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PassionateSoul:
Lemme digress a bit. See eh, I'm looking for a girlfriend, if you're young beautiful smart and goal driven, holla me. Will be glad to hear from you!

Do you really have a passionate soul?

ubunja:
listening to a woman? a waste of time. a woman herself doesnt listen to herself. she will oppose herself 10X in 1 month. "i like good guys" while busy getting preg by thugs

*spits on thread*

RuthDaniels:
Do you really have a passionate soul?

geometricaxis:
women need to also realise that men have now realised (or are beginning to realise) that most women are too much hard work and we dont need this their drama. Sex and companionship (which is all a woman has to offer at the end of the day) can be gotten without the drama. neither has to be full time.

this is why there are so many single women out there....and the reason why a man no longer has to put up with BS

geometricaxis:
women need to also realise that men have now realised (or are beginning to realise) that most women are too much hard work and we dont need this their drama. Sex and companionship (which is all a woman has to offer at the end of the day) can be gotten without the drama. neither has to be full time. There are so many single women out there who go home to an empty bed and are just happy to have a man in their life for a man worth his salt to put up with BS, drama and mind games.

Lazyreporta:
She may have told you that she was totally head over heels in love with you, and five minutes later say she hates your guts. When she says she hates your guts – this is what she is feeling right then and there in that present moment. Five minutes ago, when she told you she loved you, she did love you five minutes ago. But what she’s feeling right now, in this moment, is: I hate your guts.
Again, it doesn’t matter if you did everything perfect for the first ten years you were together. What matters is that you screwed up five minutes ago, and now there’s hell to pay. Now you have to weather the storm, break through her barriers, and get back to her heart. You need to get her back in her feminine energy so she can open back up and be that playful, beautiful woman you love. You do this by using humor and understanding, and by letting her know that you are not going anywhere until you get to the bottom of it.

A man usually doesn’t understand it when his woman walks out on him. She has been telling him all along: You are never around. You never spend any time with me. We never talk. You don’t care about what I want. These are the things that a woman does to get your attention, and that most guys just completely ignore. They don’t take her seriously, invalidating the way she is feeling at the moment. If you are invalidating her emotions, and she is an emotionally based creature, how long do you think she is going to take it?






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Oritzy:

geometricaxis:
the thing about women cheating is that it backfires more on women in the long run in our society than it does on men. i am not saying it is right or wrong, i am just saying it as it is. Also there is a reason why there are so many single women above 30s looking for husbands that will statistically likely never come and baby mamas.

A man of 70 will still find a young wife/side babe in Nigeria so long as you are successful, examples abound but once a woman is past 40, I am telling you from a man's point of view, she is only useful as a companion/sex partner, statistically the over 40s never find a husband. For every one who does whether divorced or never been married who does, there are 100 who dont and will never.

My point is it's a man's world. so a man need not disturb himself trying to understand women and their mind games. Work hard and they will find you...work hard and except you are viloent towards her, your woman will think hard before she leaves you and if she does you wont lack for replacements....FACT!!

I am not saying men should treat women with arrogance and contempt, I am just saying dont fall for their mind games and if you have a woman who plays games, dont waste you energy...such a woman wont let you focus your energy on what you need to do as a man, if she goes it's no loss..youll get over her with the many that will seek you when you are successful.

geometricaxis:
women need to also realise that men have now realised (or are beginning to realise) that most women are too much hard work and we dont need this their drama. Sex and companionship (which is all a woman has to offer at the end of the day) can be gotten without the drama. neither has to be full time. There are so many single women out there who go home to an empty bed and are just happy to have a man in their life for a man worth his salt to put up with BS, drama and mind games.

israelmao:
You can simply text back that you would like to see her in the kitchen,when she comes, tell her "over to you" and walk away.

Safiaa:
We lie ohh.. forget it

UBGG:
"According to the guy, the lady has many male willing sponsors that are willing to part with their hard earned cash without doing anything with the said girlfriend"

LMAO!!!

Reminds me of my ex, so dumb. How he fell for some of the ludicrous tales I told beats me.

Audray:
Women don't lie. Hehehehehe. If women were perfume, they'd be called Eau de mystery.

rebirthforgoody:
Women are the head of all lie while I concur that guys don't listen at all.....

ubunja:
you cant have two different answers both correct. choose one. women lie or men dont listen? you know what?forget it, you'll say men dont listen. good day.

rebirthforgoody:
Is obvious that men don't listen

rebirthforgoody:
Is obvious that men don't listen

ubunja:

geometricaxis:
my dear you are the one not listening, Men now realise we dont need to listen to BS