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A lot of us might not be particularly enthusiastic about walking down the aisle and tying the knot but we’ll probably have a change of mind in the future.
When you finally meet that person who seems like they are the one and you begin to consider walking down the aisle there are a few things you need to cross of your mental list. Like do they put the toilet seat down when they finish using it or do they annoyingly act like they’re suffering from a terminal illness when really it’s just the flu?
While these be some less important things that you can make concessions for there are some things that cannot be waved off so easily.
1. Finances
Some people are excellent at working on a budget and being economical with their expenses, while others seem to constantly have an empty pocket minutes after money descends in it. It’s crucial for couples that intend to get married that they sort out who handles finances, how they handle it and spending habits.
1. Sex
Your sex life is well… interesting. For now, but what happens when you’re married and living together in the same house and you realize your partner is a little more freaky than you thought? While you’re open to exploring it seems your partner is down for a little more than the usual vanilla sex that you’re comfortable with.
Thus comes the friction. If you’re both planning to settle down it’s definitely something you both want to have a conversation about just so that you don’t run into roadblocks along the way in forms of anal sex or hardcore BDSM.
1. Gender roles
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Brother, I'm not with you on this one, my introduction is next month
Let me go there

Are u married??