A Nigerian Twitter user Feyo narrated how she almost got played into a relationship with banker who had a baby mama , Wife and a kid.

She tweeted :

@F__E__Y : Lol…. later if we say men are scum you people will start abusing us. So I met this nigga in 2016 when I went to open an account in first bank. He worked there and was pretty nice whenever I was there for any transaction. We exchanged numbers and got talking. He claimed he liked me and all but nothing came out of it all cause I was busy with work then so the whole thing just died down. And I stopped going to the bank for months thanks to online banking so it made it easier. Fast forward to last month..had issues with my BVN so I had to get to the bank (he still works there) .He opened the account for me then so I was directed to him.Then he started talking about how I just shot him out and all.I apologized and he started talking about feelings again. He had forgotten we followed each other on IG when we first met and that I knew he had a kid already. I brought it up and he claimed he wasn’t married but had a baby mama that was giving him trouble so they ended up not getting married and aren’t even living together. Said he never stopped liking me and would like us to start afresh. We exchanged numbers and got talking again. Though I wasn’t ready to rush into anything so I just kept the whole thing casual. He would always say nice sweet things and all…blah blah blah Fast forward to this evening ,Messaged him now cause he always complained that I wasn’t chatting regularly with him. He was a bit off…. so I wanted to end the chat but he apologized and started claiming “I’m here for your bullshit… let’s talk . Then I decided to check my WhatsApp status..guess what I saw? This Man did his introduction today fam like I was shook! When I saw d pictures of him & another woman wearing “Anko” I thought it was a play play something so I decided to reply the status with “happy married life”. And guess what the nigga said …. “thank you” he had the nerves. So Mr man had already proposed to another woman and was planing wedding when he was toasting me. All I could think of was what if I had fallen for all the sweet words and said yes.

So is thah how i would see introduction pictures today? and the sad part is he is so unapologetic about it and still wants us to continue the way we were. Like nothing has changed . The person I pity is the new wife.
Lagos Men no dey smile ooo

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It could also be that due to your high headedness and shakara, he opted for another reasonable woman... I think you just lost and it's paining your ass like mad. Good luck next time but just try to drop your pride.

so you meet 1 man who plays you then suddenly ALL MEN are players?? are you bad at maths or you bad at thinking??

nonsense

Once a hungry girl sees banker or money, their brain stops working, stick to your former boyfriend

The guy is immature and has no self control, his marriage will definitely suffer

Somebody will come and say it’s because of her shakara. This is Nigeria, where our men will never take responsibility for their actions. Smh

Lol..... I laughed my ass out

Is she just knowing this? Learner!
Actually most guys love to make shakara girls like u cry. He was probably waiting for the right time to strike.

pimpchi:
It could also be that due to your high headedness and shakara, he opted for another reasonable woman... I think you just lost and it's paining your ass like mad. Good luck next time but just try to drop your pride.

She no dey NL na

Bluezy13:

She no dey NL na

Atleast others like her that have the same mentality would learn...

lol it pain am...see the epistle

Stop playing the victim card.Dont you have couple of boyfriends before you met him as well?If he is a scum you are a scam.




There are signs to know if a man is married.

He won't let you access to his mobile phone or to his password when she ask for it.

He will always want her to come and meet him in a hotel for a quickie.

He will not want to walk with her.If he does,he will be hiding or keeping some distance away from her.Although signs like these don't occur if he or she is in a long distance relationship.


He doesn't pick her call regularly.That is when he is his wife or main chick.

Lies
A guy who wants to play you will block you from viewing his whats app status ( guys are not dumb).

this one think say we no get sense

another one abeg

So he should have been waiting for you.

So because I want to eat pounded yam and there's just rice I should not eat Abi?

All I see is an epistle coming from a pained lady who's dissapoinnted that her chaser is getting married.

Fvckin go hang yourself and watch his marriage go successful while you keep writing epistle on social media.

She already knew he was into another woman so why did the picture scare her out? Damn.

I don't like it when Nigerian girls behave like otondos.

Saff:
Somebody will come and say it’s because of her shakara. This is Nigeria, where our men will never take responsibility for their actions. Smh

I dnt understand, so d rest of nigerian men r supposed 2 take responsibility 4 this guy's actions?

They will only tell us the side of the story that favours them. Any way, what is my business with your life self?

He asked you out, you neither told him YES or NO! You Friend-zoned him.

Meanwhile, he was exploring other options which clicked and you expect an explanation? For what?

The guy did no wrong!

All these people saying all men are scum, remember all men includes your father, brothers, uncles, cousins, nephews, grandpa, great grandpa,in fact,the list is endless. Anyways, you should be happy that you didn't end up with him not ranting.

All I see is just a foolish girl.

Naija women worst in africa wif their satanic entitlements

Naija babes, sorry o
The guy has made his choice and lo, it's not you

Chai, fear men.

JupiterGeekVII:
Chai, fear men.

Fear them

DonPiiko:
Once a hungry girl sees banker or money, their brain stops working, stick to your former boyfriend

bankers that are hungry beings on suit.

why she come worwor like this nau

The only good thing is their easy access to loans and profit sharing.

Dillusionist:

bankers that are hungry beings on suit.

Saff:
Somebody will come and say it’s because of her shakara. This is Nigeria, where our men will never take responsibility for their actions. Smh

And our women take responsibility for their actions

Both men and women are involved in the game of deception. In fact, ladies do worse because they'll leave the guy totally broke, and guess what, the guy dares not complain because people would rather mock him.