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Sonoflord:
I should continuing enduring being a house maid for 3yrs from now while my mate are out there hustling building customer base.

don't endure anything bro

You got to speak up

Be man and your boss

pedrilo:
bros no vex, if u already know wat to do, why did u come here?
u r very mad!

I don't understand

Sonoflord:
I should continuing enduring being a house maid for 3yrs from now while my mate are out there hustling building customer base.

customer's base is very important here am glad you pointed it out.

if your boss settles you but you have no experience with the market force, dude the settlement is partially useless

Eberechi24:
customer's base is very important here am glad you pointed it out.

if your boss settles you but you have no experience with the market force, dude the settlement is partially useless

you have a point nne.

Eberechi24:
customer's base is very important here am glad you pointed it out.

if your boss settles you but you have no experience with the market force, dude the settlement is partially useless

thanks dear

Eberechi24:
talk your boss first then, remind him again your reason for being in his house, if he care-less then you involve your parents.

if they are in need of house help, they should get one.

don't play with ur prime age

Whatever you do, don’t follow this advice. Confrontation most cases will lead to greater regrets in your condition.

front5line:
Whatever you do, don’t follow this advice. Confrontation most cases will lead to greater regrets in your condition.

which Regrets bro

Regrets of losing your job
Regrets of not been settled after some years

Which regrets surpassed self love, self decision

Never try to please someone
If that person always neglects your efforts and never appreciate it, You just have to be yourself.
Cus the more you go extreme mile to please the person, sure danger must be your reward. Be observant

ghettochild4u:
Why will even marry a woman who won't cook for me n b dependent on my boy...
Hell No, I wonder how some igbo men dey think sef

How many boys are presently serving under you ?

Sonoflord:


Good morning Nl

Please am sorry for disturbing you guys with what am facing in life.
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I am in my early 20's but it seems am losing confidence to make a decision on my own. 2014 I passed my Waec but lost the courage to go beyond waec level so I decided to go and serve my Uncle for 7yrs and after 7yrs he will settle me. My parents and I agreed on my decision, fast forward to this day what I expected is not what am seeing in serving my uncle and my emotions is hurting me everyday If I don't make up my mind.

Let me cut the story short.
When I first arrived in my uncle place everything was going well, I could go to business in the morning until 2016 his mom was shot but luckily she survived the gunshot. They made a decision that his mom will start living with him and I will be the one to take care of her.
I accept his decision and start taking care of her but another one strike which destabilize my Emotions and my whole life. He got married to a lazy wife that can't do everything a married woman could do, since he got married they have turn me from a serving Boy to his business to a house maid.

I am the one that prepared food for them every night, do all kind of kitchen stuff, stay with her at home and uncle do not seems to care about my mission in his house.

As am typing this am still at home while my mate are in market doing their business while I have been staying at home or going to business at least by 11am or 12am, since all this things have been going on for more than 3yrs my parents are not aware of what am passing through all this while only my brother is aware.

And right now have made up my mind to meet my uncle and tell him, am sick and tired of what I have been passing through in his house. Or inform my parents my condition or quit serving him.

Please guys I need your opinion on my condition, what's the best option to apply.

Please forgive my write up.

I need serious advice
Cc Lalasticlala Mynd44

Bro I will tell u what to do but u need to do it if u must get ur uncle to change.....
Talking to him may anger him,I know how these uncles with money usually behave....so I will say keep mute but say something not with words but with actions how?
Whenever u find urself in the market,make business blunders,sell things below cost price,mess up things every now and then,if u have customers,when they come around mispronounce their names,and make sure ur oga is aware of all these,he will be the one to complain and when he does,just apologise and tell him that it was because u are hardly in the market so u weren't abreast with current prizes and trends in the business,trust me he will change.

Diamond23:
just tell him dat he might be jumping frm frying pan to fire by giving hz g.f money to save for him. That method nearly send a friend bk to d villa cux wen he came bk nd demanded for d money the story was not a sweet one.....bk to d tori.....most of dem r d colonial masters of our tym.

this girl isnt like those girls...
cos they are planning to settle down n he don even invest her for business sef