₦airaland Forum

Diamond23:
just try nd luk for another of ur guy to snatch his babe, I guarantee u, u will feel beta

KOPT33:
Haha -- I am done with that business. Just woke up now from my drunken slumber... felt better. It's an all night party here. I have chicken and shitor sauce--come and join me!

Centrallock:
My brothe i didn't have time to go through your post enough but i just feel i could drop some write up here cos am in same mess..

I find myself loving someone who i shouldn't have loved to far, love hurts bro took me two sleepness night to come to into conclusions that

Chances you aren't mad at the person who left you behind, you might be mad that you're left behind and it's doesn't make those people bad

Every one is replaceable the only thing that diffrenciate you from the rest is the amount of time and effort that is required to replace you

People have difrence on opinions and you have to accept that

You'll need to learn that not all emotions you experience are genuine. More than half of them are mere mind-games Learn to distinguish to avoid lots of depression

your heart will be broken multiple times and you'll have to break a couple of hearts yourself, That's life There no right and wrong here

Above all you are in charge of you own happiness

Diamond23:
glad u laughed a bit.....Nomatter wot life goes on.....putting on ma dancing shoes...address!

Eaa247:
its ur vry sweety! ur only one my only one

KOPT33:
Life goes on, it waits for no man.

It's going to be an all nighter for me. I have downloaded a couple of nice albums to tide me till morning. Can you imagine that I was in a dream and found myself being locked up by a white policewoman who had a full beard. I asked what my offense was and the police station turned into soccer field. Woke up to find that Nwakali had scored against Althletico, and I'd been hearing the commentary in my sleep.

It’s called breakup fever

biacan:
Don't stress yourself over irrelevant things you'll be fine trust me just visit the said page it will help you

KOPT33:
I try to live stoically.

Diamond23:
It’s called breakup fever

KOPT33:
Ewoo -- this one isn't irrelevant. But I'm sure I will be fine just that things were becoming too intense for me to handle and talking to people here on NL is like therapy for me.

Penisinpenisout:
Well, it might be time to reach for that school of thought again.

KOPT33:
Hmmm, first time hearing this. Will definitely look it up

biacan:
OK now what do you need to speed up your therapy

KOPT33:
I need time: three days

I need alchohol: Seagrams Whiskey

I need spicy food: Shitor sauce + anything will work well

I need music: J Cole, John Legend, Jay Z and Dave Koz

I need conversation: from on NL.


I can't even call my friends because those men are so insensitive. I am sure they suffer more from relationship issues but they are always acting macho.


In about 52 hours I would have shed all traces of sadness from my heart.

SoapQueen:
Add Lana Del Rey "Blue Jeans, Damn You, Summertime Sadness, Big Eyes '

Dido Ft. Kendrick Lamar 'Let us move on or Dido, 'End of night '

KOPT33:
Ahh!!! Summertime sadness is one hell of a song!!!


Lana Del Ray is such a gifted and weird musician. Not sure I wanna listen to Lana right now because even in moments of happiness she brings tears to my eyes, how much more now that I am emotionally unbalanced. Nice taste in music, SoapQueen.

NeeKlaus:
Nice things.

SoapQueen:
Exactly! She has a troubled past too. I listen to Lana, Enya, Dido, Owl city and the rest.

Other days, I'm twerking and jamming to Cardi or Nicki.

You'd heal soon.

KOPT33:
Wow -- surprised at how similar our taste in music is...

[Dreams don't turn dust

To ten million fireflies

Kiss me before you go

Life for rent] -- these are some of the most unforgettable lyrics I know.


I didn't quite take to Nicky, Cardi B sounds too young for me. I love sad and dark music.

These days, I listen to a lot of contemporary Jazz and Soul music from the early seventies

KOPT33:
Wise words right there. What do I do if I don't want my heart broken many times? This is one of the worst feelings ever! I would always remain cautious with love after this. I have ended relationships before but this one is just too intense. Like I can't breath.

KOPT33:
I need time: three days

I need alchohol: Seagrams Whiskey

I need spicy food: Shitor sauce + anything will work well

I need music: J Cole, John Legend, Jay Z and Dave Koz

I need conversation: from on NL.


I can't even call my friends because those men are so insensitive. I am sure they suffer more from relationship issues but they are always acting macho.


In about 52 hours I would have shed all traces of sadness from my heart.

Centrallock:
There is nothing you can do bro, not everyone got to love you the way you want and not everyone got to hate you, the uniqueness of love is when one out of many belives you're special despite experiencing your flaws, love will find you just calm your mind, feelings comes and goes bro, like me am channeling my emotions into something i never dreamt of, after work i will go to motherless babies homes after donation i play with those kids when am back i reflect alot about them, my brother my pop repeately told me one thing each time i ran into any problem, he says life is what ever you say it is, instead of feeling sorry for your self pick a new hobby on what ever could make you happy, sex, games,food, drinks just make sure it's something you wouldn't regret as time goes by i feel same way you do but i believe that all is well

biacan:
Enyaaaaa nnam you'll be fine listen to New York by Jay-Z ft alicha keys

KOPT33:
Are you sure there is nothing I can do? I am using Nairaland as a diversion. Tomorrow, I am going to Abeokuta. Going to Obasanjo's Presidential librabry at Ota. That should keep me away for the whole day. Thursday, Kalakuta and Africa Shrine + Page Nightclub till morning +++++ till the end of the week. I resume work on Friday, next week, so there is a stretch of potentially idle time I don't want the devil occupying in my mind. Don't wanna dwell on the past. Want to look at the future with hope and longing. It's pity I can't do much charitable work in my journey to wholeness.

Thanks you for your company... I love it!

rex444:
U seem like you could thrive already.....buckle up amigo.....there are probably more heartbreaks before u find d one .....

KOPT33:
Are you sure there is nothing I can do? I am using Nairaland as a diversion. Tomorrow, I am going to Abeokuta. Going to Obasanjo's Presidential librabry at Ota. That should keep me away for the whole day. Thursday, Kalakuta and Africa Shrine + Page Nightclub till morning +++++ till the end of the week. I resume work on Friday, next week, so there is a stretch of potentially idle time I don't want the devil occupying in my mind. Don't wanna dwell on the past. Want to look at the future with hope and longing. It's pity I can't do much charitable work in my journey to wholeness.

Thanks you for your company... I love it!

KOPT33:
Hey Nairalanders,

Please, tell me nice things. I just ended my two year relationship because of some differences.

My ex girlfriend and I discussed it at length and came to the decision to part ways. There are no hard feelings but my heart is beating like mad.

My heart beats like it's going to explode out of it's rib-cage. I feel like sh.iit now. I feel an incredible sense of loss. All the memories, all the good times, the fights and the laughs have come to an end. Truly love is hard.

Guys and girls, please ask me questions or tell me stuff so that my mind can be off my worries for now.

Please, be nice.

Lalasticlala, I fit see promise land with this one?

EDIT 1

The funny thing is that she wasn't even actually my girl. Let me confess here--I snatched her from my friend who wasn't serious with her.

My friend used to live with me in my apartment until he had to go for youth service. In the brief period of time they dated, it was punctuated with strife, constant fighting, and a whole lot of other negative energy. Then my friend went for NYSC but she kept coming to help me with stuff while I was busy. She used to come help me cook and take care of my apartment every day after work; suffice to say that her initial service was during the time I was battling a serious ailment. She took care of me, cooked my meals, helped me prepare for my certification exam while I was still bedridden. Yeah, she used to read my textbook to me while spoon feeding me. It was heaven, it was valhalla. I'd never experienced anything like that.

When I got well, and with the insurance payout I got, I tried to pay her back by buying her a few nice things. Proximity led to familiarity, to care, to love, and to the hope that things, which were so sweet and easygoing as a result of her love and care, would last forever.

I have lost two people now: my friend who was mightily pissed that I would snatch is girl (need I say he wasn't serious with her and was so faraway) and this beautiful woman who gave me strength and courage to face my world.

KOPT33:
Yes, I am a kid. What problems have you got with that?

greyham:
Look I don't insult people I don't know online but I really feel like insulting you now.

For your friend to be angry at your relationship with his girl shows you actually knew what you were doing all along.

You are not a kid to know she was dating your guy and you still allowed your friendship to grow and started dating her.

Like wtf?!!!

I am so glad you are hurt and heart broken right now because that is what you deserve.

The girl is the real MVP here because she finally used you to get back to your friend (gosh I can't even call him your friend anymore ) and has dumped you, the rebound guy so she can focus on other important things in life.

I hate traitors, you make me sick

greyham:
No wonder

greyham:
Look I don't insult people I don't know online but I really feel like insulting you now.

For your friend to be angry at your relationship with his girl shows you actually knew what you were doing all along.

You are not a kid to know she was dating your guy and you still allowed your friendship to grow and started dating her.

Like wtf?!!!

I am so glad you are hurt and heart broken right now because that is what you deserve.

The girl is the real MVP here because she finally used you to get back to your friend (gosh I can't even call him your friend anymore ) and has dumped you, the rebound guy so she can focus on other important things in life.

I hate traitors, you make me sick