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What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by debaj10(op): 11:46pm On May 27, 2018
Nigerians and our 'me sef' mentality...

first off, separate dating from courting o!
you want to marry, ready yourself for d load.
which means, cut your coat according to your material.
aftarol, if u mari finish, dem sak am d next mont, how u go do?
'nuff said.
………
so, after the toasting, you like each other. how?
was it his lyrics, clothes, confidence or face?
was the idea to enjoy each other's company, or was it a 'sex for money' contract?
before you met, you were somehow living a life.
was it hardship that made it necessary to demand restaurants and clubs?
if these were outside your radar before the dating, what makes them important now?
-your lack of exposure? abi u just too poor? abi na bad espiriens?
while dating, it makes sense to pay for transport fares, buy groceries, even LEND money in an emergency.
but was the unspoken agreement that your buu would replace both of your parents?
………
last time I checked, everyone enjoys sex. if you find it unpleasant, then 'getting something' from a relationship makes sense.
- but you tell your buu say is bad for you?
minwyl, if I dey pay for somtin, na me go still dey do d wok?!
Haba!
beta know how to 'work it' o!
bedmatics na sirios biznes.
………
and for those who think this is directed at a particular gender:
- na u dey do ursef.
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by MissRaine69(f): 2:28am On May 28, 2018
Some guys fall into pits that they dig themselves. They show off , spend incessantly telling the woman that money ain’t a thing. Now when she empties your account they come here.
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by Omuneizzy6(m): 3:09am On May 28, 2018
Ask mark

Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by ubunja(m): 3:12am On May 28, 2018
modern girls are nothing but prostitutes who dont stand at the street corner.
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by BabbanBura(m): 6:39am On May 28, 2018
ubunja:
modern girls are nothing but prostitutes who dont stand at the street corner.
I will add 'most' to the "modern gals" and your statement is sacrosanct - good one as always!
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by ubunja(m): 7:33am On May 28, 2018
BabbanBura:
I will add 'most' to the "modern gals" and your statement is sacrosanct - good one as always!
write your own statements and stop adding to other people's statements.
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by BabbanBura(m): 8:27am On May 28, 2018
ubunja:
write your own statements and stop adding to other people's statements.
Funny you, i do whenever no one has captured my thoughts here. I believe, 'there is no need re-inventing the wheels'.
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by ubunja(m): 12:42pm On May 28, 2018
BabbanBura:
Funny you, i do whenever no one has captured my thoughts here. I believe, 'there is no need re-inventing the wheels'.
you modified my wheel bro
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by khalazi: 1:04pm On May 28, 2018
ubunja:
modern girls are nothing but prostitutes who dont stand at the street corner.
So you're gonna marry a village girl or a Man?
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by ubunja(m): 1:56pm On May 28, 2018
khalazi:
So you're gonna marry a village girl or a Man?
you tell me
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by BossLaifay(f): 2:06pm On May 28, 2018
khalazi:
So you're gonna marry a village girl or a Man?
Little do they know that village/timid girls are just girls that have not yet gotten the opportunity and exposure to come into their own. When they eventually do....... Lol
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by Barzinime(m): 2:39pm On May 28, 2018
A Bobrisky DNA replica of cos grin grin grin
khalazi:
So you're gonna marry a village girl or a Man?
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by Lonestar124: 3:35pm On May 28, 2018
Love is money, money is for acquaintance, acquaintance of modern ammenties........some modern strategies has demoralized our state of thinking.

Old are the days when young men are proud to be a farmer. those time the material wealth of a man is measures according to his farmland....all thanks to our consistent farmers feeding the lazy sophisticated ones that wholly depend on blue and white collar jobs.

Virtually the women are sophisticated and are money conscious and won't hold a relationship with a man that can't procure their modernised expenses needs like fake hairs, nails, makeups, indecent clothes and others.

Our so much sophiscations is our problem today in the world and we cannot curb it till we obsolete and balance
the reality with some olden lifestyles.
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by debaj10(op): 7:07pm On May 28, 2018
Lonestar124:
Love is money, money is for acquaintance, acquaintance of modern ammenties........some modern strategies has demoralized our state of thinking.

Old are the days when young men are proud to be a farmer. those time the material wealth of a man is measures according to his farmland....all thanks to our consistent farmers feeding the lazy sophisticated ones that wholly depend on blue and white collar jobs.

Virtually the women are sophisticated and are money conscious and won't hold a relationship with a man that can't procure their modernised expenses needs like fake hairs, nails, makeups, indecent clothes and others.

Our so much sophiscations is our problem today in the world and we cannot curb it till we obsolete and balance
the reality with some olden lifestyles.
hard to follow you, but that's the point I'm making.
everyone needs to change their mindset
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by CAPSLOCKED: 7:34pm On May 28, 2018
ubunja:
modern girls are nothing but prostitutes who dont stand at the street corner.

WHAT'S THE NAME FOR THE MODERN BOYS WHO ENGAGE WITH THEM? undecided
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by ubunja(m): 7:36pm On May 28, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:

WHAT'S THE NAME FOR THE MODERN BOYS WHO ENGAGE WITH THEM? undecided
modern boys are in Friendzones. we call them Nice Guys.
Re: What's The Purpose Of Money In Dating? by Apina(m): 7:37pm On May 28, 2018
So many of our girls are so poor that money is the only standard they have set as goals, so also are most of our young men who have nothing other than money to offer undecided
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