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Sansa143 congratulations to you ma'am. May the Almighty bless ur new family.

Upon the mount of comfort, May the Lord cause you and your hubby to increase on every side.
Your home shall be blessed and filled with abundance. Amen.
Happy Married Life Sansa143.

Dear Roseey0,

PPD is real...
Please take one day at a time. Get every help you can to ease off whatever stress you may be passing through at the moment.

Unburden your heart to hubby so he can at least make an attempt to understand how you feel. (_{Men sometimes don't just understand how crazy our emotions can be after childbirth.)}

Make yourself happy as much as you can. You will overcome.
cheers

JGracious:
Dear Roseey0,

PPD is real...
Please take one day at a time. Get every help you can to ease off whatever stress you may be passing through at the moment.

Unburden your heart to hubby so he can at least make an attempt to understand how you feel. (_{Men sometimes don't just understand how crazy our emotions can be after childbirth.)}

Make yourself happy as much as you can. You will overcome.
cheers

Thanks dear.
The tears did all the talking for me.
I understand its a phase.
It will only get better.

JGracious:
Upon the mount of comfort, May the Lord cause you and your hubby to increase on every side.
Your home shall be blessed and filled with abundance. Amen.
Happy Married Life Sa.nsa143

Amen n amen,thanks so much

tyconcepts:
Sex starts from the mind.... Not getting wet during intimacy can be a thing of the mind. Dwell on sex, think about the sex, talk about it, paint pictures of the sex, get involve in real pre-intimacy, not rushed penetration..Involve in oral, get actively involved instead of just being laid back.... You will drop beyond your imagination.

I seconded..
Sansa143,congrats dear wishing you guys many fun yrs together..

Rhemy2013:
I seconded..

Yaaayyyy. Give my love to baby Donald

Roseey0:
Thanks dear.
The tears did all the talking for me.
I understand its a phase.
It will only get better.

Just to reassure you that it will get better. I cried everyday during the first few days till my mum came over. Pele dear.

In other news, my 2months old son has this tiny tiny rashes on his cheeks, I won't call them rashes sef, like tiny 'protrusions'. Please what can I do? Started like 2days ago and today, it has multiplied.

tyconcepts:
Yaaayyyy. Give my love to baby Donald

Kisses to president mofe

Amen,tnks dear

atumomo:
Sansa143 congratulations to you ma'am. May the Almighty bless ur new family.

Rhemy2013:
I seconded..
San.sa143,congrats dear wishing you guys many fun yrs together..

Amen,tnks alot

rvpbae:
Just to reassure you that it will get better. I cried everyday during the first few days till my mum came over. Pele dear.

In other news, my 2months old son has this tiny tiny rashes on his cheeks, I won't call them rashes sef, like tiny 'protrusions'. Please what can I do? Started like 2days ago and today, it has multiplied.

Can u post a pix so dt some of us like myself will understand better? Do u clean his cheeks n mouth region after breastfeeding? Cos breast milk left on the cheeks could also cause rashes on the cheeks n jaw.

Sansa143:
Thanks dear!Amen n amen

Congrats ma. I rejoice with you

sassyangel1:
Can u post a pix so dt some of us like myself will understand better? Do u clean his cheeks n mouth region after breastfeeding? Cos breast milk left on the cheeks could also cause rashes on the cheeks n jaw.

Sorry mama. I've attached a picture. Yes I do clean after breastfeeding. The thing is on his forehead but very little.

rvpbae:
Sorry mama. I've attached a picture. Yes I do clean after breastfeeding. The thing is on his forehead but very little.

K, I guess he's more than two months? Gently n carefully apply agnesia or raving powder( mixed wth a drop of water) on the affected parts once a day especially as soon as he baths. Don't apply every time, once a day for two days is ok.

rvpbae:
Just to reassure you that it will get better. I cried everyday during the first few days till my mum came over. Pele dear.

Thanks dear.
For rash I applied cacatin first night, Breastmilk second night . Skin restored back to default.Though everyone said its common and will go on its own.


Let me just report officially here. We are 9days old today. Meet my princess
We did our own sunday service indoor.

sassyangel1:
Hmmm... Chaiiii... U see ehnnn, in dis life pikin cannot be wiser dan Hin papa n mama. I just remembered those days wen we had only my daughter, i'v never been a fan of leaving a baby only in a room cos of wetin So, my hubby decided to bring her own bed to our room. But my daughter, being a monitoring n spiritual family planning decided dt never will she sleep on her bed. Ok, my hubby n I decided to put her in the middle. That is how my daughter will now stretch one kind village stretch to check if we r in our left n right positions. If oga decides to come to my side n madam stretches leg n dinnor feel her daddy's skin Na to open eye n me as a sharp ishan woman wee shook breast inside her mouth while me n hubby is doing our ministry under blanket. So far there's breast dts my daughter's only consolation. One night like dt as hubby n I were watching late night movie I told my hubby dt I wantu chop one mouth. My hubby was like U KNOW OUR DAUGHTER CAN JUST APPEAR LIKE BREEZE OOOO... I was like mbanu, ayaf knock her down wth breast milk. That was how urs truly climbed on mountain to intercede ooo right in d parlor. I jst heard wen my daughter crying softly n getting closer to d door. If u see d way I use press up Jack myself Comot from my hubby's body ehnnnn... I had to quickly dash off to her so dt she wee not see wer her daddy went to hide like Adam. Throughout that week, I was just explaining to my daughter that I was killing mosquitoes on daddy's body n she too innocently nodded. We have never ever made that mistake again and now she sleeps deeper.

This got me laughing out loud!
Tuale momma! You deserve some accolades indeed.

Come and teach me small 'bad thing' nah.

jazzyjazz:
@aishlove

Buy lubricant
Proper lubricant that's meant for sex
Example is Durex. There are other brands too.

Before you two start, engage in lots of pre-intimacy.
Let him tickle your clitoris, sick your boob's too
Let him use his hands or fingers to gently trace imaginary lines on your back, your clitoris, let him use his tongue.
You cab spice it up by using honey or some ice cream.
Pour it on his preek and suck it off him
Let him pour it on your n.ipples and twirl his tongue on it

See ehn after delivery I didn't want to have sex either. It was hard. But I got my mind off the pain (and fear that I may be too wide down there).

You two can watch some pornography together. It equally helps with sexual stimulation.

I know some people will frown at MouthAction but if you two are comfortable with it, it's a great sex booster o. Try the "69" position. (thank me later)
Also have a relaxed mind.
The pain will only be for the initial penetration. After that na you go de scream "baby labam don't stop keep moving"



Let me not talk again biko I de office. I nor carry change of pata

_{lemme Coman be going before enque and some people will call me kpekus mistress}

b4 nko Na u be d kpekus mistress

rvpbae:
Please does anybody here sell baby wears and shoes and also based in lagos? Or can recommend any on IG?

Thanks

Madam Zaynie

Happychildlove:
Madam Zaynie

Thanks Matey
We already made arrangements

DocAdray:
This got me laughing out loud!
Tuale momma! You deserve some accolades indeed.

Come and teach me small 'bad thing' nah.

Ayam coming. Lemme finish my Sunday rice.

sassyangel1:
K, I guess he's more than two months? Gently n carefully apply agnesia or raving powder( mixed wth a drop of water) on the affected parts once a day especially as soon as he baths. Don't apply every time, once a day for two days is ok.

He will be 2months in 4days. I'll try the the agnesia and give feedback after a few days. Thanks

jazzyjazz:
We de do d do o
When he's sleeping, na to shift am go side. Then we continue our business

Or on AC for him. Make sure the room is very cold. The bobo go sleep well well (he like cold)

If he happens to wake up while we're at it, na to give am food. He will go back to sleep immediately

Then we continue

Hahhahahha... Bad shild... Abeg make una no corrupt me oh. I am my Hubby's vargin

rvpbae:
He will be 2months in 4days. I'll try the the agnesia and give feedback after a few days. Thanks

K, I'll be waiting. Pls, a little mixed with a lilll water to form paste n apply on the affected parts.

Roseey0:
Thanks dear.
For rash I applied cacatin first night, Breastmilk second night . Skin restored back to default.Though everyone said its common and will go on its own.


Let me just report officially here. We are 9days old today. Meet my princess
We did our own sunday service indoor.

Bless you darling

Thanks dear

perfectcrown:
Congrats ma. I rejoice with you

Halos

How is u?

sassyangel1:
Can u post a pix so dt some of us like myself will understand better? Do u clean his cheeks n mouth region after breastfeeding? Cos breast milk left on the cheeks could also cause rashes on the cheeks n jaw.

zaynie:
Thanks Matey
We already made arrangements

uwc vigilante no make me get chance again.

kelizosuy:
Halos

How is u?

Me is just in one shit hole kontiri o... Hw is my princess?

Lol.. I've missed you and I decided to say halos..

The princess is fine

sassyangel1:
Me is just in one shit hole kontiri o... Hw is my princess?

kelizosuy:
Lol.. I've missed you and I decided to say halos..

The princess is fine

Awwwww... Missed u too. Thks 4 checking. Kisses to Adele..

Sabi mama's, plz my baby is 3months +, and he doesn't like sucking he sucks for 5minutes and his body will start biting him except I express the breastmilk and feed him, and u know the stress of getting out the breastmilk it takes allot of time, plz what do I do so that he can start sucking for a long period..