career woman to be a stay at home mom then give her that kindda reason. Lol

I don't feel comfortable with a liability. Infact it will boost her self esteem when she earns in her own way.

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by ib22003(m): 7:16am On May 11, 2018

Against all bones in my body, I agree yes. she has a point. It sounds awkward because we are calling it pay. Married folks are a Team. He is the strikers and she is the defender. The trophy is for the team. Because if the defence keeps conceding all the striker's efforts are in vain. The annoying part is because its the guy earning money, The moment its the ladies money its no longer team effort. African ladies want to keep the part of our culture that favours them and take the western parts that favours them too.

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by ib22003(m): 7:18am On May 11, 2018

You are saying it like the husband is employing the wife. It's a team effort.

oyb:
Really?

Should this salary come with all the expectations of employment?

Monthly performance reviews, no entertainment during working hours, mandatory compliance to dress codes etal?

What is this dunce on?

Should the husband also be paid for doing chores around the house?

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by southernbelle(f): 7:18am On May 11, 2018

Instead of demanding a salary from your spouse apart from the normal allowance you get for your personal needs, why not demand to be empowered to work/run a business from home or provide a service from home that will ensure money gets into your account from a different source.
I don't buy the idea of women getting a salary from their husbands for being stay-at-home moms.

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by oladamexy(m): 7:18am On May 11, 2018

Preshy561:
if he insists you stay at home,that means he should bear the consequences of his actions,and yes,he should pay you.

{p} because I no use money marry ¿{p\}

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by thenny312(m): 7:18am On May 11, 2018

I don't see anything wrong with this ,my Aunt is a stay home mom and her husband gives her SALARY after collecting his ...
Because a woman has children doesn't make her any less a dreamer you know,let her utilize her University certificate if not then PAY HER
She has her own family to take care of too
Women need to be empowered in this country ,so they can stand up for themselves

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by userplainly(m): 7:18am On May 11, 2018

post=67459940:
Salary: No.
Money generally at anytime: Yes.

A wise man spotted

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by spiritedtete: 7:19am On May 11, 2018

Baby mama takes salary and not wife....

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by pocohantas(f): 7:19am On May 11, 2018

vizkiz:
Imagine telling a career woman to be a stay at home mom then give her that kindda reason. Lol

I don't feel comfortable with a liability. Infact it will boost her self esteem when she earns in her own way.

LOL. I can't imagine that life o.
I said it on a thread and people were shouting feminist.
I will just die, how can I put my life and future in another human's hand? Knowing how unpredictable humans can be...

Yes na. It boost self-esteem. Isn't lack of finance one of the major reasons Nigerian women remain in abusive marriages?

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by SAMBARRY: 7:19am On May 11, 2018

I am a woman and women need to stop all this nonsense. The root of all this nonsense is that you're looking for someone to pour your financial burden on. Is giving birth to kids now a business agreement.? Are you a baby machine that has to exchange her body and number of children with money. Stop commercializing your reproductive system. I don taya sef. When we should be going one step forward one ill bred semi illiterate entitled woman will come out from nowhere and think she deserves the world without lifting a finger because she opened her vagina and got impregnated. Madam it was a mutual decision. Nobody owes you Jack even if your vagina is gold plated.

After baby sitting, dust yourself up and get back to work or business.

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Ramos16(m): 7:20am On May 11, 2018

Perfectdanny:
why did I book this space again??

Should she pay him if he decides to stay at home?

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Jackyboy: 7:20am On May 11, 2018

Lemme roll up............ I'll be back kiss

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by wizrose(m): 7:21am On May 11, 2018

Preshy561:
how naw?

y should husband even pay their wifes. After paying bride price and u are still eating free food at ur husband huz.. Not as if u are the one working 4 the money .. Do u even think making money is easy or do u think men blog money from trees .. U girlz just ask 4 money like say na papper ...

WELL I REST MY CASE HERE

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:22am On May 11, 2018

userplainly:
A wise man spotted

God bless you my brother.

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Nobody: 7:23am On May 11, 2018

Everything is money...money ... money...

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by YorubaEmir: 7:24am On May 11, 2018

stay at home or get a job. Am I your employer or husband?

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by kmaster007: 7:24am On May 11, 2018

depending on how much ur hubby dey collect as salary. if d money no plenty no money for u

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by israelmao(m): 7:24am On May 11, 2018

So many evils stem out of staying at home ranging from humour peddling,playing host to unwanted friends and the like.I won't tolerate that as a husband let alone giving you a salary.

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by martineverest(m): 7:24am On May 11, 2018

they should be paid tho...... but what if one day the man says 'afterall am I not paining u'

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Preshy561(f): 7:26am On May 11, 2018

wizrose:
y should husband even pay their wifes. After paying bride price and u are still eating free food at ur husband huz.. Not as if u are the one working 4 the money .. Do u even think making money is easy or do u think men blog money from trees .. U girlz just ask 4 money like say na papper ...

WELL I REST MY CASE HERE

why should a responsible man ask his wife to sit at home when he knows the burden may be much on him?

I can't even marry such a man.

btw,at emboldened, I think it revolves round the cycle of females you hang around with,I beg to differ.

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Nobody: 7:26am On May 11, 2018

pocohantas:
But some men want stay at home mums, especially for their kids formative years...

No guarantee that a stay at home mum will impact on the kids. She could turn the kids to zeeworld/telemundo addicts.

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Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Surrey2Bimshire: 7:26am On May 11, 2018

Ramos16:
Should she pay him if he decides to stay at home?

Yup there’s nothing wrong with that .. if the man decide to be a stay at home dad and do the family runs while his wife goes out to Bring money home . .

The man should do the family runs ..

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by flyca: 7:27am On May 11, 2018

I don't know if what I'm

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by Nobody: 7:28am On May 11, 2018

ib22003:
You are saying it like the husband is employing the wife. It's a team effort.

Do you understand what a salary is? It is a scheduled payment for services rendered. A salary earner is subject to the business policies and expectations of his employer.

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by nairarules: 7:28am On May 11, 2018

Partners in marriage should have a role to play for the success of the marriage in a long run.... If you fall in the category of staying at home, that's your Role! You ain't need no so called official pay/compesation to catapult your marriage into Ecstasy mode. Your husband has a role to play as a financial manager of your marital ship. So better play your role to the fullest and your ship will sail safe in the storm of life.

I don talk my own!

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by HigherEd: 7:29am On May 11, 2018

Very credible argument

Re: "Should Husbands Pay Their Stay At Home Wives Salary?" - Lady Lists Reasons Why by BrownChima212(m): 7:30am On May 11, 2018

For what reason ?

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